Pre-payment/considerations
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LADY-VIA
I’ve gone there. Some people are ok with it. Especially for overnights. But others find it disrespectful or insulting to their character. It’s a crap shoot on both ends, and you rely on your own trust & instinct.
To the original poster. I need to agree with the consensus here. There are just so many top quality whores that don't need to take a deposit. Maybe if u get scammed by pre paying you'll learn your lesson. Or worst yet, revealing your personal details to someone thAt will black mail you. All I need to say is to quote Nelson muntz. Haha!
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LADY-VIA
When you pay us, you can call us whatever you please. Until then, we have names or just generalize us as a no name group, beyond service provider. I can run my mouth too.
I have trouble staying hard while y'all fumble with the condom wrapper. Imagine what it'll be like if I have to run out and find an Amazon card, to boot.
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LADY-VIA
1) I’m amazed you find it appropriate to use the term “whores” on a site where many providers will use your conduct for vetting purposes.
2). I’m sorry you got scammed, I guess some people are a bit lazy when it comes to researching. Or as PT Barnum once said “ A suckers born every minute”
3) you go ahead and stick with your “top quality black mailing scamming whores” that don’t ask for deposits. I’ll stick with the lovely women I’ve met who are very reasonably asking for due considerations.
Have a great day
OP, I definitely agree with you on the remark about the language, but in my opinion it is utterly nonsensical to infer that a provider who requires a deposit might be in some ways superior to those who do not. Ive personally only seen one provider who requested a gift card deposit, and she was no better IMO than others I’ve experienced at her rate who don’t require deposits. On the flip side, my ATF providers, who don’t ask for deposits, are member acclaimed rockstars in the business, and charge as much or more than many ladies who do.1) I’m amazed you find it appropriate to use the term...
....that don’t ask for deposits. I’ll stick with the lovely women I’ve met who are very reasonably asking for due considerations.
Have a great day
I personally have no problem with e-gift or other anonymous deposits, but I’m not willing to put my name out there with an eTransfer. Sucks for me as there are some fine ladies in this city who stick by this policy. I don’t expect an explanation, but I also wonder how safe eTransfers are for providers. I suppose each lady manages her funds differently, but it seems like it could be risky to have too much money without a legitimate source in a bank account.
I could be in minority (I highly doubt that I am though) but I find your use of the W..... word a bit disrespectful to say the least. Respect goes a wrong way, just remember the next time you use your handle as a reference.
People do get scammed, I agree. Although there are no guarantees in life, but many people do get scammed are not relying on PERB. Only once, just ONCE, I got scammed initially and that girl was just passing thru our city and had no review. I was new and I learned my lesson.
Also, you don't need to give your personal details to send gift cards. Times have changed and expect more and more ladies to ask for some form of electronic deposits.
My inference was more towards my comfort (ie..more levels of screening reduce chances of immature situations). In the same way a twitter feed is a sign of the type of personality you’ll meet, or a professional website can in-still confidence a SP will be professional. I don’t infer they are superior by your standards or anyone else’s standards, just mine. I think you’ll agree that this place is a very good example of “to each their own”. From what I’ve seen, from following providers on Twitter, no shows are a problem, and pre-payment is a way to deal with it. Granted not all are using this method, and the ladies I’ve seen have been gracious enough to “grandfather” me. I guess I just looked at this to see if a creative SP or pooner has discovered a useful way to do so. (Essentially it seems Etransfer if you have a really good trusting relationship or amazon gift card if they accept it and you want a bit more security) At the moment, there’s nothing really that new at the moment.
Lastly, if we look at risk, we have to acknowledge both sides can be at great financial/personal/legal risk. But given the costs associated to SPs maintaining advertising, space rentals and possibly security. It makes sense they mitigate losses. As I said in the original post, much like other businesses do. We’re not at a point where electronic transfers are the norm for this activity, but it is picking up. Just like it’s picking up through out the countries economy.
This ^^^^^^^
The day you meet, have cash in your pocket to pay for the time together. Do not pull it out of your pocket until you are there, confirm its the person in the photos you saw, talk briefly to confirm she is sober and not on drugs, you are alone not some pimp waiting to hassle you, then and only then pull out the cash. Always be prepared to walk away! Never prepay!
The day you meet, have cash in your pocket to pay for the time together. Do not pull it out of your pocket until you are there, confirm its the person in the photos you saw, talk briefly to confirm she is sober and not on drugs, you are alone not some pimp waiting to hassle you, then and only then pull out the cash. Always be prepared to walk away! Never prepay!
Proceed with caution.
One one hand SPs need to protect themselves. There's costs involved. Transportation, incall fee or hotel costs, childcare, etc.
But, I'll play devils advocate. When there's complaints about out of the blue unsolicited texts and calls, deposits getting ripped off, threats of releasing clients personal information over trivial matters and chatter about blackmail, well I cant blame guys for wanting to be cautious.
This is an unregulated industry and there's malicious people on both sides.
Be careful who you trust. And always trust your instincts. If anything feels off with a situation, politely decline and move on.
One one hand SPs need to protect themselves. There's costs involved. Transportation, incall fee or hotel costs, childcare, etc.
But, I'll play devils advocate. When there's complaints about out of the blue unsolicited texts and calls, deposits getting ripped off, threats of releasing clients personal information over trivial matters and chatter about blackmail, well I cant blame guys for wanting to be cautious.
This is an unregulated industry and there's malicious people on both sides.
Be careful who you trust. And always trust your instincts. If anything feels off with a situation, politely decline and move on.
Perb doesn’t have a like button (yet) so I am just dropping a note to let you know you seem like a likeable person1) I’m amazed you find it appropriate to use the term “whores” on a site where many providers will use your conduct for vetting purposes.
2). I’m sorry you got scammed, I guess some people are a bit lazy when it comes to researching. Or as PT Barnum once said “ A suckers born every minute”
3) you go ahead and stick with your “top quality black mailing scamming whores” that don’t ask for deposits. I’ll stick with the lovely women I’ve met who are very reasonably asking for due considerations.
Have a great day
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Katey
Nearly every lady I know has a “legitimate source” and pays her taxes, would be pretty hard to get anywhere in todays society without playing along. I find it interesting that seems to be such a common misconception... How does everyone assume we just magically get luxury incall condos, or credit cards for high end hotels haha.
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Katey
Holy shit, it's like you had a crystal ball:
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...tasia-5132-recently/page3&highlight=Anastasia
I think you should find a new “hobby” this one seems too complicated for you.Hello all,
Apologies if this is the wrong venue. I’ve been doing some research in the world of pre-payments for SPs. They are becoming more regular (which I consider a good thing and a testament to the mainstreaming of this service). However, I’m one of the problem people, in that I’m not completely comfortable with e-transfers. In a perfect world, where I was a stronger soul, I wouldn’t be fearful of anyone knowing a perfectly healthy hobby. However, I’m not very found of my financial advisor and his staff bringing this up to me each quarter like they do tips at restaurants. So I acknowledge this is my problem and I’m in no way asking the great SPs I see or want to see, to change how they’re conducting business.
So that brings me to my problem. I know I could probably talk to the SPs in question, but hell, they answer more useless emails a day then they probably need to, and going into details about options could be more of a pain in the butt I’m willing to be. Plus I’m sure there are many fine gentlemen that have found solutions, and why reinvent the wheel
I’m curious about PayPal. It seems I can probably load it with credit card cash from a pre-bought card I purchase with cash. I’ve seen several SPs recommend e-transfers from Canadian clients and PayPal for American. I assume that has to do with the more Puritan rules in the states at the moment. But is there any problem with Canadians paying with PayPal?
I’m open to amazon gift cards, but I’ve had one SP find difficulty with amazon in her specific location (ie just a huge hassle because of changed amazon delivery protocols) plus as much as amazon may be fine for some things, i’d be choked if my employer paid me half in gift certificates...he doesn’t even give me a massage
I saw a SP on twitter do a survey with other SPs on having a post office box for cash delivery. This didn’t seem a very popular method, and I can imagine why. Mailing cash comes with its own risk, and not too mention the possibilities of that turning into a trap for the SP is scary.
Granted, some folks may have a more secretive solution for this, in which case please feel free to pm me if you’re willing to share.
Lastly, I do believe this is where the industry is heading. And so it should. If I skip out on my dentist or massage therapist (especially last minute) there is an associated charge for that lost time slot. These professional workers are providing a wonderful psychological and physiological (if not theological
Looking forward to hearing and sharing ideas to keep all parties safe, happy, and well compensated.
Cheers,
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And here I thought it was actual magic :scared:
Personally, I'm just waiting for the day that SP's start using Square for all their payment collection needs, especially for lazy buggers like me! But then I guess society would need to drop their weird puritanical values and regulate the industry... Buuuuut I digress, you were explaining your luxury incall condo magic?
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