No Indian, No Black gents

[Avery]

Whatever a lady's reasons for not wanting to see men of certain ethnicities, whether racism or something else, surely it's better for her to be upfront about it in her advertising than to say nothing.

I'm Caucasian, but I can imagine how humiliating and frustrating it would be if a dark skinned person were to show up at an SP's place, only to be told, "I'm sorry, I don't see (fill in the blank) as clients.

Many years ago, I visited a Caucasian Toronto SP in her apartment. When I arrived and knocked on her door, I could see a distorted eyeball in the peephole. When I was leaving, she told me that she always checked new clients out through the peephole. If they were not white, she would pretend to not be home and wouldn't answer the door. They would eventually leave.That's total bullshit, and cowardly too.

I agree that the ladies have the absolute right to see or exclude anyone they want with no reasons given, however, they should reveal who they won't see.

 

[Caramel]

You hit the nail on the head, lack of respect towards the ladies, and also because they paid, try to force themselves beyond the limits and restrictions in place simply thinking they own the girls.
I am not saying every one is like that, but too many of the same ethnicity carry on this behavior , and once the session is done, many time won't pay what is due and try to bargain, or complain to get some money back....
So now the good ones pay for the bad ones.... unfortunate...

You guys are both right, those are the main reasons why I would think of to put "no Indians" on an ad in Vancouver. It's just less hassle and less stress for the SP's and her co-workers etc. Less headache in the long run. Good for your mental health.

 

[Caramel]

Bingo. Women are treated like shit by alot of men in this culture. More like possessions. They don't dare step out of line or they get a beating or shunned by the family in general. The Indian funeral service is a prime example of this. Men and women are separated with the men one side of the chapel and the women on the other. Only the male members of the deceased family may stand by the casket during the viewing of the body. Men view first, then women. Women are expected to wail and cry. Men are expected to remain calm to appear strong to the community. Only the men are allowed in the cremation room to push the casket into the oven. Women have to stand outside and look through the window. I'd love to date an Indian woman as there are some incredibly sexy ones out there, but i know it's a pipe dream as they don't want to risk being booted from their families.

You will have to settle for the Fijian girl instead, most of the Fijian girls I know (even ones who were born in Fiji and came here later in life) ended up marrying white or sometimes Asian guys. Their kids are SO damn cute. And some of these girls are much prettier than many of the Pubjabi girls I have met, even though they are all beautiful in their own ways.

 

[johnywalker87]

Young single Indian guy arranges to meet young Indian SP girl, turns out he knows her uncle dad cousin friends etc...this scenario likely only goes bad one way, likely for her. Hence, often included as well, nobody under age of 30. Same holds true with the Asian community and perhaps African heritage too...

Isn't it the same with whites in small towns of BC? If a white guy books a white SP in those small communities, it's more likely he knows her, her friends or her relatives? A lot of SPs living in those small towns post their ads online.

 

[MissingOne]

Isn't it the same with whites in small towns of BC? If a white guy books a white SP in those small communities, it's more likely he knows her, her friends or her relatives? A lot of SPs living in those small towns post their ads online.

I live in a small town. I never see SPs where I live. I only do it in Vancouver.

 

[LalaniElectrica]

There is quite the stigma out there about both Indian and Black gents. I have experience with gentlemen from all races and walks of life. I have not noticed anything unusual from Indian or black gents out of the ordinary. Like most guys, they arrive showered well groomed and clean cut.

I have no idea why these misconceptions exist, perhaps there are some gents who have some of the previous mindset towards ladies as they would have back in India, idk. It's a learning curve, and if a person rubs you the wrong way or you do not have chemistry then it's always the ladies' perogative to see or not see a person based on their race... Some people only see black ladies, or asian ladies, or white ladies, etc...so we must not have a double standard in regards to what the ladies' choice is...

I have seen a Gorgeous Indian man who was for sure a model or actor, it's possible it was the same gent you saw Priya, idk his name, neither would I share that, but he spoke little to no english and he was in prime physical shape and very polite and respectful. I find black gents to be some of the nicest and most sincere as well. I was raised among all cultures so am very comfortable around all ethnicities. Arab men are always clean and well-groomed, they take great pride in their appearance, and give great massages in my experience. They really know the human body and also are great dancers... Being born and raised in a different area of the country has given me different experiences in that I am comfortable around all cultures but respect everyones' right to choose who they see for whatever reason. As for seeing white or native men, who are my ethnicity for both most part, both I have seen and have had great experiences across the board, I never went to school on the west coast so I never worry about running into a old school mate.. I draw the line at seeing any of my personal friends' men as a client tho. That is my only restrictions in my circle in regards to not seeing a client for any reason, so we all have our comfort zones and preferences...

The odd time someone will act unusual, but it is usually because they are intoxicated or on something or another that causes most people to act unusual. I'm sure there are a few out there from every race who cause problems without being intoxicated, but I just cannot judge an entire race on one or 2 people.

 

[poonmiester]

In my opinion ...those who you find to be rude, impolite, disrespectful, cheap and try to negotiate once the deed is done, are possibly from the lower income.or middle income range, and would never want to spend $300 or more on a session.
If the gentlemen are will ing to spend that kind of money.... chances are they have much better life etiquette and more respectful towards the women, no matter what race color or age.
But what is creating the issue as someone posted previously , mentality of their culture, upbringing, and education they may or may not have.
As I was watching a report on gang rapes in some countries in South Asia or middle East where it's not looked upon as a bad 5hing doing that... accepted by a large portion of the men population almost considered a sport of some sort.
If this was to happen here in North America..... the one that would come up with that idea and start this would probably have his own balls for dinner shoved down his throat....

 

[VanessainVictoria]

*offensive material removed*

 

[Elmore]

Had an Indian gent over. He asked me if I was on my period, told me I was his third choice, complained about my bed; just generally was unpleasant.

Not sure what the point of this post is. We get it...there are jerks in the world and in the industry of all races and genders.

It's up to you if you want to block him...or all EI men going forward.

 

[take8easy]

Had an Indian gent over. He asked me if I was on my period, told me I was his third choice, complained about my bed; just generally was unpleasant.

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Not sure what the point of this post is. We get it...there are jerks in the world and in the industry of all races and genders.

It's up to you if you want to block him...or all EI men going forward.

Well said, Elmore.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Not sure what the point of this post is. We get it...there are jerks in the world and in the industry of all races and genders.

It's up to you if you want to block him...or all EI men going forward.

Sorry if I offended you. My experience made me think of this thread and I just thought I would share as an example. And trust me, I know white men can be jerks, I had one take a crap in my incall.

 

[take8easy]

Sorry if I offended you. My experience made me think of this thread and I just thought I would share as an example. and trust me i know white men can be jerks, I had one take a crap in my incall.

Your experiences with 'can be jerk' white clients never made you think of mentioning them in any of your threads?


Taking a crap at an incall does not make a guy jerk. I don't think so anyways.

 

[Elmore]

Sorry if I offended you. My experience made me think of this thread and I just thought I would share as an example. And trust me, I know white men can be jerks, I had one take a crap in my incall.

Well hopefully he took a crap in the toilet!

I actually wasn't offended. I am not EI and have observed some of the generalizations detailed in this thread. Our personal experiences can't help but shape our opinions of people.

How we react to experiences is up to us whether it's a one off or a general observed pattern of behavior but highlighting one bad experience where the behavior mentioned could have described someone of any race seemed off to me.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Well hopefully he took a crap in the toilet!

I actually wasn't offended. I am not EI and have observed some of the generalizations detailed in this thread. Our personal experiences can't help but shape our opinions of people.

How we react to experiences is up to us whether it's a one off or a general observed pattern of behavior but highlighting one bad experience where the behavior mentioned could have described someone of any race seemed off to me.

I'm having a hard time putting into words what I am thinking so at the risk of offending anyone I'm just gonna whistle and walk away.

 

[PerbMod]

This thread and this topic are now closed. Let's let it drift off into the archive. Future revivals will also be closed before the inevitable shit storm occurs.