Why are some dudes Bashing MP's on this site?

BIGblackstudd

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JMBrowning said:
OK... Also remember that your last sentence applies to the consumer too and not just the SPs.

I personally don't post negative things. I just don't post period(if I don't have anything good to say about someone, I don't say it). However, I believe that hobbyists have the right and freedom to post their reviews as long as they don't become personal attacks on the SPs.
What about something like this?
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Guys.... call it like it is. She's gross...she tastes like an ashtray and you have to tie a board to your ass to avoid falling in. :D
 

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BIGblackstudd

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JMBrowning said:
What do you think?
Let's just say that I think it's uncalled for. I agree there's a place for negative reviews, if done right. But something like this seems like the poster has a personal reason for being so bitter.
 

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BIGblackstudd said:
Let's just say that I think it's uncalled for. I agree there's a place for negative reviews, if done right. But something like this seems like the poster has a personal reason for being so bitter.
I also thought it was uncalled for and I think the reviewer could have been a little less graphic. If he had negative things to say, he could have said it in such a way that he is helping the SP improve rather than making her feel bad.
 

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yes you are free to post as you feel

JMBrowning said:
I don't agree with Ghetto Child. This is a review board and last I heard, we are free to express. If someone posts BS about an SP, that person will make an ass out of himself. Let him make an ass out of himself. He's free to be an ass.

However, if someone posts a bad experience and it happens, let him do it, but be fair to the SP. Also, be fair so that the other hobbyists can decide to see that particular SP or not.

You say you never give a bad review, but what if you were ripped-off and that can happen too.
Freedom to post a review that may not be favorable is not my issue so much as the execution or persecution that sometimes goes on. Do not bash them. If your bashing them then they have equal rate to come on line and bash back.

"I did not enjoy this session personally" It was not what I had in mind no fault to her" "she was not into me so that session did not..." This session did not work for me because this did not happen..." Respect. It is a very tough job SP's have trying to please all of us.

Keep that in mind, and they have sex with you regardless of their feelings about you for the most part. They give something special of themselves everyday to make you happy.

Sp's require more Professionalism than any other career I know. Not even sales people work at this emotional and personal of a level. Someone can be a complete jack-off, no looker by any mean themselves, and so abusive in the last session but you now have to emotionally separate yourself after having sex with someone that was brutal to find a good session for the next guy coming in. How many guys think this way?

"Saying she was a 3 out of ten", "she's ugly pregro", "nasty bitch" and these are just a few I have seen in reviews here or Alberta massage reviews. This is what ticks me off. None of that is necessary. I only provide some examples of being polite. Not every last possibility. Be considerate if your posting a bad review if you want consideration back.

But yes you have the democratic right to be a jack-off if you want to be. No law against that, but do not be surpised when karma comes back to bite you on the ass. Personally the SP has the equal right to slap you one back.

The majority of Bad sessions can be avoided if you talk to the girl up front and ask the right questions.

My goal here was not to stop people from being jack-offs but to give the guys who are being such loosers something to think about. I am an SP lover not a fighter. :D :cool:
 
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JMBrowning

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Freedom to post a review that may not be favorable is not my issue so much as the execution or persecution that sometimes goes on. Do not bash them. If your bashing them then they have equal rate to come on line and bash back.

"I did not enjoy this session personally" It was not what I had in mind no fault to her" "she was not into me so that session did not..." This session did not work for me because this did not happen..." Respect. It is a very tough job SP's have trying to please all of us.

Keep that in mind, and they have sex with you regardless of their feelings about you for the most part. They give something special of themselves everyday to make you happy.

Sp's require more Professionalism than any other career I know. Not even sales people work at this emotional and personal of a level. Someone can be a complete jack-off, no looker by any mean themselves, and so abusive in the last session but you now have to emotionally separate yourself after having sex with someone that was brutal to find a good session for the next guy coming in. How many guys think this way?

"Saying she was a 3 out of ten", "she's ugly pregro", "nasty bitch" and these are just a few I have seen in reviews here or Alberta massage reviews. This is what ticks me off. None of that is necessary. I only provide some examples of being polite. Not every last possibility. Be considerate if your posting a bad review if you want consideration back.

But yes you have the democratic right to be a jack-off if you want to be. No law against that, but do not be surpised when karma comes back to bite you on the ass. Personally the SP has the equal right to slap you one back.

The majority of Bad sessions can be avoided if you talk to the girl up front and ask the right questions.

My goal here was not to stop people from being jack-offs but to give the guys who are being such loosers something to think about. I am an SP lover not a fighter. :D :cool:
Maybe you are lucky enough that all the SPs you've seen treated you well. The majority of us has both good sessions and bad sessions.

By your analogy, all of the bad sessions are the clients' fault??? How about when the SP is not in the mood to do it, but have to do it. Like someone posted "if you don't feel like doing it, don't do it. Don't waste the client's time and money. Notify the client beforehand of any cancelations." How about that for professionalism????
or how about this for professionalism: No Shows, Bait-n-Switches, rip-offs, don't tell me that doesn't happen.

Your first post does sound that you DO have an issue with someone posting an unfavorable review of an SP.
 

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I have been going to Sp over probable twenty years, do I post every an entry about every girl I see, the answer is no. I think I am an ok looking guy but certainly not a model. I have worked in the hospitality industry as every thing as a bartender, bouncer and a manager. When you look at the situation from the other side, your point of view will change. I met some people who were great and became friends, while as other people I have met I would not introduce to my worst enemy. SP’s do not have a choice on a lot of the people who come to see them, would you spend some time with all the people that post? The SP’s need to reviewing the clients, I think a lot of egos would take a hit. I my self appreciate any opportunity I have to be with a beautiful woman, it takes two tangle. Some times I have went to a SP maybe in the best shape I should have been in, such as after going to the bar, it is not the girls fault things did not work out. As long as she was sincere I feel thing went ok I am happy. I do not always take a bad review as reason not to see a girl what does not turn one guy on could be my fantasy. Are there some girls I return to see you bet, it is mostly do their personality not looks.

Here is my personal philosophy of life

Love people not thing, not love thing and use people.
 

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Pacific Escort "REVIEW" Board.

This board is to review SP's good or bad, leave it at that...Free speech...

YMMV.

SP's should review the clients as said above.. That may stop some people from yapping too much...
 

ace85

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Complaining about Looks and Body

It is my opinion that as a POONER you lose the right to complaing about the appearance of an SP after you decide to stay.

If she was attractive enough to entice you to part with cash to get service about her then that is enough said.

Saying she was fat and ugly and not worth $200, is admitting you are not man enough to walk away from a bad session.

And before you say that I couldn't tell about her body becasue of her clothes, then use your fucking head, if she has the body she will wear the clothes to ensure you know about it.
 

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ace85 said:
It is my opinion that as a POONER you lose the right to complaing about the appearance of an SP after you decide to stay.

If she was attractive enough to entice you to part with cash to get service about her then that is enough said.

Saying she was fat and ugly and not worth $200, is admitting you are not man enough to walk away from a bad session.

And before you say that I couldn't tell about her body becasue of her clothes, then use your fucking head, if she has the body she will wear the clothes to ensure you know about it.
VERY good point!!!
 

JMBrowning

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ace85 said:
It is my opinion that as a POONER you lose the right to complaing about the appearance of an SP after you decide to stay.

If she was attractive enough to entice you to part with cash to get service about her then that is enough said.

Saying she was fat and ugly and not worth $200, is admitting you are not man enough to walk away from a bad session.

And before you say that I couldn't tell about her body becasue of her clothes, then use your fucking head, if she has the body she will wear the clothes to ensure you know about it.
Your point is good, but limited to whether the SP is attractive or not.

If the SP is attractive, of course the pooner will stay. What if the session doesn't go well??? Now we're just talking about an attractive SP so no excuses of "I couldn't tell about her body because of her clothes." applies here.
 

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If us sp's started reviewing...

we'd all be out of work!! All of you would think we are the most judgemental ppl around!! If I said I could smell some guys ass all the way to the office and sprayed him with air freshener would you still pay me a visit?? Probably not. Especially if I said who it was. I think you should treat others how you want to be treated and if you want to write nasty reviews of the girls because it's your right to have freedom of speech, by all means do it. Just make sure you don't tell the girls who your perb alias is because it might backfire on you.

I always try to be nice and respectful because that's how I like to be treated. Even if you did smell, it would have to be pretty bad because I have sinus problems!! I wouldn't treat you any differently.

I find in this line of work there is no black and white, just many degrees of grey. There is no right or wrong, we're not Walmart or Holt's. We're just ppl not barbies or blow up dolls. Don't hate on us for not giving the same experience as the last girl were not all pornstars. We just try to give the best aspects of us. There's a market for every kind of girl, even the ones you warn others about, maybe they're just not for you. Believe it or not there are guys out ther that like being ripped off. That's their fantasy.

Anyways my point is, everyone deserves respect, even if you're known to be an evil rip off artist.

Tiff
 

JMBrowning

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I always try to be nice and respectful because that's how I like to be treated. Even if you did smell, it would have to be pretty bad because I have sinus problems!! I wouldn't treat you any differently.
Good for you. As somebody mentioned, respect is a two-way street so I strongly believe that clients have to shower and clean themselves before a session out of consideration to the providers.

Anyways my point is, everyone deserves respect, even if you're known to be an evil rip off artist.

Tiff
Sorry... I cannot agree with you on that point. I don't respect rip-off artists and clients that try to haggle down a non-negotiable price. As you implied in your post: treat others as you want to be treated yourself. So...if you did me wrong like ripping me off, don't expect any respect.
 

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JMBrowning said:
Your point is good, but limited to whether the SP is attractive or not.

If the SP is attractive, of course the pooner will stay. What if the session doesn't go well??? Now we're just talking about an attractive SP so no excuses of "I couldn't tell about her body because of her clothes." applies here.
You are missing the point. Once you decide to stay with an SP her attractiveness really can't be held against her for the session.

You hear somany guys complaing about ugly SPs after they have chosen to saty with her.

How many good sessions are you going to have if you are not attracted to her.

How man unflattering reviews get posted becasue a pooner feels embarassed and guilty that he actually paid a lot of money to spend time with an UNATTRACTIVE SP. Lots.
 

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It is a valid point that an SP's looks will disappoint a pooner once the clothes are off. It could be things like tattoos, piercings, 70's bush, stretch marks, belly flab, acne or whatever it is that may turn you off about her body that's hidden by clothes.

Should pooners be disappointed by that? Of course. Personally speaking, if I'm shelling out a considerable amount of bank for a sexual fantasy then I want someone with an 8+ looks rating who has the desirable bod. If I want someone with a lower rating then I can always go to some meat-market bar and get some for free.

Should such bodily imperfections be pointed out? To a certain extent, but be careful of how it's worded and stay respectful of her. It may be beneficial to point out the tats, piercings or 70's bush because some guys are turned on by that!
 

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Is this a review board, or an Assembly of the Feelgood Knights of the Round Table?

Ghetto Child, if you don't like somebody's review of a provider, then move on. Don't try and save the world from the critiques of the unwashed. I prefer to know before going in what to expect when I get there. I want to know the poster's opinion, good, bad or indifferent. That allows me to make an intelligent consumer's choice, and at the same time, this process weeds out the pretenders that are out there (and, they are out there, believe me), or provides them with feedback to improve their service. Yes, it should be done with a measure of respect, but your definition of respect, might not match his. And what can be done about that?

We know in short order whether a reviewer is genuine or not. We also can tell a shill from a distance. We don't need you to spoon feed us. We are thinking human beings, with tools like memories that allow us to discriminate a good review from a bad. Even a positive review can be bad, with the benefit of any knowledge gained here. Under the old system (no review board), we were just playing Russian Roulette, and too many times, ended up paying for something that was either bad, or was not like it was purported to be. It still happens, but a lot less, and this board is a credit to this ability.

If you don't like what you read here, then you should avoid coming here, and making life miserable for yourself (and others, btw). You're not going to change the attitudes in here, so don't waste your efforts trying to make this world a better place. I have very little patience for Utopians, and their idealistic view of the way things should be. That amounts to thought control, and we don't need to be reminded of the failure rate of this process on this planet.

Your post amounts to a reprimand. Do you really think then, that your concerns will change the habits of posters you are targeting? If so, then you are more naive than your post suggests. If not, then you are working way too hard hard to be the laughing stock of Perb.
 
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Tiffany said:
Anyways my point is, everyone deserves respect, even if you're known to be an evil rip off artist.
Tiff
Does a punch in the face or a kick in the ass count as respect? :D
 

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I guess that depends on how you like to take it!! I have a client that likes to be punched in the face, how about you? :p
 
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