Why I am on the Do Not Review (DNR) list

Status
Not open for further replies.

Dakota Wood

Complex Goddess
Mar 2, 2005
585
0
0
53
Vancouver
First thing, as if there is any doubt left, I am the SP in question in regards to Cadman's post. Second, for people such as Hitrack, who like the Reader's Digest version, see the reply by Miss Jones in the above mentioned thread.

So. I have no fear of bad reviews. As any marketing genius will tell you, there is no such thing as bad publicity. The only negative comment in the review in question was that even tho' my teeth are 'pearly white', I still tasted of nicotine because I am a smoker. Potential clients (notice I said potential clients, not 'people whose single purpose here is to pick me apart') will think one of three things:

-thats nasty, no way I will see her
-yuck, but she is hot, maybe I will see her, but I'll ask for LFK or no kissing
-great! She is a smoker too, maybe she would like to join me on the balcony for a post coitus cig

Some people will be turned off by the negative feedback, some will become more interested, as its something that is not an issue to them. Either way, my name gets out there, thats good marketing.

But here is the thing, I am not out to just market myself and see as many men as I possibly can in a day. Miss Jones was bang on. It's who I want in my select client base. Since I only entertain a couple of guests a day, two days a week, I would prefer them to be clean, nice and respectful. The last thing I want is to have a great or good review go up. The next thing you know, all the guys here with short arms and deep pockets are frothing at the mouth to see me, because my rate is 20, 50 or more less then some others. All they were waiting for is to have it confirmed that I am a good lay with a great attitude, and that the menu is longer (which is totally a ymmv issue). A good review could bring in 10 calls in a single day. No thanks! I would rather see one or two guests a day, who can afford to risk a gamble with 2.5. Thank you to those who have, btw. And to those of you who will jump in and say "I can afford the risk, but I won't if you are on the DNR list", I beg to differ. If an SP has been reviewed, she is not so much a risk. I advertise because I want the generous gentleman to know I am available.

Julia made an excellent point in Cadman's thread. The majority of the members who have contacted me are long time lurkers who have little to no interest in posting here, they are interested in seeing me because of my posting style, attitude, and most recently, my pics. They do not want to get into the fray, they want to come in, make a decision and book an appt. They are not here to post, bicker, debate, flame, argue, or discuss. Good on them.

You guys may not realize it, but sometimes you give too much info. Case in point, the review that got pulled, Cadman was impressed that I didnt ask for the donation, and it was left untouched on the counter when he did put it down, after the session. That is not something I want every scammer and cheapskate here knowing. As an aside, to anyone who did see the review and is planning to attempt to rip me off, new rule, its cash up front at the door, and I will count it. Sorry if that ruins the illusion of a couple of lovers getting together for a little afternoon delight. :( Truth be known, he was one of two I did that with, and a third put it out, but I left it untouched until after he left. If my reason for wanting to be on the DNR list is motivated by crap service, I would not have been willing to wait until the end of the session to have my guest pony up. Just a little something for you guys to consider before you slam me.

The ymmv is another issue. So it gets posted by a reviewer that digits are on the menu. If you have long, dirty and/or ragged nails, digits are so not. The acid test I used to give clients who asked over the phone when I was at PL was...look at your fingers, if you would not stick them deep in your mouth, chances are I do not want them in my orifice either. Same thing with BJs. If you don't have enough sense to wash your asscrack and/or balls before you see me, don't expect much of a BJ. The last thing I need is someone expecting, or even worse, demanding the above mentioned. Its not going to happen, and it would not be pleasant for me to have to explain to them why.

In closing, I am striving to build the business of me on quality, not quantity. I would much rather entertain a couple of guests who I enjoy the time with. And again, before you slam me for that, making statements such as "you don't need to enjoy it, you are being paid to be there", while that is true, more true is that the more I enjoy it, the more I am into it, therefore, the better our time together.

Cheers
Dak'
 

Quarter Mile'r

Injected and Blown
May 17, 2005
3,597
134
63
Out of Town
Dakota Wood said:
more true is that the more I enjoy it, the more I am into it, therefore, the better our time together.

Cheers
Dak'
Couldn't have said it better myself!! Way to go Dakota!

It really does take two to tango and good on you Dakota for getting
this out, I too get tired of all the retoric you hear, like I've said many
times, treat a lady right and she responds in more ways so that most
likely you both will have a smile on your faces at the end of the
night.

But some people just don't operate that way.:rolleyes:


..............QM'r
 

vancouverman

old PERBERTs never die
Jan 19, 2005
3,183
3
38
Vancouver - of course
www.VMSQ.com
Dak ... a great post from the "other side of the DNR list" .
Now.... why not just to POST the list?
There is nothing sinister that you girls want to hide.
 

georgebushmoron

jus call me MR. President
Mar 25, 2003
3,127
2
0
55
Seattle
With the exception of Lisa Giggles and Julia and maybe even VV, and probably a select few others I have not mentioned, I find that few women (SP or not) have personalities that I find even remotely intriguing. In their posts, their personalities do shine through. It reminds me that seeing an SP is not just a physical affair, I am seeing a real person. So even if an SP is on the DNR list, it barely matters. If they post, then there in itself is at times enough of a review. Call it a self-review, if you will!
 

Dakota Wood

Complex Goddess
Mar 2, 2005
585
0
0
53
Vancouver
thank you for your positive input QM, I know that you are not trying to score brownie points with me, as I see from a search you are more into petite asians. Of which I am neither :)

And VM, good question, why not post it, I put it out there and gave what I think are my valid reasons why.
 

hitrack

I'LL KILL YA ALL!!
Feb 25, 2003
3,881
0
0
Surrey
Dakota Wood said:
Second, for people such as Hitrack, who like the Reader's Digest version, see the reply by Miss Jones in the above mentioned thread.
Hahahahahahah she picked me!! :)
 

Verb

Well-known member
Oct 20, 2003
1,300
43
48
SprINGFiELD
LonelyGhost said:
I don't think it is a compliment.

yes...But any publicity even bad publicity is good publicity


Dakota Wood said:
As any marketing genius will tell you, there is no such thing as bad publicity.
 

Quarter Mile'r

Injected and Blown
May 17, 2005
3,597
134
63
Out of Town
Dakota Wood said:
thank you for your positive input QM, I know that you are not trying to score brownie points with me, as I see from a search you are more into petite asians. Of which I am neither :)
Most welcome Dakota,
You're right about the fact that I'm more into petite Asians and I appreciate
the fact that you did some homework on me to substantiate your point.

I simply see it in this world that just because we are paying for it doesn't
mean we have to neglect the obvious. Simple courtesies come from how
we conduct ourselves in every day life I believe,and make up what we are
in reality.

Oh, btw, I'm not just into Asian girls, I just prefer them more often.
But you already know that. :D Did you check out my review of Miss
Fame? God she is a sweety for sure!!

Also like I posted in your advert thread I thought you looked pretty
hot in those pics kiddo, quite sexy indeed!:D

Keep up the good work Dakota, I look forward to more of your style
of posting, And who knows our paths just may cross somewhere down
the road. :cool:


............QM'r
 

Maury Beniowski

Blastocyst
Mar 31, 2004
1,869
1
0
In a nice wet pussy!
Dakota Wood said:
If you have long, dirty and/or ragged nails, digits are so not. The acid test I used to give clients who asked over the phone when I was at PL was...look at your fingers, if you would not stick them deep in your mouth, chances are I do not want them in my orifice either.
Fingers inside a vagina is something I avoid, even with my most Significant Other; and she appreciates the gesture (or lack thereof). I keep my hands clean at all times, but I still believe hands harbour some of the nastiest critters, especially after handling money, btw. Take a cue from gynocologists - they wear sterile latex gloves before going in - that says something. And other than that notorious G-spot, what is there that needs exploring in there?

I had enough of a look and feel of it when I was born, so no thanks, I always stay clear. ;)
 

tobi

New member
May 23, 2004
70
0
0
Red Deer
I agree with Hatrick, a review whether bad or good should be allowed, so long as it is not a personal attack but a review about what they like or dislike about the service. This is a personal busines and each review is subjective based on the individuals interpretation.

If you're trying to build a selective clientale sometimes you have to scrape bottom to build that clientale where you can start to refuse clients. A dentist friend of mine hated being on call at night but when he started out he spent about 3 years doing that to build a client list for his practice. Did he have to deal with some 'unsavory' clients, you bet, but now he can turn away walk ins.

Besides if you provide good service, then the good reviews should outnumber the bad reviews and it's up to the user to decide if he/she should try her or not.
 

Very Veronica

Banned
Aug 2, 2004
1,768
7
0
Vancouver
reviews let me give back to the community...

Kinda like throwin' your scraps to the hungry mongrels...err...i mean, 'it is more blessed to give than to receive.' (bible acts 20:35)
 

Miss Jones

New member
Oct 5, 2005
21
0
0
tobi said:
If you're trying to build a selective clientale sometimes you have to scrape bottom to build that clientale where you can start to refuse clients.
Surely you can understad that this is not a business where "scraping the bottom" results in the sort of reputation that warrants the ability to accept only select clientele.
 

vancouverman

old PERBERTs never die
Jan 19, 2005
3,183
3
38
Vancouver - of course
www.VMSQ.com
Dakota Wood said:
Since I only entertain a couple of guests a day, two days a week,

so you are saying .. this guy is wrong with his calculations .... :confused: :confused: :confused:

hargow said:
if a SP worked 40 hours a week @ $200 per hour for 50 weeks a year, that's 400k annually.
darn ..... :D :D :D
 

Dakota Wood

Complex Goddess
Mar 2, 2005
585
0
0
53
Vancouver
georgebushmoron said:
In their posts, their personalities do shine through. It reminds me that seeing an SP is not just a physical affair, I am seeing a real person. So even if an SP is on the DNR list, it barely matters. If they post, then there in itself is at times enough of a review. Call it a self-review, if you will!
I just saw this. Nice input George. Good reminder to all here that you are indeed booking an appointment with an entire person, not just a neatly trimmed vagina.
 

georgebushmoron

jus call me MR. President
Mar 25, 2003
3,127
2
0
55
Seattle
LonelyGhost said:
a fat wallet.
good comeback LG!

Dakota Wood said:
I just saw this. Nice input George. Good reminder to all here that you are indeed booking an appointment with an entire person, not just a neatly trimmed vagina.
Unfortunately, it can also work against you. However, one thing you did say has instilled some respect in me for you, and that was: "its cash up front at the door, and I will count it. Sorry if that ruins the illusion of a couple of lovers getting together for a little afternoon delight.". I sincerely hope you implement it. I am under no illusions when I see an SP, despite the fact that I enjoy myself more when it is a GFE. Nevertheless, I keep it afront in my consciousness that she is in it for the money and were it anything more than that, I would worry alot more about her sanity and health situation. In reading the discussions on this board, I find many pooners have stupidly deluded themselves into thinking they have a little something special going on with a provider who gives them GFE. Sorry guys, but she does the same to just about any guy who gives her the same amount of cash if not more. Any girl who does not count the money up front is an idiot waiting to be ripped off in an already less-than-honest industry.
 

Chingada

Banned
Feb 14, 2004
341
0
0
Victoria
I think Dakota's posting is refreshing. She's intelligent, articulate and doesn't suffer fools which is trouble for a lot of folks on this board. And looking at her pictures, she's got a wicked body.

Good for her for trying to build a clientle that she feels comfortable with. If i lived in Vancouver, I wouldn't hesitate to see her.:D
 

westwoody

Well-known member
Jun 10, 2004
7,391
6,439
113
Westwood
Dakota Wood said:
You guys may not realize it, but sometimes you give too much info. Case in point, the review that got pulled, Cadman was impressed that I didnt ask for the donation, and it was left untouched on the counter when he did put it down, after the session.
You are so right:a girl I know did this with her regular clientele, and then one asshole took advantage of it and ran off without paying. Other guys post WAY too much specific information about where an SP lives.
Some reviewers also seem to be writing more about themselves than the SP, it's like they want to impress us all with their sexual prowess, their fancy car, or their sophistication. The recent Heidi review for example-was that a review, a shill, or a complete load of BS?
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Vancouver Escorts