Or if you just have to see a certain very hot CL SP, she might agree to postpayment.
Alternately she might agree to methods that are similar to if not virtually equivalent to postpayment, such as several ladies in this thread have said they use. Namely credit cards & leaving the money on the table during the session {some don't even look at it in the envelope or count it to see if it's there}.
Add to those the ones who said here that their regulars don't pay upfront and it becomes evident that there are individual ladies who were willing to publicly post in this thread they do postpayment, and open themselves willingly to the alleged, so-called, dangers of doing so. This was their choice, and nobody even asked them to do it. Which begs the question, why did they?
Because, you moron, in spite of having it hammered at you from 20 different perspectives, they are only talking about regulars who have already proven themselves credible and have prepaid in advance to their appts in the past.
You really need this spelled out to you again? Envelope on the mantle payment is PREPAYMENT. I could care less if you think this is after the fact or not, she would not have proceeded with the appt until or unless that was presented. Yes, someone could shortchange her, but at least she knows there is money in there, even if it is 20 bucks short, she isn't doing it for free.
The idiots who try to discredit the standard policy of prepayment by trying to denigrate the very professional and reputable sps who require this from their new or regular clients are the ones with the agenda. You can't tell me that posting about how "classy" an sp is or how these are the "only ones" who will get your business isn't aggressively pushing an agenda which comes down to intimidation to get what you want.
How is it you don't "get" that asking an sp with clearly defined payment policies to make an exception in your case is out of line? If she posts it, and you don't want to do it, do not even arrange an appt with her.
And for huggz, the rates you posted for this sp are pretty standard on the Island. They are considered medium high, not ridiculously low if that is what you were trying to suggest. Plus, by your own account, she has been ripped off before. I would suggest that you would have been prepared to do yourself, once you discovered she did not ask for payment.
And again, why should she have to? You knew the rates going in, you know the standard policy. Did she ask you to not pay in advance? NO one here is trying to force an agenda onto clients or sps. This is a long established procedure and policy used by many sps, mps, and agencies across the country. IT sounds to me, and others, that it is people like you and lenny who are the ones trying to force feed a change in standard practises.
I am tired of seeing these kinds of threatening posts by people like you and lenny trying to push their self serving agenda down other people's throats.