What are some things providers do that make you not want to book with them?

bruce.pepper

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I know this is dumb, but posting about what a good banging they just got, or about how they've had so many clients in one day. It just makes me feel kind of ick going in immediately after that. But like I said, I know it's dumb, lol.
same with the fmty. and the pictures on dinner dates.
let me pretend that your body count isnt in the thousands.
 

lukom

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To add to that, SP's who's bitch about men who cheat, when they're literally offering a venue and facilitating cheating. Imagine a drug dealer believing that addicts deserve to OD and die.
 

poonerboi

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Bitching about clients who ask for a "menu" while providing zero information in their ad or on their website about what services they offer.
Also, providers who don't make it clear that they aren't seeing new clients, and then blast guys on social media who aren't regulars but are trying to set something up.
I think it may be the actual term "menu" that pisses them off. I know my atf can't stand it. But yeah it's tough cause apparently Leos doesn't allow the girls to advertise specific services . I just tend to ask what the restrictions are or ask them specifically for what I'm after .
 

blakealridge

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To add to that, SP's who's bitch about men who cheat, when they're literally offering a venue and facilitating cheating. Imagine a drug dealer believing that addicts deserve to OD and die.
Wouldn’t it be more like a drug dealer who wants their clients to get sober 🤔

Brb I think there’s a shovel in the back somewhere I’ll go grab it and keep digging
 

white Ninja

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Bitching on public forums about clients wanting appointments between , 9:00 am and Noon. Bitching on forums about clients wanting to book appointments in the evening . Calling their own clients or possible customers “ clueless idiots “ who “ have no idea “ on a public forum . Implying ( on a public forum) that the customer should actually pan handle to the professional and ask what time is better for her , or ok for her , & re arrange your entire day to suite her schedule, even though she’s the one getting paid and the one who’s job it is, as if we have no lives .

Talk about leaving a bad taste in your mouth , leaves a very strong impression, as in I will never forget how unprofessional that provider is . Also publicly implying that pooners in general are idiots who don’t “ get it “ says everything I need to know about her character .
Yuck ! Just Yuck !
 

westwoody

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^ Pretty much everything he said.
A few women think they are being witty and sarcastic but just come across as assholes. That makes me think they must be insufferable in person.
I don't care how fucking hot you are ( or fancy yourself to be), if you act like an asshole I don't want to waste a second of my time tolerating your bullshit.

There's a twitter thread right now with a hundred or more comments from ladies talking about how stupid men are. This isn't about escorts and clients, these are just fucked up people and drama queens. Nobody needs that.

It's interesting that the two most gorgeous women I have ever spent time with almost never talk about other escorts or customers.
 

YaletownFuckboi

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^ Pretty much everything he said.
A few women think they are being witty and sarcastic but just come across as assholes. That makes me think they must be insufferable in person.
I don't care how fucking hot you are ( or fancy yourself to be), if you act like an asshole I don't want to waste a second of my time tolerating your bullshit.

There's a twitter thread right now with a hundred or more comments from ladies talking about how stupid men are. This isn't about escorts and clients, these are just fucked up people and drama queens. Nobody needs that.

It's interesting that the two most gorgeous women I have ever spent time with almost never talk about other escorts or customers.
Its almost never the providers who are universally considered attractive who are acting like that.

its usually the ones who are 5's or 6's who think they are 10s acting like that. news flash, if you were a 10 you wouldnt be escorting.
 

Vpete

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Wow this thread has som stuff in it.

Social media obviously plays a big role in this and it does for me as well.

As an active social media user I know I have contradicted myself over time on many things, hence I get the ‘in the moment mentality’ of posts and reacting to the world around.

However some things seem so odd to me. Take this theme- SW are independent business people like any other business. - I agree!! But please gift me cash for my pet’s surgery or spa day after yesterday posting about a 5 figure Onlyfans month.

Or SW are persecuted on X and shadowbanned, but some actively are telling others what kind of content should be posted as it could be triggering for others. So we want censorship but only when it aligns with our ideology?

We all take the risk with social media of what we post and our brand being associated with it. Have made those mistakes professionally a few times. It has consequences at times.

So a turn off- as the question was asked is when I find there is a consistent double standard that a provider exhibits. That makes me wonder who I’m really seeing, the brand they want or the person they are trying to mask.
 
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westwoody

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People (in this case sw’s) get shadowbanned because someone else complains about their content/images. Often it is another sw complaining.
X has very little moderation.
If you watch sw accounts you can see some posting very explicit content, while others get bans for very mild images. Some sw’s definitely have people stalking them and making trouble for them.
 

masterpoonhunter

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Since this thread refers to a new SP to the pooner, my take on this will be from the limited view, well maybe not that limited, but my view from the SP's ads and from comments here. I am not a big social media consumer so only drop into that cesspool if I really have to. I am echoing a lot of what is in this post, so its good to know there is a bit of a consensus on what is enticing and what is not.

Take out obvious red flags and consistent poor reviews, if I look at what is left I guess I would make the decision based on what is offered vs what is denied. Many ads have more NO's than YES's. That is a no book.
No pricing, no general location. Not a complete no but definitely not a "oh boy, I am gonna book this highly anticipated encounter".
A well documented red flag but a hard NO for me, is REAL PICTURES, 100% or higher REAL. Yeah I know the picture is real I am looking at it, but is it of the SP and is it within the last decade as a start.
And as a matter of course since I started pooning in the 70's I do not send a deposit, or send a car, or any other such thing. I don't even carry ID into a session, so any suggestion of a deposit gets a pass.
The language in many ads has been translated so taking that with a grain of salt, there may be a NO in there if the impression is there will be a real communication issue as in "I paid for this and the SP denies it etc".

I am sure there are others, maybe more salient but for what its worth those are my NO's.
 

dare.devil

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Not quite true. I have been with lots of 9.75- 11s. Smart ,beautiful, in shape and horny.
The ones that like their job +.
Agree on 10s in this industry and everything else except "Smart".

Even for me, coming to this hobby was the dumbest decision of my life. But cant go back and change it.
 
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masonjar

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It irritates me when the ad has no rates and then say no low ballers!
I don't respond to ads that don't show the rates because it wastes my time!
This for sure. I don't bother with any ad that has no rates because I feel their prices are not fixed but are the highest they can get from me. This suggests their services also change, the least they have to provide me when I show up.
 
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