Why are some dudes Bashing MP's on this site?

[Ghetto Child]

Personally it is just not cool to dis people online and if you do then you better be ready to handle some heat yourself. Just because of anonymity, people think they have the right to be a jack-off. Call this my pet-peeve.

Human decency, is it all really that hard to respect someone's feelings. "The session was not rewarding for me". "We did not click". It not saying you did not enjoy the session. "She was not my type". Instead of insulting her looks on a rating scale because even if she is not your cup of tea she may be some one else's goddess.

Before anyone goes knocking the SP take a long look in the mirror and be grateful she even gives you the time of day. Bad reviews are not necessary anyway. If you do not feel you got your dollars worth then do not repeat and leave it at that. SP have a tough job trying to please us with all the complex factors that everyone wants something different. Not everything you want is safe for either you or the SP to do.

Some people just throw a temper tantrum when they do not get what they want. Sometimes competing SP's knock each other under aliases.

Personally if you do not respect the feelings of an SP and you want to take it out on her online then those guys deserve the poor value and service they get. If you treat someone bad expect Karma to kick in at some point. What goes around come around. Like any business if that SP looses a repeat client that is sufficient. Ever-time I see someone SP bashing the SP's have equal right to bash back. We do not need bad reviews. I get excited reading more of the positive reviews. Buyer Beware goes for anything you buy, whether it sex or a washing machine. Those two fit together in an analogy so well don't they.

I respect SP's, so I myself will never post a bad review anywhere. Respect, Is this too hard of a concept for some guys?

 

[Batman02]

Posting a bad review is allright as long as the reviewer is telling the truth and ofcourse not being tasteless and maliciously attacking the sp. Because this is areview board. it goes both ways bad and good. You can;t only expect the good ones once in awhile someone will post or receive a bad one. It's a good information imho so the next pooners wont make the same mistake.

 

[pooniecruz]

You know, I thought that was a very well thoughtout comment and one that I hope more members take to heart. These are people we are talking about in a subjective light and there is always a diplomatic way to post the same thing be it positive or negative without being insulting or degrading. The sense of annomymity of this board does give members a sense of power and when that is abused what they don't realise is that they in fact are making themselves look classless and ignorant- therefore rendering their reviews or opinions less credible. That is my opinion and I just wanted to congratulate you on posting something that was also on my mind as well.

 

[threepeat]

Here is how to write a bad review

I saw her this evening and confirm that she is a very attractive and well dressed Girl.

I found her attitude to be a little anxious and she has worked for Juice so there was a money twist that went from $200 (per email) to $350 after she arrived. This did not bother me too much because most of the Escorts I see are around $300. It was just the way it was done that was iritating.

She was very concerned with the clock and twice interupted our session to use the phone. Once again, not too upsetting but not kosher either.

CBJ and FS were passionless and that may be a case of YMMV, or first Date Syndrome; however, my view was that she does not enjoy her work (or perhaps me). In any event, very disappointing for the price.

Bottom line:

Looks - 7 - pretty, clean, slim, and well dressed brunette with green eyes. Natural A cup and nice body shape.

Attitude - 5 - too many requests, interuptions and telephone calls. Anxious most of the time.

Service - 6 - Ok but no real reciprocation and very uninspired CBJ/FS.

Price: Too high for the package I experienced.

Repeat: Unlikely

If a pooner only sees well-reviewed girls, it's easy to chalk up a bad session to not clicking or just a girl who's having an off day. It happens to everyone.

However, unfortunately there are girls in the biz who truly do not enjoy their work, and this even more unfortunately is reflected in the service they give. If you have ever experienced a truly horrible session, as I once did with Kelly @ XTC, I think it's OK to say you had a horrible session.

I do think that if a girl gives a bad session, the guy should provide a few more specifics than if he has a great session, so that: the girl knows what to do to improve if she is motivated to do so; so that the other pooners know that he is just not out to bash her; and that pooners can make up their own mind on if what the reviewer said they didn't like is a deal-breaker for the reader. For example, some guys don't care if a 45-minute session is only 30 minutes long as long as it's quality time. Others do.

There is a difference between bashing and a bad review. Bashing is an attack on the SP that comes out of the blue for no reason or for the wrong reason. A bad review is hopefully an honest account of a bad experience of services rendered for the money paid, and I think there is a place for those on a review board. The closest comparison I can think of in the real world is movie reviews, which are also subjective. Not every movie is going to connect with every viewer, but most people agree most of the time on what's a good movie and what's not a good movie. For those who do not agree with the majority, YMMV.

If a person can honestly say that the bad reviews on this board have not helped them know who to stay away from, then maybe they have a point. But if a person has read and used information from bad reviews, but simply chooses not to write them himself or criticizes those who do, that's a little hypocritical IMHO.

 

[wolverine]

Ghetto Child states what he thinks an escort review board is good for in another thread:

Anyways happy to be a member of PERB since it seem like their is a lot more SP's on here to chat with.

 

[sajrcc]

Bashing SP's

I agree, we need to use a little more discretion when we discuss SP's on this forumn. I have sometimes been a little crueler in an occasion review that I would have liked (in hindsight). It would not be a whole lot of fun to have every aspect of our lives rated. Occasionally a session is not as fun as we like. Sometimes its our fault, sometimes its the SP's responsibility.

 

[mexman]

I agree with Ghetto Child 100 %.I have written the same thing in the past.You may have gotten a SP who is having a bad day or someone has just been there and given the SP a bad time.Do like I do guys give the bad SP one more chance or just never go back to her.There are alot of ladies to chose from and go see the ones that give you a great time and avoid the so called bad ones.

Avoid the so called bad ones???? So just how did you get that info if it wasn't a bad review. So what your saying is lets read them, but not write them.

And to Ghetto Child, welcome to the board. & posts which I have seen a couple and you write very well. Rest assured that when you read a bad review on this site there is usually just cause for it. The same goes for a good review, because the term YMMV, doesn't mean your getting what I got. And if I were purchasing a washing machine, damn sure I would like to know the brands that eat 220 diesel jeans and 120 cotton shirts wouldn't you?? This is an information site where both reviews will happen. Feelings work both ways, and how bad do you think she feels when she knows the session again was nothing more than collecting your 220. Let's get real, it doesn't bother her at all, not one bit, until someone posts it here! And, do you think all MP customers come here? I have used these services for years and only found this site by accident. My bet is 75% of the customers never even heard of perb. I support the reviews good and bad.

 

[JMBrowning]

I don't agree with Ghetto Child. This is a review board and last I heard, we are free to express. If someone posts BS about an SP, that person will make an ass out of himself. Let him make an ass out of himself. He's free to be an ass.

However, if someone posts a bad experience and it happens, let him do it, but be fair to the SP. Also, be fair so that the other hobbyists can decide to see that particular SP or not.

You say you never give a bad review, but what if you were ripped-off and that can happen too.

 

[ace85]

Interesting Thread

YMMV.

Personally, I don't think sharing the rating system does much for pooners.

There are lots of POONERS that are quote un quote "tough customers" for the SPs. Meaning they push the limits, have high and demanding expectations, and like to feel like they are getting everything that anyone could possible get.

Some of the most renound PERBERITES are reported as tough customers. But you wouldn't neccessariy know becasue they don't post reviews like they are writting to penthouse letters.

I don't know what MEXMAN likes, but I know that he has a good perpective on the business from his posts.

For me to post a review in the public forum that will tell him to go see SP X is a waste for all I know he might like to do wierd things with feet and hamsters, so maybe she isn't for him.

What I can say is there is a girl X at MP X and I think she is attractive and I think she has a good attitude, you might want to go meet her and see if you like her. Beyond that it is your decision. I think that information would be well received by MEXMAN, becasue he is a pragmatic POONER.

Walking into and SP and "expecting" a great session and a great attitude because she rocked MEXMANs world is silly. Maybe MEXMAN is a huge stud, great looking, pays a big tip, eats pussy like a champ and has a giant cock that she loves. maybe his cologne turned her on. There are many factors.

Going in and staying with an SP becasue someone else had a good time is a mistake. Take responsibility for your self and decide based on your parameters. I go to meet the girl, decide if I consider her attractive, see if she has a decent mind set, determine whether or not she has any interest in having a good time with me or just wants my money. And based on all those factors (including with that how badly I want to get off) that makes my decision. Her menu with me is her menu with me, and that isn't anyones business. especially with a regular, becasue sharing my menu can only do one thing which is negatively impact my menu.

As far as posting a bad review. Most bad reviews are posted with a purpose; to hurt the SPs business you are telling people not to go see a girl becasue she gives bad service, and you know this because she gave bad service to you. Pooner feels ripped off and disappointed. And that is fine. Some girls need to be revealed to the board. Some girls are bad for the business. I can think of 5-10 that I have come across. I have had a few bad sessions, and in reflection, most were beacuse of 2 things, poor thinking on my part, including chosing a SP I wasn't that attracted to, and bad expectations. The "true rip offs" are limited.

I don't have a lot of experience with getting ripped off, mostly becasue I am willing to walk at any point, I rarely pay for the whole session up front, and becasue I am clear in discussing my expectations.

I don't buy the bad day excuse for a horrible session. Bad days lead to average sessions or maybe disappointing sessions. Bad days can be seen before the session starts.

What is the purpose of the bad review. To warn the POONING world about a bad SP, to punish a bad provider, to get her to focus more on her serivce (if this is the case then why don't you have the balls to tell the girl you didn't have a good time at the end, mostly because we like the annonimity or protection of not doing it in public).

The only real positive purpose for negative reviews are.

1) Bad girl people need to avoid becasue she is an all out rip off. Like I said there aren't very many.
2) To get more information about the SP to see if you are getting bad service or normal service (for piece of mind or to determine whether or not to actually give her a second try).

If the SP just isnt your cup of tea there are lots of things you can say that aren't really negative.

1) I didn't find her as attractive as every one says.
2) We didn't get along.
3) She seemed very business like.
4) SHE DID NOT LIKE ME.
5) I won't repeat.

 

[mexman]

How did he know that??

YMMV.

for all I know he might like to do wierd things with feet and hamsters, so maybe she isn't for him.

Walking into and SP and "expecting" a great session and a great attitude because she rocked MEXMANs world is silly. Maybe MEXMAN is a huge stud, great looking, pays a big tip, eats pussy like a champ and has a giant cock that she loves. maybe his cologne turned her on. There are many factors.

Her menu with me is her menu with me, and that isn't anyones business. especially with a regular, becasue sharing my menu can only do one thing which is negatively impact my menu.
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Gee now I'm blushing!!! Some of the above statements are indeed true and esp. the part about the menu.

 

[tiger]

I'll not "bash", but...

I would not feel hesitant about posting any negative aspects of a session.

 

[Tiffany]

Hey Ace

Do you have a thing with feet? That's the second post today that you mention feet!!! Just teasing!!

As for my opinion, it's nice to see that some of you have enough respect to either say something nice or say nothing at all. At least if you have something not so nice to say you'll do it in a positive way. It's sad when ppl go out of their way to make others feel bad. Always try to turn a negative into a positive. I do. I've met guys that I would consider a -4 in the looks and odor department, but it's my job to make you feel good about yourself no matter how I feel. As the consumer, you have every right to have your opinion and share it, but remember behind every person there is a heart and conscience so softening the blow is appreciated.

Tiff

 

[ace85]

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Gee now I'm blushing!!! Some of the above statements are indeed true and esp. the part about the menu.[/QUOTE]

Except for the the part about the huge cock, right?

 

[mexman]

Funny..

I thought you said giant cock, now its only huge cock! All I can say is that it's bigger than the hampsters is. But I do eat pussy like a champ. Gold medal olympic summer and winter games fuckin champ!

Cheers

 

[littlejonny]

I've never seen her, but Tiffany gets a 10 in the attitude department from me.

 

[ace85]

CHAMP or CHUMP

Maybe we should get MAV to take a poll.

Just kidding.

 

[mexman]

Pole

I didn't know Mav takes the pole!
Amazing what u learn on perb!

 

[ace85]

It is amazing

I think Mav might.

 

[JMBrowning]

As the consumer, you have every right to have your opinion and share it, but remember behind every person there is a heart and conscience so softening the blow is appreciated.

Tiff

OK... Also remember that your last sentence applies to the consumer too and not just the SPs.

I personally don't post negative things. I just don't post period(if I don't have anything good to say about someone, I don't say it). However, I believe that hobbyists have the right and freedom to post their reviews as long as they don't become personal attacks on the SPs.

 

[westwoody]

Human decency, is it all really that hard to respect someone's feelings

If an SP's feelings are that fragile she may be in the wrong business. If she gets a review that is inaccurate she can contest it. If the review is accurate and negative she deserves it. This a review board not a support group.

Before anyone goes knocking the SP take a long look in the mirror and be grateful she even gives you the time of day. Bad reviews are not necessary anyway.

She isn't doing anybody a favour, she is doing her job. And getting well paid. When you go through the checkout at Safeway do you thank the cashier for letting you buy their product? Do you run after your letter carrier to thank him/her for bringing your mail?
Bad reviews prevent other customers from having bad experiences. Is this review board for the benefit of SPs or customers?

Respect, Is this too hard of a concept for some guys?

Respect is a two way street. Some SPs have little or no respect for customers, they just want as much money for as little effort as possible. Why should they get any respect?
I know lots of SPs who are terrific people, some of them are very good friends. Because of the nature of this business almost all successful SPs are very good people.Tiffany sure seems like a great person. They don't fall to pieces because of a negative review. They know they are good. By rebuking bad SPs you appreciate the good ones more.