So I got put on a SPs blacklist. Ouch

[Debijon]

I'm a bit mixed saddened/shocked/confused even slightly disturbed at the moment but here goes.

couple months ago I see a SP from one of the agencies in town, really really enjoyed the session with her. It seemed she was friendly, I enjoyed chatting and adoring her beautiful body. It wasnt even FS, just a lighter massage session.

1 Month later I decide I want to see her again, I keep getting every excuse out of the book that basically 'she has a cold and canceled all her bookings' 'shes taken by someone out of town all week' 'shes not available but I can book you a different girl'.

Finally last week I get a booking with her. I excitedly drive to the agency.
I show up, finally see her again in her sexy outfit, small talk 'hey, how u've been?', she takes me to the room. So far so good.
She tells me to wait a bit, quickly exits the room without taking the donation, comes back and tells me she has a cold sore on her lip and can't do it today.
'I'm sorry about this, I'm taking a few days off, please rebook. I'll walk you out to the exit' WTF.

So a week later I ask if shes available anytime and then I get this text from the agency.

Honestly I was a bit offended, not at the fact that the SP rejected me (which is her right) but beating around the bush forever and then finally admitting I'm not welcome to see her with a weak copy and paste (I'm guessing they use this frequently). 'Nothing but good things to say for you' ya ok.

Sigh.

 

[giaebonyprincess]

It a little hard to take but try not to take it personally...the connection just wasn't there. Not everyone is for everybody no hard feelings.

Sps get judged on who has the prettiest face, tightest body, softest skin, nicest in call etc. etc. right?!!

Who knows what her reason is and who cares, gives another lucky SP to meet you (potentially)

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Sorry to read that but don't forget there is lots of ladies in the sea.

 

[felixthecat]

Honestly I was a bit offended, not at the fact that the SP rejected me (which is her right) but beating around the bush forever and then finally admitting I'm not welcome to see her with a weak copy and paste (I'm guessing they use this frequently). 'Nothing but good things to say for you' ya ok.

Sorry to hear. If it helps, they were not necessary beating around the bush. If you were on the no-see list after the first visit, they wouldn't even book you the 2nd time, right? Maybe first excuses were real or at least not related to you.
It's possible the girl decided after seeing you again that you remind her too much of a person who hurt her, or whatever reason she might have. I can understand that she didn't want to confront you face-to-face, hoping you won't try again. You did - and the agency told you right away.

"Nothing but good things" - well, if she said terrible things, you wouldn't be welcome as a client at all. So it wasn't too bad.

It's hard not to take it personally, sure. For them it is just a business decision; using a template letter does make sense. It's not a statement something is wrong with you personally; again, they'd banish you completely if they thought so.

 

[stamina]

Who is this person? Maybe others can chime in if they had the same experience.

Otherwise, Sherlock Holmes will need to deduce which agency this is based on the length of the redacted portion which names the company. It's not short enough to be 3 characters long, so it probably isn't XXX. XXXXX perhaps...

 

[felixthecat]

Sherlock Holmes in 21st century could also use OP's posting history to figure out which city (not Vancouver), agency, and which girl was probably not comfortable seeing OP again.

Not that important though for the purpose of the story.

 

[stamina]

I guess Sherlock Holmes took the night off and sent Dr. Watson instead.

 

[Chessmen]

Your letter is a lot more professional and reasonable then what I experienced before. The agency texted me "XX asked not to see you anymore"

 

[sybian]

I had something similar happen to me.
I was a dead ringer for her younger brother, and she couldn't get past it, her jaw dropped when she opened the door ,and she asked me what I was doing there?....but she at least had the decency to tell me face to face.
The fact she had a killer rack didn't help soften the blow either.
Move on Bud....it could've been almost any reason you might imagine.

 

[jamasianman]

You'll live OP. Its not like she was your ATF or anything. Sometimes ladies have their reasons. We are allowed to never see or talk to a provider ever again after. They have the same right.

 

[UhOh]

Ive had one or two ignore me after a few visits, I couldn't care less. There are new girls entering the business daily and this isn't where I'd go if looking for a relationship.

 

[maniacalone]

Who is this person? Maybe others can chime in if they had the same experience.

Otherwise, Sherlock Holmes will need to deduce which agency this is based on the length of the redacted portion which names the company. It's not short enough to be 3 characters long, so it probably isn't XXX. XXXXX perhaps...

Review history suggests SVIP

 

[Claire Monet]

I found this on the twitter the other day. I'm not saying this fits your scenario exactly, but have a read and a ponder.

https://twitter.com/EliteCourtesans/status/899527996352102401

 

[badbadboy]

The agency obviously thinks you are ok as a client and welcomed you to book again with a different SP. That sort of indicates to me that it wasn't anything you may have done. Not sure on it but it's probable.

I've had a few fav's who went totally silent on me and I just moved on but I think wondered if I'd said or done anything ??

Sometimes they have contacted me a year or more afterwards to see if I wanted to get together again. They just wanted a break from the stresses of day to day SP work and it wasn't a personal thing.

I guess not saying it's forever works in these circumstances.

 

[ddcanz]

I agree with just about all that has been said so far- and to me it is always the SP's prerogative to see who she chooses and also reject as she sees fit- in just about any scenario.
However, after numerous attempts at booking had failed without a clear "sorry, bud, but you're out", to then make the date and have the client travel to the agency in good faith to ultimately turn him down is just a bit offside. Why take the booking at all?
Unless the agency made the booking unknowingly and girly had no idea? That would then be fair, IMO.

 

[Elmore]

Thread is the story of my career in this activity. What appeared to be the best sessions I've had were to never be repeated through no fault of either of us.

Just move on.

 

[Avery]

It happens to anyone who has pooned for a long time. It happened to me with a local SP a while back. I had seen her several times, and all sessions were great. I tried to book her again, and ....silence. After three or four unanswered messages, she finally replied, saying she didn't want to see me again - no reasons given. I didn't ask; I just replied, "OK, best wishes", and moved on. That's all you can do. Don't brood over it; she's not your SO, she's a paid companion, and there never were any strings attached. Find another SP.

 

[Debijon]

Thanks for all the replys everyone.

I'm a very casual / lite pooner so the shock and confusion factor was pretty big. I even had some bouts of anger toward her for lying to my face to rebook only to diffuse the situation (yea I understand her perspective too)
I'm still wondering what the real reason was (was it something I did???) but we will never know.

I conversed with the agency about the whole 'arrived there but got turned down' thing which wasted my time and left me majorly disappointed and confused. They were very apologetic and professional about it, explaining some things I didn't know about so I did appriciate that.

sucks that i can't see her again but oh well...

 

[UhOh]

Who knows why she didn't want to see you anymore but it's not worth worrying about. I'm no expert on women but two rules that have served me well are don't get attached to anyone you are paying and never marry a woman with a bad back.

Or a bad credit report.

 

[felixthecat]

I'm still wondering what the real reason was (was it something I did???)

If you are wondering about the reason, I have a theory.

Once I met a girl with a list of rules she told beforehand. One was, not to touch her hair. Guess what, later in the heat of the moment I accidentally touched her hair. Didn't hold or grab it, but it was enough for her to pause briefly and give me a reprimand.
I don't think she blacklisted me, at least she invited me back. Still, if she thought her rules were broken, I imagine she could have decided it was a reason enough.

Now recall your own reviews (or reread them). You'll find a similar situation to what I described. Whether it's the same girl that blacklisted you or not, it is a possible explanation.