Why are you here?

[mimi]

I see this question asked of the pooners and sps who are no longer involved in the lifestyle and I have struggled to answer it for myself.

Well, first off, I am in the process of 'switching teams' and I like to check out the gals (no guy is ever gonna be able to settle with me. I am old enough to have figured this out.)

I subscribe to other forums. On the car forum we talk about cars. On the cooking forum we talk about cooking. On the geneology forum we talk about old things.

But, here on perb we can talk about everything, and, quite often responses to problems come faster than on the other forums as there is more diversity here.

Besides, one thing every human has an opinion on, whether a virgin, a priest, a Madame, a Mayor, or whatever, is :sex

So, that's why I am here...besides the really pretty pictures of boobies!

 

[LADY-VIA]

to advertise
to read the forum for entertainment
to check out the other girls

 

[Dickson]

I have come here for years just reading and reseaching. I only recently signed up as a SP told me I should share my stories. I find the comments interesting and gets me to think. I feel safe here as I am on the other side of the world but Vancouver is a great play ground and I should give back.

 

[Dgodus]

I had an answer but for some reason I can only think of boobs at the moment.

 

[tantalizeme]

I see this question asked of the pooners and sps who are no longer involved in the lifestyle and I have struggled to answer it for myself.

Well, first off, I am in the process of 'switching teams' and I like to check out the gals (no guy is ever gonna be able to settle with me. I am old enough to have figured this out.)

Hi Mimi,

So if I'm reading this correctly, you're going to become a lesbian just because you've lost faith in any man being able "settle with" you—which means what? Able to keep up sexually with you? Put up with your quirks? Pay your debts? Perhaps you can clarify.

Based on your contributions to this forum, you sound like a gem who could make an intelligent, sex-loving older guy very happy!

Now regarding your question—four reasons come to mind why I'm on PERB:

1. Entertainment: I find truth more entertaining than fiction, and I like reading gritty tales from the frontlines of pooning. I prefer reviews in which a guy tries to capture the human drama of an encounter and perhaps bares his soul at bit.

2. Encouragement: To read about the exploits of other pooners helps give me momentum to venture forth into the wilds of poonland more frequently.

3. Information and quality control: Sometimes PERB alerts me to gems and helps me avoid duds or ripoffs. I'm sure, if there were no culture of reviews, a lot more awful SPs would get away with shoddy service.

4. Self-expression: I find the chance to post reviews or other sex-related thoughts to be an enjoyable incentive to reflect on the world's most amazing hobby—which, however, has lots of pitfalls and complexities. I also enjoy encouraging newbies to go for what they want sexually or making fellow pooners aware of potential bliss (or lack thereof) with a lady.

That said, I wonder—though I have a theory—what prompts guys whose main interest is sports, politics or some other non-sexual topic to relieve themselves all over an SP website rather than any of zillion websites dedicated to those other topics.

 

[Mod-2]

To make sure everyone plays nice.

 

[Elmore]

Bad habits are not easy to break...but I'm working on it.

 

[Ray]

Entertaining bunch of people here. As well as informative, about pretty much every subject.

 

[threepeat]

I guess once one can talk about sex freely, one can talk about anything freely. I like the openness here (for the most part... )

 

[sevenofnine]

why am i here
i guess because i have doubts,

my father was abusive and a rapist, and i struggle i guess with sexuality my need for it my desires,
im married with two kids, and i would say all is well on the home front,

but yet i know, we can tell our self anything and if we say it ofton enough we will believe it,
im here very simple because i doubt my self i want people to tell me im wrong, im full of shit, or whatever,
but i want them to back it up logically and rationally
not honestly to tell me im simply dysfunctional or screwed up but tell me why, and do it in a logical fashion,

or to tell me they agree with me,
i don't know i want to learn to grow, learn about myself my reasons thoughts,
compare myself to others am i ok, or that fucked up,

i think if you know you have all the answers then well your headed for a crash,
i think if you carry on, with no checks your headed for a crash,
you need some one to tell you to smarten the fuck up once in awhile.

and well my sp won't because i pay her to well,
who the hell else am i going to talk to about this hobby and wonder if im doing it right

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I'm here to discuss topics that few people out there could understand...

 

[myselftheother]

why am i here
i guess because i have doubts,

my father was abusive and a rapist, and i struggle i guess with sexuality my need for it my desires,
im married with two kids, and i would say all is well on the home front,

but yet i know, we can tell our self anything and if we say it ofton enough we will believe it,
im here very simple because i doubt my self i want people to tell me im wrong, im full of shit, or whatever,
but i want them to back it up logically and rationally
not honestly to tell me im simply dysfunctional or screwed up but tell me why, and do it in a logical fashion,

or to tell me they agree with me,
i don't know i want to learn to grow, learn about myself my reasons thoughts,
compare myself to others am i ok, or that fucked up,

i think if you know you have all the answers then well your headed for a crash,
i think if you carry on, with no checks your headed for a crash,
you need some one to tell you to smarten the fuck up once in awhile.

and well my sp won't because i pay her to well,
who the hell else am i going to talk to about this hobby and wonder if im doing it right

Interesting thoughts there, 7o'9...nobody can tell you why you're screwed up, and there is no logical reason for the way you feel, as feelings and shit like that ain't logical. The sooner you accept that what's done in the past with yer dad, and nothing will change what happened, only you can change your behaviors, how you view sexuality, your own sexuality....you know why, and how you're damaged.

You have to face it, as it is obviously affecting everything, your personal relationship with your family....you think they don't really notice...but they know...They might say, 'Oh, that's just how he is'....anyway, my unsolicited nickel just ran out.

I come here to check out the latest troll posts, reviews by Tantalizer, post my humble opinion, look at the lovely ladies advertising and once in a blue moon ad a review...and be part of a really unique community....

 

[joho]

Hockey and sex

 

[Captain Conn]

amusement, ideas, information

 

[Jethro Bodine]

I'm here because on PERB I am wealthy, successful, 6'4" tall with a chiseled 220 lbs physique, looks that rival a greek god, a 12" penis that is 8" around and can go all night (or day) long.
:thumb::nod:

 

[humper1]

I'm here because on PERB I am wealthy, successful, 6'4" tall with a chiseled 220 lbs physique, looks that rival a greek god, a 12" penis that is 8" around and can go all night (or day) long.
:thumb::nod:

LOL ound:

I hear to Find the Hottest Ladies and Hump them. (and to know which ones to stay away from!)

H

 

[Papa Chongo]

Well, lots of comedy and lots of honesty,

First the Comedy,

I am here to read threads about how horrible the Vancouver Canucks are, even though over the past 3 years they are consistently on top....
I am here to read Sku'd political views and crazy rants from overly educated people...
I am here for the boobies..

Now the honesty

I am here cause I am not getting everything i need sexually from my wife....
I am here cause paying for it seems less like cheating than finding it elsewhere...
I am here cause at 42 there is no way someone like Kim Capri is checking me out at the local watering hole.....ahhhh KIM!
I am here for the boobies

I have made some great connections here on Perb, funny I have to thank Misty Moonlight for introducing me to the site...a good bunch of guys and a sexy bunch of ladies!

 

[The Lizard King]

I used to come to these boards because I could get away from the corporate world and experience a dose of political incorrectness and have a few laughs but things have changed. Never really came here for the reviews since my taste in women changes frequently, at least physically, and I take most are bogus anyway. Plus I've rarely visited any of the girls posting since it would blow my cover, exposing that I'm not the obnoxious, insensitive twat I may have portrayed myself as at times here.

Still enjoy reading some of shit posted on the various sites, though I don't post all that often myself, but that's why I was here and why I'm also not.

 

[Aeiyah]

... Sex ...

 

[TenderLover]

I'm here to have some fun with a pretty lady!