She reminds me of hunkahunka very boring n lame. Not sure i can go out with her again 
Would you dump a hot looking girl if she said....
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Well it's about time the truth finally came out, I for one respect your show of fidelity towards hunka...She reminds me of hunkahunka very boring n lame. Not sure i can go out with her again
I have friends who marry girls like this. Where they rarely ever have sex unless they are trying to have a kid. I dont wanna spend hours on end going shopping,dinner,tv,walks etc and only get sex 1-2 times a month.
You know I find these type of comments funny.
I too have been in this type of relationship and I've been in the other type, where sex is the name of the game. And I can tell you the difference very specificially. With one, we both didn't any big thrill out of it, and the other, we both had a blast so if she enjoys herself and has fun, she'll not only going to keep on doing it, she'll even initiate it.
To me she's basically telling you she hasn't had a great history in the sex department and so her expectations are low. Work with it, and if you can get her off the first or second time you're intimate you're home free.
Think about it what's the worst that can happen? (outside of her getting pregnant..lol)
I too have been in this type of relationship and I've been in the other type, where sex is the name of the game. And I can tell you the difference very specificially. With one, we both didn't any big thrill out of it, and the other, we both had a blast so if she enjoys herself and has fun, she'll not only going to keep on doing it, she'll even initiate it.
To me she's basically telling you she hasn't had a great history in the sex department and so her expectations are low. Work with it, and if you can get her off the first or second time you're intimate you're home free.
Think about it what's the worst that can happen? (outside of her getting pregnant..lol)
I had an SP in BKK who said sex was 100th and shopping was number 1. Obviously not my type.
Women tend to enjoy sex more in middle age, so if you want an energized nympho bunny...
My initial thought was hey, give her a chance, but the more I think about it the more I have to agree that it's a question of whether it's worth it or not. Sex seems like such a fundamental thing and to be denied it, especially with someone you care about, can be terribly frustrating and stressful. As much as the rest of the relationship may be good, if there is no sex there will be frustration and unhappiness.
I partially agree. My personal experience is that if do have sex with someone and the really enjoy it....they'll come back for more. So the bottom line is make sure you give her an experience worth repeating.
I could not agree more....if a woman doesn't find you attractive enough to actually "Want" to have sex and be with you then move on. I have been following this thread and have had a change of heart since my earlier posting. Inevitably she will meet someone she does find attractive enough to want to have sex with and that will leave you out in the cold wondering where things went wrong.......
Well, it might help us in pronouncing judgment if we knew the context....what was going on in the conversation for her to say something like that? She wouldn't have just come out of the blue with something like that, you guys must have been talking about something to lead up to it.
LAG, if you enjoy her company, you can always supplement your sex life with her
by visiting the low track. Maybe she likes variety & enjoys going down there too ;
by visiting the low track. Maybe she likes variety & enjoys going down there too ;
All valid points, and interesting challenges. Many is the time I have looked at what might be be described as a prissy bitch and wondered what it would be like to make her squeal. But, have you considered that this "prude" might in fact be a lesbian at heart that just has as yet not come to grips with her true nature ?
It may be that even if LAG turned her into a horn dog, it would be for the benefit of the opposite gender and he would be relegated to the role of observer. Mind you, if the words of the departed HH are to be believed, he does that on a regular basis anyway even to women who are/where not so inclined before they met him.
As much as I'd love to be able to, I can't really find any fault in what you wrote. Like Alin wrote, women seem to size up whether or not they will be physically intimate with someone very quickly and generally don't seem to ever reverse that initial decision.I could not agree more....if a woman doesn't find you attractive enough to actually "Want" to have sex and be with you then move on. I have been following this thread and have had a change of heart since my earlier posting. Inevitably she will meet someone she does find attractive enough to want to have sex with and that will leave you out in the cold wondering where things went wrong.......
To me, what she said can mean one of two things. First, she is telling the truth. In which case she can go find a man who cares about sex as little as she does. Second, she is playing mind games with you. Possible psycho bitch alert. In either case, run as far away as you can...
Or third, go find a man she wants to have sex with. My suspicion is that much of the time when a woman says she doesn't want sex, what she is really saying is she doesn't want sex with YOU. Sex with someone else? No problem.
Fourth option is she hasn't had very good sexual encounters and so she isn't expecting much. Why not surprise her by showing her how much fun it can be. I find it funny reading all these comments about run as fast as you can, for me, it's try getting her into bed and she if you can't rock her world. I ready can't recall meeting any women who if she really enjoyed the experience didn't come back for more..
I guess it just depends on how much effort he wants to put into it and how receptive she is to the experiment. Have to think though that the odds are against him on this one.
What elevator is that??
I haven't read the orginal post but did it say he had the run of several hot looking woman just dying to get into bed with him?
If not..accept the challenge and go out and get some and see what happens after that. What's the downside...one night of sex verses none..personally I'd take the one night and try my best to turn it into something more.
I haven't read the orginal post but did it say he had the run of several hot looking woman just dying to get into bed with him?
If not..accept the challenge and go out and get some and see what happens after that. What's the downside...one night of sex verses none..personally I'd take the one night and try my best to turn it into something more.
What if we change the scenario a little bit? The hot girl tells you she is not into man, would you try and take up the "challenge"? I guess my point is that you can but to what end? There's a whole forest out there why get hung up on a tree that will likely not bear any fruit.
