WWYD - What Would You Do?

[take8easy]

I know this topic has been talked over and over but my question is a bit different. So let me start by saying that I have NO PROBLEM with an SP deciding who to see or not to see. That's her decision and I am total fine with it. But my question, like I said is a bit different.

Here is the scenario, you want to see an SP who has been extensively (and VERY positively) reviewed. In one of her review threads, you post a comment suggesting that you really really want to see her. You get a message from one of the PERB members suggesting that she doesn't see people of certain kind.

Now, her ads and her website don't mention anything like that. Neither does any of her review suggest that.

What Would You Do?
Would you take the message as credible and just forget about her?
Would you ask the SP before booking? It would look kind of awkward or even foolish, in my opinion.

OR .....Would you just shrug the message off? and ......just .... 'show up' a la George Costanza.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBn8XttrSew

T8E

 

[vancity_cowboy]

communication...

you call her up and after getting some information on rates and restrictions, you bring up the topic that is concerning you

she answers and there you have it

 

[felixthecat]

Here is the scenario, you want to see an SP who has been extensively (and VERY positively) reviewed. In one of her review threads, you post a comment suggesting that you really really want to see her. You get a message from one of the PERB members suggesting that she doesn't see people of certain kind.

Now, her ads and her website don't mention anything like that. Neither does any of her review suggest that.

A random guy on the internet is not necessarily a trusted source. He can be mistaken or have a grudge against you or against her.

If you are not afraid of wasting time, showing up is fine. If you are rejected at the door without prior warnings, it's ok to review your experience.

Chances are, she'll ask you or warn during booking if she has some extra restrictions. Turning away customers at the door does not make much sense.
Also very well-reviewed ladies have less chance of being YMMV.

 

[badbadboy]

I know this topic has been talked over and over but my question is a bit different. So let me start by saying that I have NO PROBLEM with an SP deciding who to see or not to see. That's her decision and I am total fine with it. But my question, like I said is a bit different.

Here is the scenario, you want to see an SP who has been extensively (and VERY positively) reviewed. In one of her review threads, you post a comment suggesting that you really really want to see her. You get a message from one of the PERB members suggesting that she doesn't see people of certain kind.

Now, her ads and her website don't mention anything like that. Neither does any of her review suggest that.

What Would You Do?
Would you take the message as credible and just forget about her?
Would you ask the SP before booking? It would look kind of awkward or even foolish, in my opinion.

OR .....Would you just shrug the message off? and ......just .... 'show up' a la George Costanza.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBn8XttrSew

T8E

Yup ask her yourself about it beforehand to save any uncomfortable surprises at the doorway. I suspect her pre date screening process will give you the answers you seek.

Some guys actually do try to help the other guys here.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

t8e: you might have known I'd have an opinion here, right?

We all know about my restrictions, so let's take them "as read".

I have THREE in calls. One of them is my home, where I live, in WR, with my partner. The other two are in Richmond & Vancouver. ALMOST anybody with great references & manners is welcome to call upon me in those two places or for an out call. However, I still won't see dickheads, regardless of their colour, race, creed, or preferred brand of toilet paper. The lady in question may have a similar policy, and so, as others have suggested, your best course of action is to politely and discreetly ask the SP her policies.

 

[wilde]

If the info is true and I have no reason to doubt that it isn't, the SP in question will most likely have a screening process. You can try to book and see if you pass muster.

 

[take8easy]

Yup ask her yourself about it beforehand to save any uncomfortable surprises at the doorway. I suspect her pre date screening process will give you the answers you seek.

Some guys actually do try to help the other guys here.

and ... I appreciate that ......... badbadboy. that's the whole point of having this review board....

Thanks for everyone's help including ........ yours.

T8E

 

[take8easy]

I cant speak for her but some ladies on here have friends who they do trust to pass information along privately to help with their screening.

.

Now, that is interesting, I must say. How can you say this information is really being passed privately, when in fact it is being passed on to anyone who wants to know. This is not like an underground club for only for some exclusive members. If you have a restriction, just put it in your ad and website. But using some members to pass on this private information which really is for public use feels a bit strange to me.

Oh well, everyone has his or her own modus operandi.

T8E

 

[VancityDivas]

Many women have groups of clients they won't see.. it's best to just ask when calling. Saves everyone time, grief and awkwardness. Let's not be like George Costanza that just does no one good

There's so many girls to choose from

 

[Elmore]

It really depends on your sensitivity level. If you'd be offended by her declining a session then dont bother and just move on.

There are just way too many options out there for most pooners to get hung up on one or a few who have a rigid screening process or doesn't respond to emails or has restrictions (clearly stated or not) regarding age, race, weight...etc.

 

[Elmore]

Many women have groups of clients they won't see.. it's best to just ask when calling. Saves everyone time, grief and awkwardness. Let's not be like George Costanza that just does no one good

There's so many girls to choose from

Why not save the call and list in the ad which "groups of clients" certain women won't see. It may be bad PR but that info becomes common knowledge anyway.

Most accept a woman's right to choose her client and simply move on to the next ad.

 

[Claire Monet]

Let her tell you herself not some boob that has to speak for others

Hatrick, o wise one. Nailed it (again).

 

[take8easy]

t8e: you might have known I'd have an opinion here, right?

We all know about my restrictions, so let's take them "as read".

I have THREE in calls. One of them is my home, where I live, in WR, with my partner. The other two are in Richmond & Vancouver. ALMOST anybody with great references & manners is welcome to call upon me in those two places or for an out call. However, I still won't see dickheads, regardless of their colour, race, creed, or preferred brand of toilet paper. The lady in question may have a similar policy, and so, as others have suggested, your best course of action is to politely and discreetly ask the SP her policies.

No, my dear lady, pardon my ignorance. I am not sure I know you. Please forgive me for not being in the "we" as in ... WE ALL KNOW ABOUT MY RESTRICTIONS. .......... But thanks for introducing yourself in detail. Might as well attach maps of all of your locations.

 

[Man Mountain]

You get a message from one of the PERB members suggesting that she doesn't see people of certain kind.

Now, her ads and her website don't mention anything like that. Neither does any of her review suggest that.

What Would You Do?
Would you take the message as credible and just forget about her?

Some guys actually do try to help the other guys here.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

No, my dear lady, pardon my ignorance. I am not sure I know you.

I honestly don't know how to reply to this...

 

[wilde]

Why don't I tell you what I wouldn't do? I wouldn't have started another potential shit storm causing, not to mention done to death thread about it because you really only had two options. 1) believe said member and move on or 2) find out for yourself by contacting said SP. Either way, good luck!

 

[Man Mountain]

I honestly don't know how to reply to this...

And yet you somehow found a way to...

 

[UhOh]

how does this member that PM'd you know your are a person of a certain kind?
I doubt many members know a lot of detail on each other

 

[Caramel]

how does this member that PM'd you know your are a person of a certain kind?
I doubt many members know a lot of detail on each other

from his past posts? I'm pretty sure I know which SP he is referring to as well just from a few of his past posts and I knew exactly what he was talking about when he posted this thread...and if I was her, I wouldn't book this guy either JUST going on from his forum posts here on perb, some of them are insulting to SP's and women in general.

Just a clue to some guys, if the SP doesn't ever respond, theres a high chance that you've been rejected and she may never respond even with a reason.

 

[sybian]

...Satellite totally messed up my reply...Deleted