Most of my gripes are purely at an aesthetic level:
- Copying the Kim Kardashian, paint-by-numbers make-up job. As if she's ready to fly off to Dubai if someone paid her air-fare for mediocre service.
- Flipping the bird; trying to impress they're some kind of "bad bitch" cliche. Don't they realize people visit providers so they don't get that attitude?
- Associating the hobby to rap-culture. I hate country music, but rap/hip-hop are the worse. I meet providers because I'm DTF, not because I have delusions of being some kind of pimp gangsta primo #1 whatever/whatever. I want sex, not to be in a rap music video...
- Those who wear their activism on their sleeve, and look the part too. The Kool-Aid coloured, shaven-sides hairdo, scattered tattoos, types that look like they'll talk your ear off about the 'evils of capitalism', and 'black lives matter', or 'the patricharcy', all the while doing it doggie-style...
- Ads with a lot of "No" attached to it. I get the lady has some restrictions on what she's willing to NOT do. But I read one ad that had over a dozen "No's" on it, which gives me the impression that she wants to do very little for the going rate.
- Listing off their offerings like it's microtransactions in a videogame; "150/15, 220/30, 260/45, 300/60, CIM/40, COB/50, COT/60, COF/70, RIM/40, MSOG 80, GRK/1000".... like really, why? What's next? Doggie/100, Missionary/145, Cowgirl/150, Reverse Cowgirl/175, Rusty Trombone/15.... Can't just give a flat rate instead?
- I'll also put in a blurb about their social media habits too. I've tried finding providers on X, and when you glean over their feed, you see many providers crapping on how "men are scum", "clients are perverts"... and it's annoying to see such delusion, when their main source of income are those scummy perverts to begin with. If sex work is that bad, then go find work elsewhere; the pay might not be as glamourous, but at least you'll make room for providers who still care about their position in life.
- Ladies who use coded words for hard drugs, like 'snow bunny', or 'Molly'...
- Weak ad descriptions. Sloppy formatting. I don't expect a university dissertation, but at least some effort in their salesmanship.
- It's already mentioned about selfies with messy rooms, but what also irks me is the exact opposite. Rooms with NOTHING in the background. Zero personality. Just a bed on a hardwood floor, no pictures, not "lived" in at all... I realize they probably rented an AirBnB to do their shots. But if a girl is advertising they're part of the high-rise condo scene, and I want to have sex in front of a cityscape backdrop, I have to ask is that what she's offering? Or will I expect her incall to be some $2000/month converted broom-closet in some DTES SRO?.... Not a deal-breaker, but certainly misleading.
