Why do you poon and not get a GF?

[badbadboy]

Probably piss the wife off and I'd hate to wake up with a hand grenade up my arse with the pin pulled. She has access to them you know.

Well, if you gotta go, you might as well go out with a bang

 

[Addison Cortez]

I despise the term “menu” as well. It’s dehumanizing.

I either accept or deny "requests" and don't have a "menu" and typically ignore any texts that don't have a polite introduction, and then there's a series of hoops they're required to jump through. They must promptly follow instruction and treat me with integrity and respect or I won't be treating them :lol: Typical GFE here....give me the respect that I want, and I can give you anything you desire....although, beginner ball busting? Is there an actual beginner point? :laugh: :wink:

 

[Addison Cortez]

There is an old saying along the lines of “you don’t pay a companion for intimacy, you pay her to leave afterwards“

I think that sums it up for a lot of people. We live in an incredibly fast paced society with so much going on that many of us don’t have the time, ability or desire to spend hours every week “working” on a relationship.

If someone is trying to build a business, focus on their fitness, take up new courses at school, or do pretty much anything else that is time-consuming, it leaves a very small window for personal time. Many people in such a situation opt not to spend The balance of their free time with unpleasant conversations, drama or doing things they don’t really feel like doing.

Seeing a companion allows a person to enjoy intimacy, connection, Great conversation and all the other beautiful parts of a relationship on their terms. It doesn’t mean that these relationships are sub par to having an SO. I feel in many ways they are superior. Not only are they more efficient, and work around your schedule, but when you find a lady who truly loves what she does, the relationship is every bit as real as a traditional relationship for the time you are together. When you only see someone for a few hours a week or a few hours a month, you tend to appreciate them much more. Speaking from my own perspective, I find I am a much better girlfriend to my suitors then I am to anyone I dated in my civilian life. Having a finite amount of time with an individual allows me to focus entirely on them and give them my best. In a traditional relationship, you get a bit of everything!

very well said, QUALITY time :love_heart:

 

[BIGOZZIE]

As usual Angel says it best, there is nothing comparable to visiting someone genuinely happy to see you albeit for a short time

 

[storm rider]

I tried the dating scene after I got divorced....ran into a few nut bars to say the least.One gal I took on 3 dates and fucked once.Next day she calls me up and tells me about this incredible "investment opportunity" and when I asked for specifics she had no answers....not missing a beat she asks me if I would "loan" her $20,000....and I said I did not have $20,000...she said I could take it out of my house equity.....I then asked about how it would be "secured" or how the "loan" would be approved by my bank as well as the interest on the "loan"......she replied...."you want it paid back!"......to which I responded "yeah that is what happens with a loan/debt etc".....in her mind I was just going to take out $20,000 worth of equity in my house and GIVE it to her....her ego was writing cheques her body cant cash as her pussy was not worth 20 GRAND.

There are a lot of gold diggers out there and I dont consider myself a gold mine to be stripped of it's proverbial wealth.

When the itch needs to be scratched it gets done at a quality asian micro and the sex is wicked with no regrets....pay the cost up front and have the fun.

A couple of my friends have had a GF just for the sake of having a GF.....and both of them have at least 2 illegitimate bastard children because the GF's wanted to TRAP them and both of them are of the mindset that paying for sex is immoral....yeah well being a deadbeat breeder of bastard children is far more immoral IMFHO.

I dont have any bastard children on the 3rd rock from the sun because I either paid for the sex and used a condom or if I did not pay I USED a condom.

SR

 

[PierreCoeur]

Because no attractive intelligent woman would want a guy like me. Sometimes one needs to accept that truth.

 

[maxic]

Because no attractive intelligent woman would want a guy like me. Sometimes one needs to accept that truth.

Look at the positive side don't have to deal with some drama bs their needs and wants nagging , do things that you dont really like and enjoy at all just coz they want to do it and many many other things like that. Imo renting them for sex is just better and you get variety you get the freedom to do or travel wherever etc,etc and not just the same over and over then it becomes like a boring job ...

 

[eggtart_prince]

How about you start it off. Why do you poon?

I poon because it's fast, it's easy, and I get services that a GF wouldn't give on the first couple of dates.

I'm not trying to get a GF because, personally, I'm not good at the social game and definitely don't like putting up with it. To elaborate what those game are, it seems like women (and men), like to play these push and pull games. It's like, sometimes they're hot, sometimes they're cold. When they want to get with me, they try so hard not to show it. And when I go to show I want them, they play the stay away game. I sense this in every girl I met who I never dated, and eventually we just never end up together because I have literally zero tolerance for these behaviors. Never liked small talk, not good at first impressions because I always be myself, prefer straight up, straight forward encounters, rather than beat around the bush.

 

[jgg]

I poon because it's fast, it's easy, and I get services that a GF wouldn't give on the first couple of dates.

I'm not trying to get a GF because, personally, I'm not good at the social game and definitely don't like putting up with it. To elaborate what those game are, it seems like women (and men), like to play these push and pull games. It's like, sometimes they're hot, sometimes they're cold. When they want to get with me, they try so hard not to show it. And when I go to show I want them, they play the stay away game. I sense this in every girl I met who I never dated, and eventually we just never end up together because I have literally zero tolerance for these behaviors. Never liked small talk, not good at first impressions because I always be myself, prefer straight up, straight forward encounters, rather than beat around the bush.

That is a perfectly legitimate reason.

 

[johnnydepth]

I poon because it's fast, it's easy, and I get services that a GF wouldn't give on the first couple of dates.

I'm not trying to get a GF because, personally, I'm not good at the social game and definitely don't like putting up with it. To elaborate what those game are, it seems like women (and men), like to play these push and pull games. It's like, sometimes they're hot, sometimes they're cold. When they want to get with me, they try so hard not to show it. And when I go to show I want them, they play the stay away game. I sense this in every girl I met who I never dated, and eventually we just never end up together because I have literally zero tolerance for these behaviors. Never liked small talk, not good at first impressions because I always be myself, prefer straight up, straight forward encounters, rather than beat around the bush.

Thanks for sharing. For myself, it's for experiences I wouldn't encounter in my daily life. This usually means one of two things. The SP has a look or ethnic background that I would rarely if ever encounter in dating. Examples would be Manuella Cruz (now retired), Destiny Xu, Vandal Vyxen, etc... The second reason is to try things that might not fly in a dating/ relationship situation.

 

[badbadboy]

Thanks for sharing. For myself, it's for experiences I wouldn't encounter in my daily life. This usually means one of two things. The SP has a look or ethnic background that I would rarely if ever encounter in dating. Examples would be Manuella Cruz (now retired), Destiny Xu, Vandal Vyxen, etc... The second reason is to try things that might not fly in a dating/ relationship situation.

Good points with the ethnicity being something that most likely be unobtainable in a dating situation.

Also trying things with a new GF that liberal minded escorts had no problem with created a bit of an issue.

GF at the time was more friends with benefits but on a fairly strict timetable. Juggling career, kids, dog and her Ex with a guy who liked to take his time building up to it; just didn't work for her. She was on the clock and 45 min was her max time. It was fun while it lasted.

I still prefer taking my time on 2 hr dates.

 

[Sonny]

Easy answer. I am extremely promiscuous.
I am naturally attracted to countless women, and I'd love to have sex with all of them.
Such inclination doesn't bode well for a relationship with a SO but works very well with SPs.
I've done the GF & wife gambit. I like the freedom I have without them.

 

[sybian]

who's asking you?

I thought you were asking?.......if you put a question out there...it may get answered with another question.
It's in my personality to look you in the eye, and respectfully answer. My comment was in no way a personal attack......unlike your response.

Kinder gentler Perb....Kinder gentler Perb

 

[87112]

I am way too old. 48 now and set in my ways to have a gf and than marry. I don't think after the initial attraction I can stand anyone's quirks and crap. If I do get a partner its only for some good cooking and I really can't name more than that.

 

[tivad]

All I have to do is watch my business partner wasting his time dating woman his own age and they all only last 3 to 6 months.Mostly because they all want more of a commitment.Also he probably spends more money than l do pooning... as in trips and gifts .Personally I would rather be banging a different 20 or 30 year old woman every week . l am married to my business as it is my biggest investment next to the real estate properties I own . Not willing to give up half ever again!!! If it Flies... Floats... or Fucks rent it !!! Well maybe not my boat LOL...