I don't agree with abortion in general but I see this as an understandable exception.
and there is the problem
it has nothing to do with you, it doesn't affect you
you "agreeing" with it is irrelevant
what others do, that doesn't harm you, cause you issues, isn't about you
there are only 2 people, but ultimately 1 who are concerned
your "understanding" isn't wanted or needed
what you're talking about is wanting to be a control freak, power over others
only a zealot would think you should have that power over others
specially when there are at least 5 Billion too many people on the planet already, which does affect you indirectly