What are your thoughts on men who pay for services from providers aged 18-20? And what about those aged 18-25? In my opinion, I find it distasteful when men engage with providers who are under 25 years old. Research suggests that the brain doesn't fully mature until the age of 25. I believe that such behavior from these men is rather repulsive, and I dont care whose feelings I hurt.
What are your thoughts on men who pay for services from providers aged 18-20? And what about those aged 18-25?
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18-19 is extremely young. They most likely have been influenced by friends, sugar bb culture, sex worker culture etc
Depending on the province, at those age, you were still considered a teenager last year so to me this is very weird.
I remember being 20 and having the booker advertise me as a 18 year old and that’s also part of the problem. The clients I met were for most very predatory and not very respectful.
Depending on the province, at those age, you were still considered a teenager last year so to me this is very weird.
I remember being 20 and having the booker advertise me as a 18 year old and that’s also part of the problem. The clients I met were for most very predatory and not very respectful.
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Pretty much a grey area. But then who tells the truth about their age in this profession? Someone is 22, looks younger and they advertise her as 18. You go see her in that pretext then feel guilty about it. Not aure what to say. Despite of whatever anyone says, everyone involved in it hides the truth - one way or the other. The clients also tell different names, age, locations, marital status. So, who to blame.
On the other hand, once a provider starts putting an ad, is over 18 and engaging in the consensual sex then why it matters if the client is 22 or 72? Why should they feel guilty in this nature of work? Legally adult and consensual are the keywords here.
On the other hand, once a provider starts putting an ad, is over 18 and engaging in the consensual sex then why it matters if the client is 22 or 72? Why should they feel guilty in this nature of work? Legally adult and consensual are the keywords here.
As long as it's within the bounds of the law and agreed upon by all parties involved, what does it matter? After all, we're not entering a romantic relationship with the women we hire.
I was "18" when I first saw an escort. I saw many escorts before I turned 25, and I'm still in my twenties.
Am I considered a victim who was taken advantage of? Because honestly, I don't feel that way at all.
I was "18" when I first saw an escort. I saw many escorts before I turned 25, and I'm still in my twenties.
Am I considered a victim who was taken advantage of? Because honestly, I don't feel that way at all.
Oh man. So this opinion does not apply to young women who are pressured into exploitative situations. But:
As someone that started at 18, I actually advertised a couple years older for a while. I obviously had a lot of regular clients that were super into a lot of things about me, youth likely being at the top of that list, but I didn’t see a problem with it. I was getting through school, living well, and had so many more great sessions than not.
The further you get from teenage hood, the more you see teens as kids, so I understand the disgust. But as a sw teen I was happy and not feeling exploited. I’ve evolved into a young woman since then, sexually, emotionally, intellectually etc. Some guys would have preferred me before, some will prefer me now.
There are many things we can legally do before a fully developed brain… Nevertheless thereS no need to judge the experimentalism that is youth. Or the clients on the other side of that youth’s choices
As someone that started at 18, I actually advertised a couple years older for a while. I obviously had a lot of regular clients that were super into a lot of things about me, youth likely being at the top of that list, but I didn’t see a problem with it. I was getting through school, living well, and had so many more great sessions than not.
The further you get from teenage hood, the more you see teens as kids, so I understand the disgust. But as a sw teen I was happy and not feeling exploited. I’ve evolved into a young woman since then, sexually, emotionally, intellectually etc. Some guys would have preferred me before, some will prefer me now.
There are many things we can legally do before a fully developed brain… Nevertheless thereS no need to judge the experimentalism that is youth. Or the clients on the other side of that youth’s choices
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Most of the ladies I see are 18-20.
Trouble is, in the hour it takes me to drive there and park, they've aged to 45-50.
FML.
Trouble is, in the hour it takes me to drive there and park, they've aged to 45-50.
FML.
Questioning other people’s morality? On a forum literally named Perb?
A woman of legal age can sign the dotted line to join the military and go get fucked by the government for very little pay but she can’t get fucked by the public for good money because your ethics suggest a moral high ground?
I’m not one of these anti-government whack-a-doo people but don’t they already have a monopoly in this department?
I’ll have to ponder this.
A woman of legal age can sign the dotted line to join the military and go get fucked by the government for very little pay but she can’t get fucked by the public for good money because your ethics suggest a moral high ground?
I’m not one of these anti-government whack-a-doo people but don’t they already have a monopoly in this department?
I’ll have to ponder this.
I think something to keep in mind here is there's a huge difference between being attracted to someone in a relationship way and just purely in a sexual way. I prefer not to share my exact age for privacy, but I'm young enough that there wouldn't be a significant age gap for me to be with a younger legal aged escort or civilian. I get a decent amount of girls in the 18-21 age range hitting me up on dating apps and in person, and thats quite common for men my age, and even guys 5-10 years older than me. I probably wouldn't be interested in a long-term relationship with a girl in that age range, almost certainly not. But for something casual, or just purely sexual why not? Let's not act like there aren't tons of younger women chasing and pursuing older guys. And let's not forget that the real ages of escorts can be quite unpredictable. Many of them claim to be significantly younger than their actual age. I can't even keep track of the occasions when I booked with a girl who was supposed to be my age or just a few years younger, and then I arrive, only to find a woman who looks at least ten years older than me or more.
First, welcome to PERB. Or more likely, welcome back, as it's almost beyond belief that someone with a new account starts off their posting history here calling a large part of the membership here repulsive.
Second, you are not the judge of what's acceptable and what isn't for the board, or any of the members here, save yourself. You may believe that passionately, it's your right to your opinion, but you don't make the rules. I can tell your opinion means exactly jack squat to most folks here. Those over 18 are legally adults, and it's pretty presumptuous of you to tell them who they can and cannot have sex with, paid or not. If you have some actual knowledge or expertise, feel free to share, otherwise, please keep your morality and your high horse in check, or your stay here will be a short one.
Some studies have shown that as women get older, their taste in men tends to change, while men's preferences for women stay pretty consistent no matter how old they are. The data also reveals that, purely based on physical appearance, men of all ages typically find women in their early 20s the most attractive. On the other hand, women generally tend to rate men who are around their age or a bit older as the most attractive. This was found when men and women were asked to rate and evaluate pictures of the opposite sex. Data collected from dating apps also reflects a similar trend. It is likely a biological factor that men are attracted to women who are in their most fertile years.
from my observations as an OnlyFans manager, it seems that younger girls generally perform quite alot better than older women on the platform, and the data reflects this too. Many older women will also attempt to discourage younger women from participating in certain sex work activities, perceiving them as competition, as well as shaming men for liking the younger woman
And thats not even getting into the cosmetic, fitness, fillers, botox, and plastic surgery industries, where women are constantly trying to look younger.
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from my observations as an OnlyFans manager, it seems that younger girls generally perform quite alot better than older women on the platform, and the data reflects this too. Many older women will also attempt to discourage younger women from participating in certain sex work activities, perceiving them as competition, as well as shaming men for liking the younger woman
And thats not even getting into the cosmetic, fitness, fillers, botox, and plastic surgery industries, where women are constantly trying to look younger.
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To be fair, I think 18 is also very young to join the army.
If you’re hiring the youngest you can legally, you know the only reason you’re not fucking someone younger is because it’s illegal 💁🏼♀️
The people advertising “just turned 18” make me raise my eyebrows.
I find girls aged 18-22 to be the most beautiful, but I'd never see them because: they usually have bad attitudes or are unprofessional, are immature due to age, don't know what they are doing in bed as they are inexperienced, too many restrictions because "ew thats icky!", may end up being underage, more likely to be trafficked, more likely to be a setup for getting robbed, more likely to be a fake ad, and they usually charge more due to their age and looks but the service doesn't match the price you pay.
If there is a legit good teen provider, I would see her, but haven't met one yet in 15 years of pooning.
If there is a legit good teen provider, I would see her, but haven't met one yet in 15 years of pooning.
I find it gross and weird, legal or not, but I never took advertised age seriously. I always assumed the real age of the person is 5-10 years higher than advertised.
Enh, we are all just trying to make our $. We all know the demand is there, so why not take advantage of it?
I also wanna add that I don’t agree with OP that it’s a brain development issue that makes it gross. It’s a *fetishizing children* (especially young women) issue which is ingrained in our culture. I don’t think it’s instinctual to be attracted to the youngest women possible; I think it’s something we’ve been conditioned to desire.
Look at all the 007 movies for example! We don’t have Jane Bond with Gillian Anderson and Bieber as a bond boy. Although I kinda wish we did 😂
Look at all the 007 movies for example! We don’t have Jane Bond with Gillian Anderson and Bieber as a bond boy. Although I kinda wish we did 😂
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