I made an appointment with a lady. I am totally sure she was not my type when I saw her. She is like an aunty. But since I have booked an appointment I didn't just leave. Not in the mood through the session so I didn't make it. I just felt money wasted. Would you just leave when you don't like the girl(aunt or whatever)?
Would you just walk away when you see in person
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i have walked and have also regretted not walking,if more people walk it may send a strong message to not use fake pics and bait and switch
If it is truly a bait & switch, then yes.
But if you booked without a picture, and the lady has booked you, you arrive, then walk, she's just lost her income for that session. Not fair IMO.
Just my 2 cents
If I make an appointment, I've made a deal, and I try to fulfill any deals I've made.
But if you booked without a picture, and the lady has booked you, you arrive, then walk, she's just lost her income for that session. Not fair IMO.
Just my 2 cents
If I make an appointment, I've made a deal, and I try to fulfill any deals I've made.
I'm very much the same way. Did an Asian micro maybe twice ever. Walked away once, but the girl looked like an addict. I would say 90% of the girls I've ever seen were fine, where the majority of those ended up in repeats.
Her ad was real pics. But I lost my interest when I saw her in person. Real pics still can deceive.
I commend that, and it's a decent and fair way to look at it.
That said, and "appointment" and "deal" are two separate things in my world. You showed up and kept your time commitment for the appointment, therefore invested your time.
When I do walk, I am apologetic, but I cannot stay "out of the goodness of my heart", as this is not a cheap hobby - and we all want to get the most for our buck. Just my opinion.
I think there are a lot of good points here.
Unfortunately there are a lot of people who like to window shop. Make multiple appointments and just try to find the best one.
If it's B&S or somehow misrepresented, or some legitimate reason I think this is completely understandable to walk.
However, if the photos are real and accurate, and you decide to walk and want to see other girls etc... It's just something we don't allow.
When you make an appointment, that spot is reserved for you. But if you are going to flake for literally no reason, then it's just wasting everyone's time and effort and impacting the girls income.
In short, just be respectful of everyone involved. There are those who take advantage of this tactic, in which case your next request for an appointment my go unanswered. We actively limit the maximum amount of rejects in a clients life cycle, if it's blatantly just wasting our time we may just limit it to one. It's not fair for legitimate clients who are looking to schedule an appointment.
Unfortunately frustration in this business sometimes goes both ways. There are fake ads and bad SPs and there are also clients who try to game the system.
Again I'm only commenting on the situation where it's as advertised, not B&S or heavy Photoshop etc. If someone is misrepresenting themselves then they should know to expect this sort of outcome.
In short, be reasonable and respectful.
Unfortunately there are a lot of people who like to window shop. Make multiple appointments and just try to find the best one.
If it's B&S or somehow misrepresented, or some legitimate reason I think this is completely understandable to walk.
However, if the photos are real and accurate, and you decide to walk and want to see other girls etc... It's just something we don't allow.
When you make an appointment, that spot is reserved for you. But if you are going to flake for literally no reason, then it's just wasting everyone's time and effort and impacting the girls income.
In short, just be respectful of everyone involved. There are those who take advantage of this tactic, in which case your next request for an appointment my go unanswered. We actively limit the maximum amount of rejects in a clients life cycle, if it's blatantly just wasting our time we may just limit it to one. It's not fair for legitimate clients who are looking to schedule an appointment.
Unfortunately frustration in this business sometimes goes both ways. There are fake ads and bad SPs and there are also clients who try to game the system.
Again I'm only commenting on the situation where it's as advertised, not B&S or heavy Photoshop etc. If someone is misrepresenting themselves then they should know to expect this sort of outcome.
In short, be reasonable and respectful.
