A real Hornets nest.
At Post 6, Tant wrote.
“I suspect one reason why Western guys like me are often more warmly welcomed by an Asian micro girl, and perhaps receive better service, is because the girl knows: a Western guy is far more likely to appreciate her than a Chinese guy. He's also more likely to find her looks exotically appealing, even if she's in her 30s or 40s.
And if, in addition, he's expressive about his appreciation, using either basic Pooner Mandarin or body language (or both), she'll do her best to reciprocate. It's not rocket science to know that a woman who feels desired, appreciated and respected is far more motivated to please.”
While this and his other posts are generalizations, I think the observations of tantalizeme as to the asian woman who service pooners are astute, if you look at his caveats, and limit it to the
Asian Sp’s who he as seen and written about.
His observations on service, attitude and even to an extent looks of many Asians in the business parallel mine, except I do not restrict myself to Chinese. Nor do I patronize maggies or MM’s. As such I cannot comment on his rating for looks for specific girls.
I do not think he needs to make it about race or Asian male pooners or even the Asian community as a whole. His adventures stand for themselves, and clearly he has positive experiences with the Asian woman he sees. As such, I read his observations to solely relate to and his positive experiences with even older Chinese ladies and his analysis of why some apparently Asian pooners have different appreciation of the girls he has seen. I suggest he needlessly puts their lesser experiences down to an Asian male attitude. I don’t think it is an Asian thing, but a respect thing.
I think the answer to the differing appreciations can largely be found in a comment by Violet Blake at Post 10
“I always think of people as people first (go figure! lol), and I think that's why I can get along with almost anyone, no matter their age, gender, or culture.”
It is clear to me that Tant (as do I) respects the woman he sees and does not pass judgment. I am sure the woman he sees pick up on that and appreciate his attitude and attention. I have a preference for thin and short and seek woman who respects me as I respect them. Western raised woman on the other hand (this included CBC –canadian born chinese), tend to be taller, bigger boned, more aggressive, and subtly demean the pooner. They say Hun, (deeming) and say or act as if she is doing me a favour to take my money. The majority I have seen are very businesslike on the clock and are clearly acting, as excellent as they may be, this is not a business transaction for the pooner, it is fantasy, It is relaxation, it is a service.
I see a disproportionate number of Chinese or Asian girls as I prefer massage with happy endings to FS, and these are the girls who dominate this aspect. In general if you are looking for great attitude,
Asian or non western woman rock. I have seen absolute stunning young white girls for massage who you would rate a 9 in looks, but attitude is not there, so no repeats and no enjoyment. On the other hand, I have seen 40 year old Chinese, who you may rate a 4, with whom I have repeated many times. And since I am older then even the oldest of these woman, age is not a factor for me, and I can appreciate their beauty and over time their beauty often grows (perhaps they take more time with make up or a positive attitude creates a radiance). Of course I have also seen Asian girls who rate a 9/10 in looks with similar first class attitude. Hoops has met a couple, ask him if my glasses are rose colored.
As an interesting aside, I normally get a similar positive attitude and appreciation from overweight white/western raised girls, as I do from fob Asians. They like me. I have repeated with several but eventually my preference for slim and short leads me back to non western.
It may well be the beautiful 8, 9 and 10 (in looks) western girls were adored and are adored by their clients to the extent they do not need to give superior service or actually believe they are doing the clients a favour. Great but from his posts not for Tant, and from my experiences, not for me either. I may have a larger budget than Tant, but I totally respect the care he takes with his pooning dollar.
Everyone wants money, all pooners have to work for their money, and older pooners maybe grew up in an environment where work and service were synonymous so we can appreciate the apparent extra effort of girls in the business that were not primarily raised in Canada.
I have discussed this with friends who poon, some but not all of whom are Chinese (so it is not a Chinese thing per se) and many take the attitude that the girl is there to service them. Why would I want to talk to them or express and sympathy or concern for them they ask?) Their loss.
Maybe there is more time to talk and appreciate when massage is given and maybe I fall in love too easily but wow there are some very nice woman out there in the service industry.
At Post 6, Tant wrote.
“I suspect one reason why Western guys like me are often more warmly welcomed by an Asian micro girl, and perhaps receive better service, is because the girl knows: a Western guy is far more likely to appreciate her than a Chinese guy. He's also more likely to find her looks exotically appealing, even if she's in her 30s or 40s.
And if, in addition, he's expressive about his appreciation, using either basic Pooner Mandarin or body language (or both), she'll do her best to reciprocate. It's not rocket science to know that a woman who feels desired, appreciated and respected is far more motivated to please.”
While this and his other posts are generalizations, I think the observations of tantalizeme as to the asian woman who service pooners are astute, if you look at his caveats, and limit it to the
Asian Sp’s who he as seen and written about.
His observations on service, attitude and even to an extent looks of many Asians in the business parallel mine, except I do not restrict myself to Chinese. Nor do I patronize maggies or MM’s. As such I cannot comment on his rating for looks for specific girls.
I do not think he needs to make it about race or Asian male pooners or even the Asian community as a whole. His adventures stand for themselves, and clearly he has positive experiences with the Asian woman he sees. As such, I read his observations to solely relate to and his positive experiences with even older Chinese ladies and his analysis of why some apparently Asian pooners have different appreciation of the girls he has seen. I suggest he needlessly puts their lesser experiences down to an Asian male attitude. I don’t think it is an Asian thing, but a respect thing.
I think the answer to the differing appreciations can largely be found in a comment by Violet Blake at Post 10
“I always think of people as people first (go figure! lol), and I think that's why I can get along with almost anyone, no matter their age, gender, or culture.”
It is clear to me that Tant (as do I) respects the woman he sees and does not pass judgment. I am sure the woman he sees pick up on that and appreciate his attitude and attention. I have a preference for thin and short and seek woman who respects me as I respect them. Western raised woman on the other hand (this included CBC –canadian born chinese), tend to be taller, bigger boned, more aggressive, and subtly demean the pooner. They say Hun, (deeming) and say or act as if she is doing me a favour to take my money. The majority I have seen are very businesslike on the clock and are clearly acting, as excellent as they may be, this is not a business transaction for the pooner, it is fantasy, It is relaxation, it is a service.
I see a disproportionate number of Chinese or Asian girls as I prefer massage with happy endings to FS, and these are the girls who dominate this aspect. In general if you are looking for great attitude,
Asian or non western woman rock. I have seen absolute stunning young white girls for massage who you would rate a 9 in looks, but attitude is not there, so no repeats and no enjoyment. On the other hand, I have seen 40 year old Chinese, who you may rate a 4, with whom I have repeated many times. And since I am older then even the oldest of these woman, age is not a factor for me, and I can appreciate their beauty and over time their beauty often grows (perhaps they take more time with make up or a positive attitude creates a radiance). Of course I have also seen Asian girls who rate a 9/10 in looks with similar first class attitude. Hoops has met a couple, ask him if my glasses are rose colored.
As an interesting aside, I normally get a similar positive attitude and appreciation from overweight white/western raised girls, as I do from fob Asians. They like me. I have repeated with several but eventually my preference for slim and short leads me back to non western.
It may well be the beautiful 8, 9 and 10 (in looks) western girls were adored and are adored by their clients to the extent they do not need to give superior service or actually believe they are doing the clients a favour. Great but from his posts not for Tant, and from my experiences, not for me either. I may have a larger budget than Tant, but I totally respect the care he takes with his pooning dollar.
Everyone wants money, all pooners have to work for their money, and older pooners maybe grew up in an environment where work and service were synonymous so we can appreciate the apparent extra effort of girls in the business that were not primarily raised in Canada.
I have discussed this with friends who poon, some but not all of whom are Chinese (so it is not a Chinese thing per se) and many take the attitude that the girl is there to service them. Why would I want to talk to them or express and sympathy or concern for them they ask?) Their loss.
Maybe there is more time to talk and appreciate when massage is given and maybe I fall in love too easily but wow there are some very nice woman out there in the service industry.
