Why??

[SuperSam]

So here is an interesting question that has nothing to do with a review but could prove to be interesting. An SP I have seen just a couple of times asked me a question. She said you seem happily married, why do you do this? My answer was yes I am married (note 1 missing word) but something is missing from our relationship and I get that fulfilled by doing this on occasion. If you’re married or have a SO chime in.

SS

 

[Biggs520]

I'm also married. Not happily. But that's besides the point. I partake in this hobby to fulfill what I am not getting at home. Whether it be communication, affection, hot sex, or the pse. Even back in happier times there was always somethings missing, and service providers fill those voids. A big thumbs up to all the quality providers out there that can take care of our every day needs!!!

 

[whaatthatmuch]

How do you guys get away without your SO noticing 'missing funds' or handle that question of where that money is going, etc. Unless of course you keep separate accounts, which is not the case for me.

 

[ATM]

I have always had my own bank accounts. Even when I was married my wife had her account and I had mine and then we had a joint account for the bills.

 

[Spraycan99]

I just enjoy having sex with a variety of women - paid for or not paid for.
The "missing" money is not a problem. She's never noticed (or asked) but I'm not blatant about it. You have to be creative.

 

[take8easy]

Me, married. Me, a father. Me likes sex. I am sure what I am saying has been said already in this thread.

My wife is a great woman, bless her. Unfortunately, sex is not her forte. I don't wanna divorce her, cuz she is a great woman but I have this sex drive that needs ......"Professional Help".

Men want sex, a lot of it, they want it all the time, they want the sex and the partner to be at their fantasy level, which they will probably never get it at home and guess what ...realizing that, someone invented "Prostitution". : A paid relationship, in which a man gets to play out his fantasy, because the women being paid are willing to be what the man will never get in real life, :a sexy young girl, a university student, a sexy secretary, a stranger in an elevator, a close relative .. and so on... "

This is a bitter fact, you get bored of each other, no matter how much you love your partner. This is especially true in case of men. Love and Sex are two different things, in my humble opinion. This might make men seem like pigs, but............... so be it.

We, men want a hooker in bed, every night (or afternoon or morning), which we rarely get in a wife/common-law woman and...... that's the answer to the question. I am in my 50's and I want to keep doing it, if possible, till I die. This lust to be with different women inside a man never ends, I think. I have been with 42 women so far and I am ready to see my 43rd in Jan 2016.

As far as missing money is concerned, I have my own little business so ............. "putting it away" is not really a problem.

T8E

 

[moosie]

My situation is very close to the same as T8E's. Except i don't keep track of the number and in my company it is too difficult to "put away" some cash. On the other hand, over the year's I have established a pattern of regularly taking money out whether I need it or not. $50 here ... $100 there, on a regular but random basis. This keeps the slush fund ready to play and the suspicion away.

 

[Misterbeaver]

I am quite happily married and our sex life is fine by me. My appetite is not voracious but I enjoy a change of pace as much as the next guy.

We too keep separate accounts and I also siphon small amounts into a slush fund. Unless I am on a real tear I only see someone every few months. Been dry lately but other expensive hobbies were also taking priority...nothing sordid folks.

 

[blazejowski]

Me? I love my wife to death, but at the same time she drives me insane. I haven't had an attraction to her in years, and we have sex maybe 2, 3 times a year, which is boring as fuck. I see sp's and i have friends who are former sp's, as well as friends who I pay to fuck. I don't poon as much as I can, but I always put some cash away for pooning.

I have quite a Sexual palette and there's been tons of stuff I have wanted to try, and seeing sp's as given me the freedom and the option of fulfilling those fantasies...

 

[sgel]

I'm single but can understand why men with significant others partake in this hobby. It is to fulfill a fantasy that is not available with their s/o. Sometimes a bj, daty is not even available, which is almost a must for most men who watch porn. Then there are more " taboo" fantasies such as spanking dato,Greek, CIM, COF, footjobs which are almost always require a sp to experience.

 

[johnnydepth]

I do this for the variety of women and experiences. Some of the Sp's have been willing to do things I couldn't even imagine asking a girlfriend to try. However, every year I find it more difficult to add new flavour or spice to the mix. Partly because I have tried so many things, partly because selection seems to be getting smaller all the time. Last year I saw a few girls (3 is probably realistic). The rest were from dating sites (you can guess which ones). Truthfully, I found the dating sites to be more fruitful and less of a hassle.