Why I am on the Do Not Review (DNR) list

[eljudo]

good comeback LG!



Unfortunately, it can also work against you. However, one thing you did say has instilled some respect in me for you, and that was: "its cash up front at the door, and I will count it. Sorry if that ruins the illusion of a couple of lovers getting together for a little afternoon delight.". I sincerely hope you implement it. I am under no illusions when I see an SP, despite the fact that I enjoy myself more when it is a GFE. Nevertheless, I keep it afront in my consciousness that she is in it for the money and were it anything more than that, I would worry alot more about her sanity and health situation. In reading the discussions on this board, I find many pooners have stupidly deluded themselves into thinking they have a little something special going on with a provider who gives them GFE. Sorry guys, but she does the same to just about any guy who gives her the same amount of cash if not more. Any girl who does not count the money up front is an idiot waiting to be ripped off in an already less-than-honest industry.

Mr. President, I stand shoulder to shoulder with the above comments.

How many depressing nights have i felt, after reading posts such as.

. Can you fall in love with a Sp, she cares about me.. she made me feel loved!

Hell..guys wake up and smell the coffee. You are a customer. You are paying xxx amount of cash to get some loving. thats it. a business transaction. Nothing else.. it may hurt your feelings, but its the down rotten truth.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Dak- you say it so eloquently!!

 

[Dakota Wood]

Any girl who does not count the money up front is an idiot waiting to be ripped off in an already less-than-honest industry.

Ah, but that is the beauty of me running the business of me. Since I am the boss, I am free to make decisions on how it is run, regardless of what the pinhead masses think

Cheers and have a lovely evening!
Dak'

 

[dittman]

you guys are looking at it in the wrong way. reviews are not written for the sps, they are written for the men, to put us on something of an equal footing with the sps. as dakota said or to paraphrase her its all about the money. so personally i really dont care if an sp wants to be reviewed or not. the reviews are all about helping out fellow hobbiest. Since i started to poon about 3 years ago i have had only one really bad experiance and that is because i didnt do my homework it was kind of a spur of the moment thing.

I guess a really good example would be laiya. Most of us have visited with her at one time or another before she fell off the face of the earth, and i dare say all of us had great experiances with her. But since her return, what if she put her name on the nr list and she just wasnt the same laiya? nobody would no and all everybody would go on was her past reputation. not a good thing so i think the nr list is a bad thing and is a form of censorship.

 

[Dakota Wood]

as dakota said or to paraphrase her its all about the money.

Um, dittman, step off, if it was all about the money my donation would be 4, not 2.5, but thanks for coming out. In the future, try not to paraphrase in such an abstract, out there way.

Thanks
Dak

 

[visiting]

my 2 cents

Dakota,

Would you not be able to be more selective with your gentlemen if you had more to pick from? Maybe longer dates with fewer pinheads, for more money?

I am trying to figure out just what happens when an SP gets reviewed. I understand there is an increase in communications, but does an SP have to answer all the calls or emails?. I see one SP that claims 90% of her clients are from this board. I used to make my selection from eros, and red zone, but was very disappointed with most. Now that I have found Perb, (Yaaawhooooo), I have not had anything bad to say about any SP, not one. Granted I have a minimum in regards to a menu, but my decision is not based on this, but rather personality, just as you mentioned in your first post above. For this reason I enjoy reading the reviews, funny, great or bad, they let me try to predict what may happen, and yes I understand YMMV. I have noticed those SP's that write regularly on the board, seem to be well respected. (Thank-you to those SP's that do write regularly) I would think those that get bad reviews regularly do not bother with PERB, giving me additional information to make my opinion. Obviously I also decipher all data collected by my fellow Pinheads....

Regarding discretion
Personally, I understand that discretion is required, as it is a 2 way street, those pooners that don't mind being "outted" must be rare. I wound think that an SP, would have more trouble hiding her habits from her family, friends, and even neighbors, than Perb's 19,230 members, and a few thousand guests who have nothing to do with that SP.

Carfull with the comment "there is no such thing as bad publicity." In your line of work, I would think that is not something everyone can say. 1. I would ask the question, why do SP's MP, and SW change their names. and 2. what about a health scare? Having said that , I do agree with your comment as it regards to premium providers, like you, having nothing to worry about a good or bad review, as I everyone has different tastes, and I think most understand YMMV.


Lastly, I wonder if SP's review pooner's, and if I can be on that DO not review list? I do not need the business.

 

[Daytime Owl]

My 2 cents worth...I don't have a problem with an DNR list. I think we should respect their request if they do not want to be reviewed on the board.

I have no doubt that the majority of the gentlemen, ladies and couples are respectful of the ladies 'Before' (clean, shower, confirming appt's, etc.) and 'During' (menu/limits) the session with the ladies. I think it's only proper to extend that same courtesy and respect 'After' as well to those ladies that do not wish to be reviewed or do not wish the review post to provide every play by play info.

...and it should work both ways as well. Regardless of how your visit went, if a lady request that it would be nice if you could post a review on the board, you should not feel obligated to do so as well.

I'm not sure if this DNR list is posted or not, but it might be a good idea to consider posting it somewhere, to avoid those not knowing.

Lastly if those do need some info on those ladies on the DNR, isn't that what PM thing is for?

 

[stryker]

I'm not sure if this DNR list is posted or not, but it might be a good idea to consider posting it somewhere, to avoid those not knowing.

Lastly if those do need some info on those ladies on the DNR, isn't that what PM thing is for?

It used to be posted but was taken down,,if it was posted for all to see,it would take the guess work out of the equation.Good point about the PM's After all,it's not rocket science we're dealing with here

 

[dittman]

Um, dittman, step off, if it was all about the money my donation would be 4, not 2.5, but thanks for coming out. In the future, try not to paraphrase in such an abstract, out there way.

Thanks
Dak

far be it dakota for me to argue with such a beautiful lady, but if it was'nt only for the cash then you would only charge $100 per hour. Which by the way would still put you in the top percentiles of hourly wage earners in your country and mine. to state other wise is being disingenious.

Oh! by the way being about the cash is not an abstraction but a reality.

Your Welcome
Dit

 

[Dakota Wood]

Well, getting another job is out of the question, as I need the free time to work on starting my own business and right now it's an expense, not profitable . And, I'm not interested in seeing more than a couple of guests each day. But since I need both free time and an income, I guess I could see 8 or 10 guys in one day at a hundred bucks each, that would cover my bills. However, it doesn't sound very appealing for both myself and my guests Not to mention I am trying to steer clear of the short arms/deep pockets crowd.

 

[Dakota Wood]

Oh, looky there! A valid explanation from over four years ago, take that 'the steves'. So much for your pathetic attempt to make me look bad.

 

[Moderator-1]

1. This "was" a 4 year old thread - why was it reopened or added to?

2. Let's keep the drama off Perb. We do not condone "board bashing"