Woould you ever send a photo to an SP?

[Caramel]

I recently had a client send me a picture of himself so that I could recognize him in the hotel lobby - it was one of those dumb key card elevator hotels. It wasn't necessary, and I hadn't asked for it, but I was sure touched that he would trust me that much. It made me feel extra safe and cozy, and we had an amazing session! And then I deleted the pic... obviously!

yeah some clients, especially newbies sometimes send their photos thinking it will help in getting an appointment or make the SP feel at ease that he is normal looking I guess, I'm not sure...but I've seen it many times, so there are people out there who don't mind sending a pic to an SP, so there is a market for an SP if she wants to do it that way.

 

[VancityDivas]

Some clients take it upon themselves to send a picture for recognition (hotel lobby) or for creating comfort.... others send photos nobody wants to see for no reason :fear: those dreaded south of the border photos which there's NO reason to :doh:

I find it odd when girls expect to see who the client is. Everyone has a right to refuse a date but in all honesty SPs should all know that majority of men would be hard pressed to send off their photos considering the high level positions and personal privacy that they require.

This is a culture of high degree of discretion and privacy. There's a huge gap between address/name/phone number and personal photos in the hands of a stranger. I think for many that 'visual digital proof' is a risk that is not warranted or wanted

 

[thodisipagal]

I think ladies who ask for photos screen out gentlemen who have a great career and screen in those dudes who have nothing to lose.

Lance said it best. I, too, wouldn't give my pics out even if it was Julia Roberts who asked for it.

 

[girth-brooks]

That's the only picture you need to send

 

[PierreCoeur]

That's the only picture you need to send

Actually Robert Borden would need to be a twin and send a picture of Lester Pearson to get through the front door

 

[PierreCoeur]

I recently had a client send me a picture of himself so that I could recognize him in the hotel lobby - it was one of those dumb key card elevator hotels. It wasn't necessary, and I hadn't asked for it, but I was sure touched that he would trust me that much. It made me feel extra safe and cozy, and we had an amazing session! And then I deleted the pic... obviously!

Oh gorgeous Mona, I am pretty certain you would delete my picture immediately and send your regrets I'm just not the kind of guy that takes a good picture

 

[MonaBardot]

Actually Robert Borden would need to be a twin and send a picture of Lester Pearson to get through the front door

You're HILARIOUS!

...Hi Pierre

 

[MonaBardot]

Some clients take it upon themselves to send a picture for recognition (hotel lobby) or for creating comfort.... others send photos nobody wants to see for no reason :fear: those dreaded south of the border photos which there's NO reason to :doh:

I find it odd when girls expect to see who the client is. Everyone has a right to refuse a date but in all honesty SPs should all know that majority of men would be hard pressed to send off their photos considering the high level positions and personal privacy that they require.

This is a culture of high degree of discretion and privacy. There's a huge gap between address/name/phone number and personal photos in the hands of a stranger. I think for many that 'visual digital proof' is a risk that is not warranted or wanted

V. accurate: "the photos nobody wants to see" LOL

 

[CanineCowboy]

I have sent photos to a couple of women on their request, but it was after having a working relationship with them and having already established trust. However, one woman did contact me at a later point to tell me her account had been hacked. When I asked her to delete our correspondence, she refused, saying I had no control over what she did or did not keep. I was like wtf - it was towards the end of our relations. She is still an active sp.

 

[take8easy]

I have sent photos to a couple of women on their request, but it was after having a working relationship with them and having already established trust. However, one woman did contact me at a later point to tell me her account had been hacked. When I asked her to delete our correspondence, she refused, saying I had no control over what she did or did not keep. I was like wtf - it was towards the end of our relations. She is still an active sp.

Why would they ask you for a photo after what you put as " after having a working relationship with them and having already established trust".

Personally, I have had only one SP ask me for a photo, needless to say, I refused. but asking for a photo " after having a working relationship with them and having already established trust?" ... very strange.


And ... you wrote, "However, one woman did contact me at a later point to tell me her account had been hacked. When I asked her to delete our correspondence, she refused, saying I had no control over what she did or did not keep."
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My point, exactly.

 

[CanineCowboy]

They were more about keeping in touch when I would go away on extended vacations. One was for a mmf. I thought discretion was implied. I try to only see women that I trust.