Why girls who swallow are superior

[Avery]

I love to receive BBBJTCIM, but it doesn't matter at all to me whether the lady swallows or spits. All that matters is the sensation while it's happening. When I'm done, it's the lady's choice whether she swallows my load or spits it out (discreetly).If she swallows, it doesn't mean she loves me, and if she spits, it doesn't mean she's rejecting me.

On an amusing (to me) note, the final time I saw a local lady , now retired, she asked me if it was OK if I didn't cum in her mouth. She said the previous time I saw her, my cum was very thick and some of it stuck to the back of her throat when she swallowed. :biggrin1:

 

[jtanks]

Anyway, different strokes for different folks, but to expect every women to be the same is a bit silly.

What I find interesting and slightly annoying is a triggering conflation of "this is excellent service (if provided)" - what I said, to "expect every woman" - what you said. I daresay many women, and not just you, react in the same way. The reason I find it annoying is because it is a female shaming technique to lay blame on a man's natural urges. Nobody is coercing anyone here.

No, it is not expected of every woman. I expect it of girlfriends only, if not, they're gone.

I DO NOT expect it of service providers, but it sure does separate the wheat from the chaff. After all, it's her job to give the man an excellent experience. The money is exchanged in return.

It's like when you pay for a Ferrari, you expect a Ferrari. When you buy a Kia, you only expect a Kia. Sometimes you buy a Kia, but it runs like a Ferrari - but that's another story.

 

[Dick Ford]

The reason I find it annoying is because it is a female shaming technique to lay blame on a man's natural urges.

Oh my, we are sooooooo hard done by the evil womenses who won't submit to our "natural urges". Cry me river. Sorry, bro, you're not a victim, you're just an undersexed asshole who sounds kinda rapey.

FYI, some men's "natural urges" are more geared towards compassion and mutual pleasure, and have little to do with where and how we ejaculate. Maybe most, I hope.

 

[NEbaD]

I've barely read a sentence from anyone in the thread that appears well thought out or that I agree with. If the mods were to opt to close this thread and delete it from the forum entirely, I'd be fine with that.

Swallowing is an acceptance thing. The OP said so himself, and (probably unknowingly) gave up the ghost at the outset. And who in society seeks acceptance? OP even goes so far as to state that "nothing is more satisfying" and that it is the single factor determining excellent from good, in terms of sex. Wow. Furthermore, OP goes on to clarify that the acceptance directly relates to his gender; what does that tell you? Following that, there are many comments in agreement which only further reinforce what I am suggesting, which additionally tells us that this is a somewhat common thing. So, let's take this for what it is, rather than just the manifestation of how it appears in this thread.

I have spent my life working around people and manipulating them to give me large sums of money. I speculate I would have made a great SP, but I've got the wrong chromosomes. When I read this thread, what goes through my mind is how much money could be made. Imagine: take a couple of these guys and make them feel the acceptance they're yearning for, and they're YOURS. I'd be PM'ing them individually, not replying to the thread! Again, Swallowing is the easy manifestation these guys have created (or been spoon-fed themselves, more likely) but really it's dominance & acceptance they're looking for. It's not much different than a dog pissing to mark territory, from my perspective. Capitalize. Or don't.

And as for the replies from the white knights and SP's, just lol. I think jamasianman is the only simple and measured response that didn't reek of insecurity or a complete lack of understanding, at least that I noticed.

 

[summerbreeze]

pineapple juice is supposed to help with the bitter taste, something I have read and tried (not on the receiving side though)

if there were zero health considerations, zero hygiene concerns and no taste issue. perhaps you could make a judgement on someone

but given that is not the case, why categorize someone who has issues with the above, doesn't make sense

just self serving....

not that I know anything but just what I think.....

 

[jtanks]

Oh my, we are sooooooo hard done by the evil womenses who won't submit to our "natural urges". Cry me river. Sorry, bro, you're not a victim, you're just an undersexed asshole who sounds kinda rapey.

FYI, some men's "natural urges" are more geared towards compassion and mutual pleasure, and have little to do with where and how we ejaculate. Maybe most, I hope.

Ok you win Mr. White Knight. You get a gold medal for being the most honorable, the purest of the pure. You'll win the lady's respect every time because you're such a great guy. Keyboard courage, amazing how much one has to muster to get that.

 

[jgg]

Take it for what is worth. Some do. Some don't. They're all great.

 

[jtanks]

I've barely read a sentence from anyone in the thread that appears well thought out or that I agree with. If the mods were to opt to close this thread and delete it from the forum entirely, I'd be fine with that.

Swallowing is an acceptance thing. The OP said so himself, and (probably unknowingly) gave up the ghost at the outset. And who in society seeks acceptance? OP even goes so far as to state that "nothing is more satisfying" and that it is the single factor determining excellent from good, in terms of sex. Wow. Furthermore, OP goes on to clarify that the acceptance directly relates to his gender; what does that tell you? Following that, there are many comments in agreement which only further reinforce what I am suggesting, which additionally tells us that this is a somewhat common thing. So, let's take this for what it is, rather than just the manifestation of how it appears in this thread.

I have spent my life working around people and manipulating them to give me large sums of money. I speculate I would have made a great SP, but I've got the wrong chromosomes. When I read this thread, what goes through my mind is how much money could be made. Imagine: take a couple of these guys and make them feel the acceptance they're yearning for, and they're YOURS. I'd be PM'ing them individually, not replying to the thread! Again, Swallowing is the easy manifestation these guys have created (or been spoon-fed themselves, more likely) but really it's dominance & acceptance they're looking for. It's not much different than a dog pissing to mark territory, from my perspective. Capitalize. Or don't.

And as for the replies from the white knights and SP's, just lol. I think jamasianman is the only simple and measured response that didn't reek of insecurity or a complete lack of understanding, at least that I noticed.

Yeah I get it, I think yes, if you're a swallower, capitalize on that insecurity that creates the demand. Sure, go for it, makes sense to me.

And it's no different than the girl who has the perfect set of natural big tits to capitalize on that, because that's what sets her apart, wheat from chaff.

As for those who claim that I have somehow excluded women from giving men excellent experiences though she doesn't swallow, or heck only offers platonic hugs and kisses ("an entire industry based on that".... LMAO ok let's go with that), no, I never said that men can't feel like they got their money's worth nor that they didn't think it was excellent. There's guys who'll pay to be farted on too, they'll probably tell you they had an excellent experience.

It's so great, I open up with a contentious topic and it becomes all these other things because ... well.. triggered!

Ok folks, it's just a debate. Hopefully nobody was hurt too bad!!

 

[jgg]

I speculate I would have made a great SP, but I've got the wrong chromosomes.

Maybe...speculative at best. This isn't a gender restricted business.

 

[PerbMod]

Is there something in the water today? I don't want to have to close this one down, but it's headed that way if people can't play nice.

 

[sybian]

Is there something in the water today? I don't want to have to close this one down, but it's headed that way if people can't play nice.

It may be the turkey hangover.....or some people ARE NOT adding water to their Rye.

 

[NEbaD]

And we have another male trying to advise sps how to do their jobs.

You manipulate people for money... oh wow what a thing to take pride in!! How does your soul feel? Are you truly happy with your life? Funny that you are endorsing the manipulation route for an sp to be successful. I’m sorry to say, but all the soulless hustlers I’ve known over the years who chose that route are the most miserable women in this trade. I’ve seen past “friends” of mine clean clients out like blood sucking leaches the minute the guy became emotionally attached to them. But all that dishonesty and manipulation came back onto their lives 10 fold.

Ethical providers capitalize on being trustworthy, reliable service providers. There is no need to be manipulative. Yes, some men pay for fantasy, but it is the providers responsibility to ensure it isn’t taken too far.

Just... Wow. Okay.

Real quick:
1. I'm a PERSON, making a SUGGESTION, to PEOPLE. I'm not telling anyone what to do, I'm saying what I myself would do. Go back and read it again, that's what it says. There's not many women in my line of work, but there's plenty of female clients, and I certainly wouldn't omit the possibility of a friendly suggestion from a female based on her gender. I'm not sorry for being a man, and I definitely don't need to apologize for offering my opinions and suggestions in an open forum. I further suggest you rethink your position on gender, as a whole.

2. I don't take pride in my life, but neither am I so ashamed of it that I have to lie about it, and I've learned a lot of useful skills which are relatable to other fields. I'm a happy person. My soul is fine. It's true, a lot of people couldn't live with themselves, if they were me; my life isn't for everybody. Probably similar to an SP in that regard. I will politely and optimistically choose to view your comment as poorly written concern, rather than what I suspect to be the truth.

... Next,

Originally Posted by jgg
Maybe...speculative at best. This isn't a gender restricted business.

Yeah, speculative. I'm aware of that, which is exactly why I wrote it in there. Then you repeated it. If you disagree, just say so, or don't; there's no need to be passive aggressive as this is an open forum, and your implications are clear when you choose to make a short post exclusively to make a short reiteration, as you have. All good though, and no salt; you may even be correct, who knows?


Finally,

Originally Posted by PerbMod
Is there something in the water today? I don't want to have to close this one down, but it's headed that way if people can't play nice.

Great idea. That was my first suggestion on this thread.

 

[NEbaD]

Yeah I get it, I think yes, if you're a swallower, capitalize on that insecurity that creates the demand. Sure, go for it, makes sense to me.

And it's no different than the girl who has the perfect set of natural big tits to capitalize on that, because that's what sets her apart, wheat from chaff.

As for those who claim that I have somehow excluded women from giving men excellent experiences though she doesn't swallow, or heck only offers platonic hugs and kisses ("an entire industry based on that".... LMAO ok let's go with that), no, I never said that men can't feel like they got their money's worth nor that they didn't think it was excellent. There's guys who'll pay to be farted on too, they'll probably tell you they had an excellent experience.

It's so great, I open up with a contentious topic and it becomes all these other things because ... well.. triggered!

Ok folks, it's just a debate. Hopefully nobody was hurt too bad!!

BTW I really like this reply OP. Objective, well thought out, and a degree of levity. Exactly what this thread lacks. Cheers!

 

[uncleg]

The wonders of too much porn.... From some of the crap, any woman that would have any form of sex with you would be superior. If it was for free she'd probably be a god to you.

 

[UhOh]

I agree. There is an entire other world in the sex industry where men want and pay for experiences that do not involve blowjobs or sexual intercourse.

A sex industry without blowjobs and intercourse? Sounds like an episode of The Twilight Zone.

 

[sybian]

A sex industry without blowjobs and intercourse? Sounds like an episode of The Twilight Zone.

NA -Nee-Nah Nah... NA -Nee-Nah-nah

 

[jtanks]

A sex industry without blowjobs and intercourse? Sounds like an episode of The Twilight Zone.

Yeah right? What an incredible fantasy.

 

[Homie the clown]

Any asians who allow swallow? Only one for me was amalia at westcoast..april at 1122 and katie as well. Morgan awhile back. Tiffany nguyen but too bad shes lomg gone.

 

[PerbMod]

ok, now this is 411 thread about who swallows. Hijack complete. Closed.