Why do you poon and not get a GF?
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+1. Some of us even have the permission of their significant other
Mine has even joined me for erotic massages, but she can't quite get on board with a threesome.
As said above variety, and picky perhaps. Plus I've gotten good with deflecting the "why are you single" question and when the time comes again I might lose practice.
I have found there are a few reason why I don't have a GF.
Opportunity is one. Through the yrs I just did not run I not that many girl where where the situation allowed you to get to know each other or to even ask someone out..it did not help being shy either. If I really did find my self attracted to some one .I tried ,but none were ever attracted to me other then just friendly.
I also realized that I did just want to have sex with them..and most girl are not like that ..they have lots of other things they like to do and the guy has to have the money to pay for bit. I did not all ways have a lot of money.
When I did have money I helped out a few girls but they never were girl friend...That is probably why I ended up just paying for sex and companionship ,yes it was easier no much stress and few disappointment.
Of course once I go to know them instill could not help my self from trying to make them a GF..and that always turned into them being friends and not wanting sex lol.
And that comes back to why guys with girl friends or wives see escorts..Guys. like to have sex at the drop of hat and will do it any where.very rarely will we find a girl that is like that, usually it that they are too busy,working, going to school, got a head ache,time of month or got to see a friend..it is amazing how many excuses they have so they don't have to have sex..and in the mean time the guyus paying for everything or a bunch If it because thatisxthe way we are .
FUNNY thing is that guys that don't pay for every thing treat girl like dirt and don't respect them,have girls falling over them.or staying with them and put out for all their needs..
Opportunity is one. Through the yrs I just did not run I not that many girl where where the situation allowed you to get to know each other or to even ask someone out..it did not help being shy either. If I really did find my self attracted to some one .I tried ,but none were ever attracted to me other then just friendly.
I also realized that I did just want to have sex with them..and most girl are not like that ..they have lots of other things they like to do and the guy has to have the money to pay for bit. I did not all ways have a lot of money.
When I did have money I helped out a few girls but they never were girl friend...That is probably why I ended up just paying for sex and companionship ,yes it was easier no much stress and few disappointment.
Of course once I go to know them instill could not help my self from trying to make them a GF..and that always turned into them being friends and not wanting sex lol.
And that comes back to why guys with girl friends or wives see escorts..Guys. like to have sex at the drop of hat and will do it any where.very rarely will we find a girl that is like that, usually it that they are too busy,working, going to school, got a head ache,time of month or got to see a friend..it is amazing how many excuses they have so they don't have to have sex..and in the mean time the guyus paying for everything or a bunch If it because thatisxthe way we are .
FUNNY thing is that guys that don't pay for every thing treat girl like dirt and don't respect them,have girls falling over them.or staying with them and put out for all their needs..
Then there are those of us who have a SO and family. Not gettin any at home for a medical reason. Unable to date a GF cuz you will be seen in public. Hence discretion is a must.
I used to spend a LOT of time online trying to connect with compatible civilian ladies, get to know them, set up meetings for casual encounters, etc Then I realised that with paid companionship it took WAY less time, the quality of women (both in attitude and physically) was WAY better and the availability was WAY easier, so I was hooked...
Same here.
Also over time the casualness of the encounters took on too much of a 'relationship' which was contrary to what was initially agreed to from the start.
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There is an old saying along the lines of “you don’t pay a companion for intimacy, you pay her to leave afterwards“
I think that sums it up for a lot of people. We live in an incredibly fast paced society with so much going on that many of us don’t have the time, ability or desire to spend hours every week “working” on a relationship.
If someone is trying to build a business, focus on their fitness, take up new courses at school, or do pretty much anything else that is time-consuming, it leaves a very small window for personal time. Many people in such a situation opt not to spend The balance of their free time with unpleasant conversations, drama or doing things they don’t really feel like doing.
Seeing a companion allows a person to enjoy intimacy, connection, Great conversation and all the other beautiful parts of a relationship on their terms. It doesn’t mean that these relationships are sub par to having an SO. I feel in many ways they are superior. Not only are they more efficient, and work around your schedule, but when you find a lady who truly loves what she does, the relationship is every bit as real as a traditional relationship for the time you are together. When you only see someone for a few hours a week or a few hours a month, you tend to appreciate them much more. Speaking from my own perspective, I find I am a much better girlfriend to my suitors then I am to anyone I dated in my civilian life. Having a finite amount of time with an individual allows me to focus entirely on them and give them my best. In a traditional relationship, you get a bit of everything!
I think that sums it up for a lot of people. We live in an incredibly fast paced society with so much going on that many of us don’t have the time, ability or desire to spend hours every week “working” on a relationship.
If someone is trying to build a business, focus on their fitness, take up new courses at school, or do pretty much anything else that is time-consuming, it leaves a very small window for personal time. Many people in such a situation opt not to spend The balance of their free time with unpleasant conversations, drama or doing things they don’t really feel like doing.
Seeing a companion allows a person to enjoy intimacy, connection, Great conversation and all the other beautiful parts of a relationship on their terms. It doesn’t mean that these relationships are sub par to having an SO. I feel in many ways they are superior. Not only are they more efficient, and work around your schedule, but when you find a lady who truly loves what she does, the relationship is every bit as real as a traditional relationship for the time you are together. When you only see someone for a few hours a week or a few hours a month, you tend to appreciate them much more. Speaking from my own perspective, I find I am a much better girlfriend to my suitors then I am to anyone I dated in my civilian life. Having a finite amount of time with an individual allows me to focus entirely on them and give them my best. In a traditional relationship, you get a bit of everything!
At the end of the day to me it's the fulfillment of a fantasy.
Coming "home" to a gorgeous young lady who is ready and willing to jump your bones without the issues of everyday life getting in the way.
I've dated quite regularly and in two instances lived with someone for an extended period of time. I enjoyed the familiarity that came with seeing the same person every day and the mutual feelings that develop in that situation, but while that fantasy is there in the beginning of those relationships it always fades. When that happens the urge to indulge in that fantasy always lingers and with such high quality SP's being readily available and able to provide exactly that experience I find it tough to resist.
Coming "home" to a gorgeous young lady who is ready and willing to jump your bones without the issues of everyday life getting in the way.
I've dated quite regularly and in two instances lived with someone for an extended period of time. I enjoyed the familiarity that came with seeing the same person every day and the mutual feelings that develop in that situation, but while that fantasy is there in the beginning of those relationships it always fades. When that happens the urge to indulge in that fantasy always lingers and with such high quality SP's being readily available and able to provide exactly that experience I find it tough to resist.
