Why Do People with PERB Accounts Not Use this Websites Tools, Knowledge & Advice?

[kelcaine]

Just curious to see what people’s thoughts are on this because over the last 3.5 years I have done this & had a PERB ad as a supporting member I see people not using the tools here, not taking advice given, or using the knowledge here. I see people booking with people who others post and warn about, which can be avoided if people use the search tool here. I see people warning of scams with people replying with “did she look like her pics?” Or other questions when the reply should be to avoid the scammer.

I have seen many members posting advice on here about ways to avoid scams, how to contact providers, red flags to avoid and more. There’s a lot of great advice and knowledge on here and even with a longer thread one only has to search key words to find this information.

This website is such a great tool and resource for anyone seeking to book our services, but I am always perplexed how so many who have membership here does not use these things. I just had someone who saw my PERB ad, is a member here and wanted me to phone call verify that I’m legit, and ironically are contacting me from a texting app, but a quick PERB search, and the fact my ad has been running here since 2022 shows I’m legit.

I just thought I would post about this here to maybe get people’s views and opinions here. I’m always open to learning and thought this could maybe generate conversation that can be helpful and constructive, maybe shed some light on each side of providers and clients? Thanks.

 

[westwoody]

Baffling: posters ask for advice, do the opposite of what they are told, and then expect sympathy.

I think guys see a picture and their brain shuts down.

 

[carvesg]

A lot of people don't pay attention to the details posted in ads as they are quite often set in their ways and keep repeating their modus operandi so not to have to think.

As for disregarding warning signs or bad reviews I put it on the fact that a lot of guys think they can avoid traps with their exceptional wisdom or marvelous personality which allow them to stay above the fray and or miraculously change the behavior displayed by an SP.

 

[jgg]

You can't fix stupid.

 

[Forum mod]

It boggles the mind. A string of bad reviews of a particular lady will inevitably be followed by a guy asking about her contact info. It doesn't matter if someone reviews that she uses battery acid instead of lube, some champ will still be interested in seeing her. It's one of life's mysteries. Either their brain is located entirely within the confines of their dick, or they actually like over paying for substandard service or being ripped off. I have even seen guys eagerly asking about girls arrested for robbing men at gunpoint or drugging them, like they will be the lotto winner who has a great session with her.

Yeah, she shot your dick off, but she's really hot! I think I can tame her.

 

[oldshark]

I write reviews, trying to do a credible job in describing the lady but in even in the same thread, less than 10 posts below the review, people will be asking for the information I already provided! And you don't need to rely on my reviews, this site has a 'search' function for another opinion. I use it but do others? Being able to search up comments has helped me avoid some disastrous providers.

 

[Fiona]

Just curious to see what people’s thoughts are on this because over the last 3.5 years I have done this & had a PERB ad as a supporting member I see people not using the tools here, not taking advice given, or using the knowledge here. I see people booking with people who others post and warn about, which can be avoided if people use the search tool here. I see people warning of scams with people replying with “did she look like her pics?” Or other questions when the reply should be to avoid the scammer.

I have seen many members posting advice on here about ways to avoid scams, how to contact providers, red flags to avoid and more. There’s a lot of great advice and knowledge on here and even with a longer thread one only has to search key words to find this information.

This website is such a great tool and resource for anyone seeking to book our services, but I am always perplexed how so many who have membership here does not use these things. I just had someone who saw my PERB ad, is a member here and wanted me to phone call verify that I’m legit, and ironically are contacting me from a texting app, but a quick PERB search, and the fact my ad has been running here since 2022 shows I’m legit.

I just thought I would post about this here to maybe get people’s views and opinions here. I’m always open to learning and thought this could maybe generate conversation that can be helpful and constructive, maybe shed some light on each side of providers and clients? Thanks.

Yes to all ! I say daily “ most questions are easily answered on my website & X account . Usually the answer I get back is
“ sorry I just saw boobs & texted “ 😒
They wonder why independents are
“ so difficult to see “ the amount of leg work that gets taken advantage can be brutal, luckily there’s wonderful ones that balance it out tho ❤

 

[masterpoonhunter]

It boggles the mind. A string of bad reviews of a particular lady will inevitably be followed by a guy asking about her contact info. It doesn't matter if someone reviews that she uses battery acid instead of lube, some champ will still be interested in seeing her. It's one of life's mysteries. Either their brain is located entirely within the confines of their dick, or they actually like over paying for substandard service or being ripped off. I have even seen guys eagerly asking about girls arrested for robbing men at gunpoint or drugging them, like they will be the lotto winner who has a great session with her.

Yeah, she shot your dick off, but she's really hot! I think I can tame her.

It is constant. I stopped trying to understand long ago and put it down to a lack of critical thinking. If A, then B, is something that is not within some folks grasp. its like their rectal output is firmly attached to their cranial input.

 

[Twopopshakur]

Sometimes it's hard to tell if a review is accurate due to differing taste and sometimes theres a bit of ego to it, they think they are a better client and thus will get better service which can also be true depending on the poster theres definitely some reading between the lines but when its multiple people saying the same thing then I have no sympathy

 

[kelcaine]

It boggles the mind. A string of bad reviews of a particular lady will inevitably be followed by a guy asking about her contact info. It doesn't matter if someone reviews that she uses battery acid instead of lube, some champ will still be interested in seeing her. It's one of life's mysteries. Either their brain is located entirely within the confines of their dick, or they actually like over paying for substandard service or being ripped off. I have even seen guys eagerly asking about girls arrested for robbing men at gunpoint or drugging them, like they will be the lotto winner who has a great session with her.

Yeah, she shot your dick off, but she's really hot! I think I can tame her.

I wonder if this is lack of critical thinking, skills and lack of judgment, or do some of these men have a kink for being ripped off?

I just don’t understand fully how many PERB members don’t use the tools they have here and it’s free too.

 

[Larry's Torch]

I'm here for the memes.

 

[Forum mod]

Please stay on topic. If you want to discuss trolls or lounge lizards, start a different thread.

We had another newbie recently admit to being brutally scammed, even though they knew better but didn't check here first. That's the topic the OP is asking about. He was so embarrassed he deleted the thread instead of letting others comment. Some lessons are learned only painfully it would seem for some guys. PERB when used properly is preventative medicine.

 

[westwoody]

It is embarrassing to admit to being scammed and props to those who come forward.
You are doing a service to others by warning them!

 

[PuntMeister]

Little head.

Little patience.

Little effort.

 

[Dick Ford]

Why do fools fall in love? Why does the rain fall from up above? Why do birds sing so gay? Some mysteries may never be solved.

 

[dchoye]

Grateful for all the warnings and candid sharing between posters here. Has really made this hobby much better when working together.
Dudes don’t want to be ripped off and the Sps want to compensate honestly for their services

 

[80watts]

Might be statistical proof that men think with their dicks.....

 

[Bang4thebuck]

A lot of men are stupid and/or naive. They see other men post about bad experiences, and assume they just didn't treat the girl right, and that they'll have a better experience because they're a "nice guy". Then they end up paying to get castrated by the same girl and are completely shocked that this happened to them, a total gentleman of all people!

A lot of people also don't have any critical thinking skills. I can see right through all these scams, fakes, bait and switch ads, etc., to me they seem obvious, but so many people are completely oblivious. Just look at how many people lose their life savings to dumb ass scams. It's truly mindblowing. I have a client worth about $30m who tried to convince me to invest in this opportunity in Singapore and he had $1m lined up and ready to be wired... he heard of the opportunity through a spam email and had a phone call with the scammer too. He said he trusts the guy because "he is also a man of God". I had to bite my tongue to resist calling him a fucking idiot.

My dad raised me to be an honest businessman, and I wish he hadn't because there are millions of dollars to be made off of gullible people. A fool and their money are soon parted.

 

[kelcaine]

A lot of men are stupid and/or naive. They see other men post about bad experiences, and assume they just didn't treat the girl right, and that they'll have a better experience because they're a "nice guy". Then they end up paying to get castrated by the same girl and are completely shocked that this happened to them, a total gentleman of all people!

A lot of people also don't have any critical thinking skills. I can see right through all these scams, fakes, bait and switch ads, etc., to me they seem obvious, but so many people are completely oblivious. Just look at how many people lose their life savings to dumb ass scams. It's truly mindblowing. I have a client worth about $30m who tried to convince me to invest in this opportunity in Singapore and he had $1m lined up and ready to be wired... he heard of the opportunity through a spam email and had a phone call with the scammer too. He said he trusts the guy because "he is also a man of God". I had to bite my tongue to resist calling him a fucking idiot.

My dad raised me to be an honest businessman, and I wish he hadn't because there are millions of dollars to be made off of gullible people. A fool and their money are soon parted.

Sure there is money to be made scamming people but imo scammers are the lowest of the low. Taking advantage of someone by tricking them out of money to steal is so morally wrong. I’m a firm believer of karma, and I would rather be an honest business person and be able to have a clear conscience my money earned was actually earned not stolen. I think to scam people you need to have no integrity, no self respect, to be selfish and morally corrupt.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

Sure there is money to be made scamming people but imo scammers are the lowest of the low. Taking advantage of someone by tricking them out of money to steal is so morally wrong. I’m a firm believer of karma, and I would rather be an honest business person and be able to have a clear conscience my money earned was actually earned not stolen. I think to scam people you need to have no integrity, no self respect, to be selfish and morally corrupt.

I agree, I could never do it, but some people do not have a moral compass and do not have a problem taking advantage of others. Unfortunately they are the ones who get the farthest in terms of money and power. It says a lot about our society when being a good person ends up being a liability rather than an asset.