As promised: III. Trouble Asian pooners often have with Western SPs—some hard truths
There`re many things I like about more mature Asian SPs, including the fact that they often convey a strong sense of liking for me as a person.
I hope I`m not completely self-deceived when I say that some even seem to consider me boyfriend material—if only I was interested. It`s always an amazing high when one of these lovely sexpots gives me the feeling I`d be good enough to be her significiant other.
Now I doubt that most Asian pooners—or non-Asian pooners, for that matter—get this same high very often from Western SPs.
But I applaud Asian guys who routinely seek out Western SPs. I think it`s extremely healthy and liberating: a great way for them to break out of their shy-Asian-guy stereotype, to practice relating to Western women, and to become more Alpha, quite apart from experiencing a sublime dimension of erotic pleasure that eludes most non-pooning males in this world.
The Asian pooner who makes the rounds of Western SPs will, typically (there`re many exceptions), also confront a number of challenges. Here`s a grab bag of a dozen such challenges. Just sayin` as I see it, no offence intended to anyone.
1. Businesslike treatment: Asian pooners are likely to be treated, by a Western SP, in a somewhat businesslike way, rarely getting the sense they`d be good enough to be her BF. Of course, there`re some genuinely nice, warm, radiantly lovely ladies among Western SPs—I`d even say, most of those relatively few who post here (Holly Taylor & Erotic Christine are outstanding examples I`ve met).
But let`s face it, a young superhottie growing up in Western culture isn`t likely to acquire character traits like humility, patience, sweetness, empathy for men or even any felt need to develop great erotic skill. Being courted left and right, she`s more likely to feel like a princess bestowing favors on us stupid horny guys who`re willing to pay through the nose for her attention. So realistically, Asian (and Western) pooners may run into a bit of an attitude with many Western SPs.
2. Relatively small selection: Elite Western SPs who can be relied upon to give fine service to all paying comers—regardless of ethnic extraction—form a rather small, popular, much-reviewed group. It`s easy, for a variety-seeking guy, to run out of quality options among Western SPs in Vancouver.
3. The need for pre-booking: The group of elite Western SPs that`s mentioned over and over again in reviews can be hard to book on short notice or at a convenient time. And even if, after a few e-mails or texts or phone calls back and forth, you agree upon a mutually convenient time, unexpected events come up which, when your allotted time slot arrives, may not make it convenient for you after all.
4. The "horniness gap": Many pooners book when they`re really horny but find that the agreed-upon time, when it comes, doesn`t always coincide with maximum erotic motivation—and sometimes they`ve to force themselves to keep their appointment.
5. The risk of last-minute cancellation: Not infrequently, Western SPs, including several high-profile ones, cancel at the last minute or simply stand pooners up.
6. Invasion of privacy: Independent Western SPs generally have security concerns that aren`t evident in Asian micros or AMPs (Asians rarely work alone). Many elite Western SPs want to verify your ID or require a reference from another SP you`ve seen—which may be an issue for privacy-conscious pooners, especially those who seek variety.
7. Cost: Denigrating pooners who worry about cost is, understandably, a fashionable pastime among those who want our money or those who have lots of it.
But the truth is, the company of much-reviewed elite Western SPs doesn`t come cheap. Usually it`s double or more the rate of an Asian micro SP (partly because working as an Indy involves inefficiencies, with all kinds of overhead). Given that pooning is strongly habit-forming, repeat trysts with elite Western SPs get expensive pretty quickly, as this pooner recently noticed: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?167692-A-few-reviews
8. The "mixed-bag" phenomenon: Outside the rather short list of reliable elite Western SPs, less well-reviewed or less expensive Western SPs are a disturbingly mixed bag—delivering not only delightful surprises but, perhaps more often, stiflingly mediocre service, awful letdowns or outright ripoffs.
As Yaletownguy`s recent 30-SP-rampage illustrated (he still owes us 20 reviews promised), it`s just a sad fact that the proportion of really bad SPs is much higher among Western than Asian SPs. It`s just human nature that service tends to slip when an SP isn`t accountable to anyone, and when the occasional bad review can easily be removed.
9. Age and shape: Many Asian pooners seem to be "young spinner" hunters—but the teenage years of most Western SPs are far behind them. Even most members of the much-reviewed elite aren`t willowy spring chickens either (some are well into their 30s).
10. Skill and forthcomingness: Western SPs tend not to be quite as generous with BBBJs as Asian SPs, or as DATY- or DFK-friendly—and they certainly haven`t used squat toilets from birth (which often makes their ACG non-existent or forgettable).
11. Culture clash (a big topic that would warrant its own thread): Western SPs are used to relatively take-charge—and often well-endowed—Western lovers. Asian guys, like one of my friends, are easily intimidated by those Western Amazons, many of whom tower over them and feel, well...loose.
Western SPs, compared to Asian SPs, also tend to be far more assertive, as well as restrictive, about where and how you`re allowed to touch them. ("Don`t touch my ass, you fucker!") As a result, many Asian pooners may approach love-making with Western SPs with easily shaken confidence. Nor is the typical Asian preoccupation with "face-saving" (yào miànzi, mǎi miànzi, ài miànzi, gù miànzi, cángzhuó) at all conducive to showing no-holds-barred passion.
12. Different love-making styles: You`ve probably heard (and research confirms) that the typical Asian love-making style doesn`t include lots of communication and foreplay. Crossed expectations are going to be especially acute in the case of tongue-tied first-generation immigrants who speak only broken English and haven`t been with any Western women before. But a non-communicative sexual style lacking in foreplay isn`t likely to go over too well with most Western women, including SPs.
Okay, let`s leave it at a round dozen.
Can`t imagine, in the face of these challenges, that most Western SPs would be an easy match for most Asian pooners. But I`ve met several confident Asian brothers (you know who you are) who defy any stereotype and are every bit as well-adjusted in their dealings with Western women as anyone else.
So the above doesn`t apply to several guys here on this Board—who aren`t exactly representative of the Asian population. The majority of Asian pooners, especially those with poor English, don`t come on this Board.
It`s hard to miss the fact that, just as Western pooners like myself often review Asian SPs with honest appreciation, so Asian pooners often review elite Western SPs with almost grovelling adulation. Ladies like Quintessential Taylor, Shelby Luxx, Alex Adare, Kim Capri, Abigail Fine, Violet Blake, Vanesssa and others should be sincerely thanked for showering our Asian brothers with desperately needed kindness and erotic bliss.
The average Asian guy is certainly not used to such kindness—or much sexual interest at all—from most `civilian` Western girls.
There`re many things I like about more mature Asian SPs, including the fact that they often convey a strong sense of liking for me as a person.
I hope I`m not completely self-deceived when I say that some even seem to consider me boyfriend material—if only I was interested. It`s always an amazing high when one of these lovely sexpots gives me the feeling I`d be good enough to be her significiant other.
Now I doubt that most Asian pooners—or non-Asian pooners, for that matter—get this same high very often from Western SPs.
But I applaud Asian guys who routinely seek out Western SPs. I think it`s extremely healthy and liberating: a great way for them to break out of their shy-Asian-guy stereotype, to practice relating to Western women, and to become more Alpha, quite apart from experiencing a sublime dimension of erotic pleasure that eludes most non-pooning males in this world.
The Asian pooner who makes the rounds of Western SPs will, typically (there`re many exceptions), also confront a number of challenges. Here`s a grab bag of a dozen such challenges. Just sayin` as I see it, no offence intended to anyone.
1. Businesslike treatment: Asian pooners are likely to be treated, by a Western SP, in a somewhat businesslike way, rarely getting the sense they`d be good enough to be her BF. Of course, there`re some genuinely nice, warm, radiantly lovely ladies among Western SPs—I`d even say, most of those relatively few who post here (Holly Taylor & Erotic Christine are outstanding examples I`ve met).
But let`s face it, a young superhottie growing up in Western culture isn`t likely to acquire character traits like humility, patience, sweetness, empathy for men or even any felt need to develop great erotic skill. Being courted left and right, she`s more likely to feel like a princess bestowing favors on us stupid horny guys who`re willing to pay through the nose for her attention. So realistically, Asian (and Western) pooners may run into a bit of an attitude with many Western SPs.
2. Relatively small selection: Elite Western SPs who can be relied upon to give fine service to all paying comers—regardless of ethnic extraction—form a rather small, popular, much-reviewed group. It`s easy, for a variety-seeking guy, to run out of quality options among Western SPs in Vancouver.
3. The need for pre-booking: The group of elite Western SPs that`s mentioned over and over again in reviews can be hard to book on short notice or at a convenient time. And even if, after a few e-mails or texts or phone calls back and forth, you agree upon a mutually convenient time, unexpected events come up which, when your allotted time slot arrives, may not make it convenient for you after all.
4. The "horniness gap": Many pooners book when they`re really horny but find that the agreed-upon time, when it comes, doesn`t always coincide with maximum erotic motivation—and sometimes they`ve to force themselves to keep their appointment.
5. The risk of last-minute cancellation: Not infrequently, Western SPs, including several high-profile ones, cancel at the last minute or simply stand pooners up.
6. Invasion of privacy: Independent Western SPs generally have security concerns that aren`t evident in Asian micros or AMPs (Asians rarely work alone). Many elite Western SPs want to verify your ID or require a reference from another SP you`ve seen—which may be an issue for privacy-conscious pooners, especially those who seek variety.
7. Cost: Denigrating pooners who worry about cost is, understandably, a fashionable pastime among those who want our money or those who have lots of it.
But the truth is, the company of much-reviewed elite Western SPs doesn`t come cheap. Usually it`s double or more the rate of an Asian micro SP (partly because working as an Indy involves inefficiencies, with all kinds of overhead). Given that pooning is strongly habit-forming, repeat trysts with elite Western SPs get expensive pretty quickly, as this pooner recently noticed: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?167692-A-few-reviews
8. The "mixed-bag" phenomenon: Outside the rather short list of reliable elite Western SPs, less well-reviewed or less expensive Western SPs are a disturbingly mixed bag—delivering not only delightful surprises but, perhaps more often, stiflingly mediocre service, awful letdowns or outright ripoffs.
As Yaletownguy`s recent 30-SP-rampage illustrated (he still owes us 20 reviews promised), it`s just a sad fact that the proportion of really bad SPs is much higher among Western than Asian SPs. It`s just human nature that service tends to slip when an SP isn`t accountable to anyone, and when the occasional bad review can easily be removed.
9. Age and shape: Many Asian pooners seem to be "young spinner" hunters—but the teenage years of most Western SPs are far behind them. Even most members of the much-reviewed elite aren`t willowy spring chickens either (some are well into their 30s).
10. Skill and forthcomingness: Western SPs tend not to be quite as generous with BBBJs as Asian SPs, or as DATY- or DFK-friendly—and they certainly haven`t used squat toilets from birth (which often makes their ACG non-existent or forgettable).
11. Culture clash (a big topic that would warrant its own thread): Western SPs are used to relatively take-charge—and often well-endowed—Western lovers. Asian guys, like one of my friends, are easily intimidated by those Western Amazons, many of whom tower over them and feel, well...loose.
Western SPs, compared to Asian SPs, also tend to be far more assertive, as well as restrictive, about where and how you`re allowed to touch them. ("Don`t touch my ass, you fucker!") As a result, many Asian pooners may approach love-making with Western SPs with easily shaken confidence. Nor is the typical Asian preoccupation with "face-saving" (yào miànzi, mǎi miànzi, ài miànzi, gù miànzi, cángzhuó) at all conducive to showing no-holds-barred passion.
12. Different love-making styles: You`ve probably heard (and research confirms) that the typical Asian love-making style doesn`t include lots of communication and foreplay. Crossed expectations are going to be especially acute in the case of tongue-tied first-generation immigrants who speak only broken English and haven`t been with any Western women before. But a non-communicative sexual style lacking in foreplay isn`t likely to go over too well with most Western women, including SPs.
Okay, let`s leave it at a round dozen.
Can`t imagine, in the face of these challenges, that most Western SPs would be an easy match for most Asian pooners. But I`ve met several confident Asian brothers (you know who you are) who defy any stereotype and are every bit as well-adjusted in their dealings with Western women as anyone else.
So the above doesn`t apply to several guys here on this Board—who aren`t exactly representative of the Asian population. The majority of Asian pooners, especially those with poor English, don`t come on this Board.
It`s hard to miss the fact that, just as Western pooners like myself often review Asian SPs with honest appreciation, so Asian pooners often review elite Western SPs with almost grovelling adulation. Ladies like Quintessential Taylor, Shelby Luxx, Alex Adare, Kim Capri, Abigail Fine, Violet Blake, Vanesssa and others should be sincerely thanked for showering our Asian brothers with desperately needed kindness and erotic bliss.
The average Asian guy is certainly not used to such kindness—or much sexual interest at all—from most `civilian` Western girls.
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