Why so few girls provide BBBJ?
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For What It's Worth ...
Just thought I might throw some history on tis one ... And no, I didn't read all the previous posts ...
About a year ago there was an outbreak of STD - forgot the name of it - which was spreading in the Vancouver area and the ladies were scared into CBJ. I am surprised that it continues there ... a CBJ is not much better than a HJ. It doesn't do anything for me ... skip the CBJ and go to the main event!
Most people in this hobby do get tested on a somewhat regular basis ... especially the SPs. If a john is stupid enough not to be tested ... the SPs will and stop the nuisance type STDs. The more serious STDs are always a concern and some education on understanding them is healthy. This hobby has some risks and the choice is ours to make.
Oh, BTW, two years and more ago ... BBBJ was the standard ... I believe them was the "good old days!" Okay gang, tell me how wrong I am!
Just thought I might throw some history on tis one ... And no, I didn't read all the previous posts ...
About a year ago there was an outbreak of STD - forgot the name of it - which was spreading in the Vancouver area and the ladies were scared into CBJ. I am surprised that it continues there ... a CBJ is not much better than a HJ. It doesn't do anything for me ... skip the CBJ and go to the main event!
Most people in this hobby do get tested on a somewhat regular basis ... especially the SPs. If a john is stupid enough not to be tested ... the SPs will and stop the nuisance type STDs.
The more serious STDs are always a concern and some education on understanding them is healthy. This hobby has some risks and the choice is ours to make.Oh, BTW, two years and more ago ... BBBJ was the standard ...
I believe them was the "good old days!" Okay gang, tell me how wrong I am!Can a guy be 100% sure it is not that time of the month,Lolita said:
or that there is not some other cause of blood emission?
1. Syphilus has had a recent outbreak {w/i the last 2 years}.Curley said:
2. I haven't experienced CBJ enough to say, but the few i have it
varies considerably, like many things. I think with some excellent
technique it could be awesome. I like it with a hand massage on
the balls & thereabouts. And the other hand in play also. A "toy"
too, would be even better. And the cherry on the pudding would
be two girls!
2a. Have read here that there is an oriental {japanese?} condom
that feels like skin on skin.
2b. Have had awesome HJ's {compare techniques in 2} that are
often as good or better than FS.
>>2b. Have had awesome HJ's {compare techniques in 2} that are
often as good or better than FS.
I have to 2nd Lenny on this one. He's the guy that turned me to good HJ's. They can be better than FS if done by the right girl with a tireless hand! Plus, it's pretty damn safe. I did my usual "interview" while getting a HJ for almost 1 hour straight from a girl a few months back, Lenny recommended of course.
often as good or better than FS.
I have to 2nd Lenny on this one. He's the guy that turned me to good HJ's. They can be better than FS if done by the right girl with a tireless hand! Plus, it's pretty damn safe. I did my usual "interview" while getting a HJ for almost 1 hour straight from a girl a few months back, Lenny recommended of course.
maverick73I did my usual "interview" while getting a HJ for almost 1 hour straight from a girl a few months back said:
The strong wristed lady is not anybody prominent on PERB. She doesn't advertise, but provides good service and gets good referrals and builds her business on referrals and repeats (and works the street if ABSOLUTELY necessary on slow nights). She is not the best looking (L 5.5 or 6.0), but is one of the most honest and real people you'll meet. And she lets you pay AFTER the session to make sure you get what she promised. I actually met her through Lenny and Hitrack. I'm like a less experienced Hitrack. I just like to see what makes these escorts/SP/SW's tick, what gets them into the business, what they think of it, what they think of clients, their exit strategy, some of their life experiences, etc. This is sort of my ongoing project for the last couple of months.Herb_The_Perb said:
Sorry but that probably doesn't answer your question very well.
All that strikes me as good, both on her part and yours. It's a fascinating world with many good people and good stories, and often (but not always) I am moved to ask a lady many of the same questions if I can sense something of her inner self.maverick73 said:
That is such a blanket statement, it's not even funny...Lolita said:
Britain is part of Europe, and the sex trade is nowhere near being regulated.
"Europe" is not a country, and I don't know where you get your facts, but last time I checked, only the Netherlands had regulated prostitution. (and even then, it is only limited to EU citizens, therefore all other immigrant SPs are excluded, and prostitution has a very high percentage of foreign workers).
There's also the issue between all the different levels of SPs. Brothels, Massage Parlours, Escort Agencies, Street Walkers... they all work differently and they are not all legal.
Anyways, back to the BBBJ, it's a sign of the times.
dipitydoo said:That is such a blanket statement, it's not even funny...
Britain is part of Europe, and the sex trade is nowhere near being regulated.
"Europe" is not a country, and I don't know where you get your facts, but last time I checked, only the Netherlands had regulated prostitution. (and even then, it is only limited to EU citizens, therefore all other immigrant SPs are excluded, and prostitution has a very high percentage of foreign workers).
There's also the issue between all the different levels of SPs. Brothels, Massage Parlours, Escort Agencies, Street Walkers... they all work differently and they are not all legal.
Anyways, back to the BBBJ, it's a sign of the times.
Okay, allow me to rephrase, the Netherlands and quite possibly Germany are the only two EU countries for the moment that regulates prostitution. It does not include street prostition. But overall, the sex trade in general in EU countries are tolerated much more than the repressed North Americans. There are very few moral objections regarding the trade overseas, Europe anyhow.
Any and all education we've received to protect ourselves has all gone out the window. There are a lot more folks now that believe they can stop a bullet. Sign of the times.
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Yup, that outbreak was Syphilis, and I don't think it scared SPs to CBJ. According to posts last year, a fair number of SPs, notable ones too, still kept blowing.Curley said:Just thought I might throw some history on tis one ... And no, I didn't read all the previous posts ...
About a year ago there was an outbreak of STD - forgot the name of it - which was spreading in the Vancouver area and the ladies were scared into CBJ. I am surprised that it continues there ... a CBJ is not much better than a HJ. It doesn't do anything for me ... skip the CBJ and go to the main event!
Most people in this hobby do get tested on a somewhat regular basis ... especially the SPs. If a john is stupid enough not to be tested ... the SPs will and stop the nuisance type STDs.
Oh, BTW, two years and more ago ... BBBJ was the standard ...
This BBBJ standard, was it here in Vancouver? I ask because, I used to "work" 1999 and BBBJ, DATY, DFK, were unheard of.
I`m going to do this your way. It`s neater.lenny said:
1) It`s not worth gambling when it comes to anonymous sex. The house (STD infection) always wins. How do you know you don`t already have an infection. Many STDs are still present without noticeable symptoms and are beyond that "I feel run down..." feeling. As for the 400 BBBJ no infection guy, we don`t know the whole story. Perhaps he HAS an STD and has been spreading it around to 400 people, which is doubtful he`ll call anyone up to give an update, or maybe he has HAD an STD, took a little vacation to clear things up, returned to poon left the poor infected figuring out who the host was. Do we know the whole story. NO.
2) The seat belt analogy was good to prove prevention is key. Seat belts save lives. They aren`t 100% foolproof but they have turned a possible fatal accident into a few broken bones. Personally I`d rather have a shattered pelvis from a lapbelt than shoot through the windshield.
CBJ aren`t always foolproof, 98%, but can stop an infection (herpes, syphilis, etc) from setting up camp in someones mouth.
3) Avoid self-diagnosing. Only a doctor should provide the answers.
4) Put a few drops of lube in the condoms reservoir tip and have her suck to her hearts content. I have heard it feels goood.
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How about the kind that at times don't know where they areLolita said:
& constantly nod off in the middle of a BBBJ? But why would
i want to put my life in the mouth, so to speak, of any girl
by trusting her that it is ok to put my mouth in her pussy?
I would no more trust that than if any SP or SW told me
that they were not HIV positive.
1)Falling asleep during a BBBJ? Dude I'd be afraid that they'd bite when they came to.lenny said:
2) Okay, that's seems fair, but as said before any SP worth their weight who do not engage in BBBJ and have themselves checked out on a regular basis. They stake their reputation on it, right? But I see where you are going with this. Here's another tip, ask to have a dental dam or saran wrap to cover the female genitalia, then go to town on her.
3) I'd try to avoid (near impossible since HIV is basically a life sentence) singling out that particular infection. It just so happens that chlamydia, gonnorhea, herpes are much more easily transmitted.
Lenny, it's been fun scrapping with you. Hope we can do it again soon. I have noticed that you have been taking a lot of suggestions/factoids into consideration as you've responded lately without the snarky, defensive tone.
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Uhh, can I interject here?
Being born is an offence punishable by death. We're all on death row; most of us just don't want to face up to it.Lolita said:
