Why do you perb?
What is the reason for using a service like this? Is it due loneliness?
do you not have a partner?
Are you cheating on your partner?
or using services such as this is far too easy?
is this justifiable?
i am just curious to know why people would use something like this. did something bad happen to you when you were younger? :twitch:
Trolling or not, I'm a "only way out is through" kinda guy.....
1) I use perb because it's like window shopping for quality services. The reviews found on this site help maximize a safe and fulfilling experience for both parties. As well I like to believe the people I meet through this site are there out of their own volition, and not influenced in any way. I like to hear from those in the trade about who they are and their views of the industry, not just out of interest but what I could expect for myself as a potential client.
2) I wouldn't say "lonely", I just don't like leaky faucets. Y'know, you do everything right, normal, play safe, then you get the house, the 6+ figure job, travel once or twice a year, get married have a few kids, things are great, good, safe, vanilla.......but then there is that ONE thing that keeps you up at night like a "leaky faucet", dripping away keeping you up.......
3) Married 20+ years, 3 children.....
4) Define cheating? Is "just sex" cheating? I've come to the epiphany that "cheating or affairs" are matters of the heart. I love my partner, but if she isn't going to fix my "faucet" (the way I like it), I'll look for a "plumber" that will. Doesn't mean I'll leave her and risk all I have for the plumber, does it? Even if she openly admits to never doing "that thing" for/to me, and of the 99% of the things she does do is great anyways, why risk trying to play the field for another partner who'll give the 99% and fulfill that last 1% too?
5) Easy? as in what? Going out to the bar and mack with some lady, buy her a few drinks? Use Tinder? lol, no. At least (professional) SPs know that line between the personal and the business. Meeting on dating sites or at singles bars, opens a whole bunch of other issues, more often than not getting dragged into their personal issues, causing unwanted drama. I just want to keep things simple for my extra curricular activities. IMO, it's much safer to seek an SP here, than easily hook up with a (ie) single mother with a bookshelf full of issues who's looking for someone to latch onto.
6) At my age, anything can be justified, just as I wrote this post.
Extra Question: Nothing happened to me, I'm as normal as normal is......but life does have it's ways to opening larger truths about one's self.
