On the first date with this young lady she told me she doesnt really like sex. Also that if the guy wants to have sex more than once every two weeks then the guy is really sick. After she said this ...i told her she isnt for me lol. Sex twice a month doesnt really cut it for me.
Would you dump a hot looking girl if she said....
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Maybe she didn't like sex cuz of her previous experiences. I knew a few girls who didn't enjoy sex cuz of their previous partners. It's not cuz sex itself was bad, it was just not enjoyable with the guy. I mean you probably could of tried it out and maybe nagged her enough of her to put out more often
Was told she's attracted to me but she's just a twice a month type gal. I agree never beg or nag a partner to put out.
And "nag" her for the sex that you want, but how lame is that? I know I don't want to be nagging any partner of mine to put out. Find someone who can't keep their hands off you... And you them
Words of wisdom.
There is a slight possibility that she is testing you. Since she is "hot", she is used to guys pretending to like her just to get her into bed. If she really is attracted to you, she may be testing to find out if you are more interested in her or her pussy.
If she isn't sexually compatible with you there is no reason to burn that bridge. Make her your friend and see what her friends are like. She may make a good wingman.....
Any woman who says she doesn't like sex is undatable.
WTF are you thinking?
You have to value yourself a lot more than that. You are the prize, not some fucked up chick who probably doesn't make as much money as you, and hasn't a clue about what a healthy normal relationship looks like.
You get out of life what you are willing to settle for.
WTF are you thinking?
You have to value yourself a lot more than that. You are the prize, not some fucked up chick who probably doesn't make as much money as you, and hasn't a clue about what a healthy normal relationship looks like.
You get out of life what you are willing to settle for.
+1 you might be onto something here. If she is as hot as you say she probably wants to know that you are not looking at her only superficially. She wants to know that you would want to be with her not just for her looks and body. That could have been a test. And you failed.
What's her number?
I love a challenge and would love to turn her around for you
JK
Sex or lack of is a deal breaker and she doesn't like to get all nasty in the beginning of a relationship, my crystal ball tells me years down the road you will be an active pooner like me
I love a challenge and would love to turn her around for you
JK
Sex or lack of is a deal breaker and she doesn't like to get all nasty in the beginning of a relationship, my crystal ball tells me years down the road you will be an active pooner like me
Didn't read the whole thread but if it were me, I'd try having sex with her at least once and I'd try and make damn sure she enjoyed it, then go from there.
Sounds to me, like she wasn't in to you. Maybe wanted to let you down lightly.
Thinking telling you that, you'd just leave her alone, less drama then dumping you?
Like why else would any lady say that on a date?
Men that want sex more than twice a month are sickos?
Thats a lot of men!
Thinking telling you that, you'd just leave her alone, less drama then dumping you?
Like why else would any lady say that on a date?
Men that want sex more than twice a month are sickos?
Thats a lot of men!
Odd that no one else seemed bothered by the part that was the major red flag for me. This speaks far more directly to this chick's sexual attitudes than the bit about her 'not really liking sex'. Clearly she sees sex as something bad if she thinks others who want it more often than she does are somehow perverse. If she was sincere with you, then she must have had some harsh or just really poor experiences. Lots of ppl have low sex drives. Nothing abnormal there at all. But to project her limits onto others and see them as flawed if they differ from hers is either a sign of a VERY judgemental and unaccepting person (GREAT partner material lol) or someone who's been misused or badly hurt sexually and will need to come to find her own healing in her own time. Not a project I imagine you'd want to take on.
Oh, and thanks for the pic Melina! Just gorgeous!!
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For her to state this on a first date hints that she is a bit socially inept or spoiled. In addition she is either trying to brush you off politely or is just into tests and playing games. None of the above are traits you should be looking for in a longterm GF. While you could have gone through the motions to see if she was the right girl, you probably saved yourself some grief, and maybe avoided a good case of blueballs or cheating.
Maybe you could have won her over with your fat wallet and manly charms, but you're probably better of without that type of girl. You blowing her off probably did her some good too.
Relationship advice on an escort forum - there is probably a few jokes about that...
Maybe you could have won her over with your fat wallet and manly charms, but you're probably better of without that type of girl. You blowing her off probably did her some good too.
Relationship advice on an escort forum - there is probably a few jokes about that...
I'm sorry didn't want to get into a fight over who figured this out first.
I didnt even read either of your posts before I posted.
Just so many people saying how she's a bitch and a boring girl to date or whatever.
Sounds like she was very smart, probably gets rid of all her bad first dates this way.
Its actually very smart.
I didnt even read either of your posts before I posted.
Just so many people saying how she's a bitch and a boring girl to date or whatever.
Sounds like she was very smart, probably gets rid of all her bad first dates this way.
Its actually very smart.
I'm not sure why the topic came up in the first place, on a first date. Obviously something inspired her to make that statement. I don't think LAG is giving all the info here, as to what was going on with the conversation for her to come up with that in the first place. On a first date, you're already discussing sexual compatability?
Actually, this girl was interested in me and she called me a few times to see if we're going out again. I agree with lurker there's some red flags. Even if i get to sleep with her ....im not sure it's worth it.
Hey im very easy going and can talk about anything. I didnt tell her ive slept with hundreds of females
Game playing, my fav
Worth a trySo here's a really good idea instead of dumping her, why don't you show her and prove her that having sex is really a good thing. She probably never had it good yet.
Aren't you the pro
Isn't that the truth! If I got regular "free" sex, I would not need SP servicesIts woman like that, that keep girls like me employed god bless em'
Kisses Melina*
More game playing
Roll the dice buddy! Women don't exactly flock in my direction so I'll take what I can get!
DM
We've all met girls who are like this where they arent sexual. All they want is a occasional bf or a glorified roomate
