What are some things providers do that make you not want to book with them?

[jeffu]

1) Put "Party Girl" anywhere in their ad. This is probably the single biggest red flag for me.
2) A social media presence which makes them appear entitled or resentful or which suggests that fundamentally they don't like their clients, their work or even men in general.
3) Get too agressive after an initial text. I think we should be able to inquire about rates, availability & specific services without being prepared to commit to a booking right away.
4) Screening processes that are too invasive. Safety is of course important but clients are putting themselves at risk too. There needs to be a balance.

 

[westwoody]

“For more information see my twitter and instagram”
So you look them up and their accounts are private?

Party girl=absolutely nope
Party favours=even worse
Anyone responding deserves whatever happens to them.

 

[angry anderson]

Obsessive scratching.

 

[Pgup]

Unnecessary attitude in their posts. It shows.

 

[rizzgod]

Many good points that I agree with have already been mentioned.

To include something new that hasn't been said yet. how they respond to a negative or slightly negative review.

If a provider I'm really interested in has one or two negative reviews, it likely won't deter me from seeing them. However, if I witness the provider reacting poorly to a negative review by having a meltdown, name-calling, or displaying unprofessional behaviour, I will be less inclined to see them.

 

[lukom]

"Safe Play Only. Party and play!"
In other words: "I don't kiss, allow daty, or bbbj. Let's do drugs!"
The contradiction of everything being safe, yet will do drugs with you.

 

[goldeneye111]

1. Entitlement to gifts. Bragging about gifts. (Nothing wrong with gifts and wish-lists but it's the entitlement to them that turns me off.)
2. Showing middle-finger in photos.
3. Taking pictures, sitting on piles of money.
4. Virtue signalling.
5. "Party friendly".

 

[Uncled]

Duck Face selfies

 

[rubylabellexo]

1. Entitlement to gifts. Bragging about gifts. (Nothing wrong with gifts and wish-lists but it's the entitlement to them that turns me off.)
2. Showing middle-finger in photos.
3. Taking pictures, sitting on piles of money.
4. Virtue signalling.
5. "Party friendly".

What about someone who acknowledges gifts in a more low-key, humble way? For example, a picture of a nice sushi dinner and 'grateful for the delicious meal I was treated to last night! One of my favourite cuisines'.
Some people like having ideas on what a provider might enjoy as a treat.

 

[YaletownFuckboi]

What about someone who acknowledges gifts in a more low-key, humble way? For example, a picture of a nice sushi dinner and 'grateful for the delicious meal I was treated to last night! One of my favourite cuisines'.
Some people like having ideas on what a provider might enjoy as a treat.

Do what you want, but I dont see the purpose.
many guys wont find it appealing, and it can actually be a pretty big turn off.
We also don't really know if a client really took you out for dinner or got you a gift. Many providers have been caught lying about that kind of stuff in the past.
It moreso seems like one is trying to show off to other providers, because its a negative or neutral for clients.
It can also come off as begging, which seems desperate, and like you dont have alot of clients.
$100 sushi dinner is not a flex.

 

[rizzgod]

When a provider shares pictures of gifts received from clients, their FMTY, or dinner dates on twitter, it's the equivalent to seeing a man wearing a $500 Gucci (or other pricey brand) t-shirt on the street. 9 out of 10 times, that guys broke, 50% of the times the t-shirt is fake, and 99% of the time the guys a massive douchebag.

 

[goldeneye111]

What about someone who acknowledges gifts in a more low-key, humble way? For example, a picture of a nice sushi dinner and 'grateful for the delicious meal I was treated to last night! One of my favourite cuisines'.
Some people like having ideas on what a provider might enjoy as a treat.

Yes, I love it when SPs acknowledge a client's gift or a wonderful dinner date. It's the tasteless bragging and entitlement that turns me off.

 

[Rackattack]

Probably just my own insecurity but when I see posts of fancy dinners, yachts, and other amazing gifts… it makes me think man, I can’t offer anything beyond treating you decently, a tip and maybe a few laughs.

I feel reluctant to book them.

….
Maybe I should be thinking, man - I could get pretty much the same deal as that billionaire for $600! 😅


also, I think Mia Kane is about a 10!

 

[KimiShell]

1) Bad breathe, lack of hygiene, any drug-related
2) Asked too much about my personal information, including job, salary, etc.
3) Dead fish, bad service.

 

[puppy]

Love you too 💋

/\/\ this /\/\
thankfully they eventually disappear

 

[rubylabellexo]

Do what you want, but I dont see the purpose.
many guys wont find it appealing, and it can actually be a pretty big turn off.
We also don't really know if a client really took you out for dinner or got you a gift. Many providers have been caught lying about that kind of stuff in the past.
It moreso seems like one is trying to show off to other providers, because its a negative or neutral for clients.
It can also come off as begging, which seems desperate, and like you dont have alot of clients.
$100 sushi dinner is not a flex.

Definitely not intended to be a flex, moreso intended to gives some ideas of things we could enjoy together on a date (eg. ordering a few rolls of sushi to taste).
I appreciate everyone's perspective though, and it's interesting to see some quite different opinions!

 

[badbadboy]

I’ve never figured out the mindset of a touring SP posting all the expensive gifts received from recent clients.

Is it boasting to other SP’s to get a reaction of competitive jealousy?

Is it aimed at clients in the next city on tour? This is what’s expected boys!

I saw on Twitter years ago a touring SP’s hotel room filled with recognizable brands of expensive shoes, clothing and purses. I had some fun banter online with her before she posted that picture. It didn’t inspire me to book a date afterwards

 

[jgg]

I always figured no matter how they post, how they boast, they all take your money at par.

 

[Americanboy]

This thread has some really good answers, most of which would be universally agreed upon by pooners.

Do you think that a single provider will actually read this and make changes to their actions, advertising, or presentation?

 

[kelcaine]

I’ve never figured out the mindset of a touring SP posting all the expensive gifts received from recent clients.

Is it boasting to other SP’s to get a reaction of competitive jealousy?

Is it aimed at clients in the next city on tour? This is what’s expected boys!

I saw on Twitter years ago a touring SP’s hotel room filled with recognizable brands of expensive shoes, clothing and purses. I had some fun banter online with her before she posted that picture. It didn’t inspire me to book a date afterwards

This is marketing, where some providers do this to try to attract clients who may have more money or gift them luxury gifts… and a lot of the time these aren’t even true, and gifts they got themselves or they don’t have at all.

I think some do this to brag as well. I mean it’s nice to thank clients for their gifts but there is a difference between being appreciative and with boasting/bragging. So I guess using your judgment is also important with this.

But some people out there are materialistic and like luxury items. Personally I enjoy just thoughtful gifts at all given to me. I have a regular who now brings in candles he gets from his work because he knows how much I like candles. It’s not something I ever expect but the thought behind it means a lot to me.