Which factor determines who you see?

[Jana]

I have a few questions for you lovely gents. Ultimately this is a free market industry, so at the end of the day (even though no one tells you) it's YOU who determines the rates, and standards for this industry.

For the first question, it's easy, just check the appropriate box above:
Which is the most important factor in determining who you will spend your money on:

1) Rate-- example:"I don't care if I have to put a bag on her head, and she only rates a 5 for service, cheap is cheap and I just need to get off"

2) Certain Services-- example "I ONLY see girls who will rim me".

3) Looks -- example "So I eat Kraft Dinner for a week, I can bounce quarters off her ass!" (or whichever kind of look/features are important to you)

4) Reputation -- example " 12 glowing reviews, how can I go wrong?"

5) Attitude/personality -- example "We can talk about Star Trek for an hour! Maybe I can show her my "collectibles"".

**You will note there is No "ALL OF THE ABOVE" (totally defeats the purpose) or Other...I can't think of any others.

Also, I would love to hear what your determining factors for VFM are, be they services, attitude etc, and how they would differ depending on the rate.

 

[overdone]

I'm good with any girl who isn't going to try and talk about Krustee for the other 50mins.

 

[Guardian Angel]

I think it would be better worded "What makes you repeat with a SP?"QUOTE]

I thought of this too, but I thought the question over and it really seems to ask "what draws you to an SP the first time"? All your points are valid for repeat visits.

I must admit, apearance will perk my interest, but the reviews will get my attention. Then the rest can fall in place based on services offered and reputation.
G.A.

 

[Oldfart]

You left out location. Where an SP is located can be an important factor.

 

[HB40]

Attitude and personality. Before I found sites like perb I would go into massage parlours and meet the girls. Looks were a factor but it was always the girls attitude on a first impression that swayed me.

For example, Kendra who is very beautiful with a smokin body attracted me immediately, but it was the brief conversation revealing her attitude that made me come back, she was busy and couldn't take a walk in so I saved my money and returned first chance I got.

Once I joined perb I found it easier to get a read on a girls attitude through her posting and it is still the deciding factor for me. Lilith caught my attention because her personality can be seen in her posts. It was her humurous way of diffusing a drama filled thread that sealed the deal for me.

Sometimes even a poor attitude will entice me to see a girl. I once had "angry sex" with a girl that was amazingly passionate, another time I met a girl who seemed down in the dumps and I wanted to see if I could cheer her up, afterwards she told me I made her night and although the sex was fantastic it was the fact we both made each other happy that made all the difference.

I have made decisions based on looks even when I knew the girls attitude was not to my liking. GinaElite just rubs me the wrong way, but she looks good and has favourable reviews so I decided to see her. Sure enough, her attitude ruined it for me, now it doesn't matter to me how beautiful a girl is, if her attitude isn't attractive I won't book a session.

When I met Misty I have to be honest, I got the impression and intuition that she was a heartless bitch, she masked her attitude well but being a heartless bastard myself I could recognize the traits, she didn't fool me then and although I feel for her now I'm not the least bit surprised by the current events.

 

[BJhunter]

I like ginormous suckable titties, a tight firm ass, long legs (preferred--but so long as she does have legs), she must be MILF age or cougar, and she must be very friendly and/or bubbly. And she must also be able to suck good cock.

I have such simple needs.

u nailed it! As long as she sucks good cock!

 

[sonoman]

Reputation and looks will get me once but attitude and service keep me coming back.

Agreed.

As for glowing reviews, I now take those with a grain of salt.

 

[Papa Chongo]

Hmm, Interesting question,

I for one am looking to fulfill a fantasy .. ( obvious? maybe .. ) So that usually starts with appearance, then to move on from there I go look at reviews, maybe even Correspond with them a little bit by email if they are willing. After that it is definitly attitude, that can make or break the session, you can have a SuperModel Pornstar type, everything you ever whacked off about, but if her attitude sucks then it is terrible. The reverse can also be true, you can go see someone who is more plain, maybe not as perfect, but if she has a fantastic attitude and seems to be into it, then the session can be fantastic.

Initially it is the look!

On another note, where can I get a copy of AlinBurnaby's Autobiography ( 40! ), I am sure there is some usefull info there

 

[Bad Santa]

I have to be honest, I'm a shallow pig. For me appearance is always the first thing that attracts me.

Once I get to know a lady though, personality and attitude are the most important factors in whether I will repeat.

Since joining PERB though, I've taken several SPs off my "to do" list due to reading bad reviews of them so reputation is also very important.

If she's overpriced, that definitely takes her out of the equation.

And If she doesn't provide the services I like, well she won't even be considered.

So really, if I were answering honestly, I'd say "all of the above".

But that wasn't an option in the poll, so I went with my 1st instinct, which is appearance.

 

[Big Dog Striker]

Reputation and looks will get me once but attitude and service keep me coming back.

Nicely said, right on the dot. Reminds me of one of my favorites, Odette Harlow. Totally Four Seasons-type service.

 

[Jana]

Ultimately it was meant for first visit. But i'd be interested to hear how/if that factor changes after seeing them. Remember, you can only choose 1!

And it is possible to at least have a glimpse of a ladies attitude prior to meeting her...

 

[Ray]

The most important factor for me is the physical appearance.
I'm looking for a fantasy.

Then I look to see if I can afford it.
Attitude/reputation don't mean much to me. If an attractive girl is going to get naked and blow me, I'm happy.

 

[MooJoo]

Would definitely be appearance and attitude for me. I mean, if you don't find them attractive then what's the point? And then once you're there if their attitude is horrible then the session is pretty much guaranteed to be unsatisfying. The other options are far less important

 

[banana_cheesecake]

Honestly, I do it out of a sense of adventure. I have no actual *need* to poon, but sometimes I just get outright curious about "the SP/Pooner" environment. I've had tons of lows (storming out with a loss of money) and some incredible highs to say the least. I've only seen one SP twice just due to the fact she was a total sweetheart, fun as hell, and really went wild during the act.

Mind you, with the variety I've had, I'm probably going to burn myself out from this hobby.

 

[undefined]

Combination of looks and reputation for me, but I voted rep as it's a little more important. Usually I'm browsing ads or MP sites and see a girl that catches my eye, and that sparks the initial interest. From there it's to the review boards. I don't do this very often, so when I do, I need to know I'll get my money's worth. If there's any doubt, I don't bother. The ultimate price isn't too important, as long as it's within the expected range for the time and services, but I don't want to spend $300 for time with a girl where I feel like she'll be disgusted to be around me or she won't put any effort into a session. If a girl has a good rep, that means I have a better chance at having a good session than with a girl who either has a bad rep or is a complete unknown. You can find gems in either case (maybe the girl with the bad rep just didn't hit it off with that guy) but I'd rather not roll the dice.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

Combination of looks and reputation for me, but I voted rep as it's a little more important. Usually I'm browsing ads or MP sites and see a girl that catches my eye, and that sparks the initial interest. From there it's to the review boards. I don't do this very often, so when I do, I need to know I'll get my money's worth. If there's any doubt, I don't bother. The ultimate price isn't too important, as long as it's within the expected range for the time and services, but I don't want to spend $300 for time with a girl where I feel like she'll be disgusted to be around me or she won't put any effort into a session. If a girl has a good rep, that means I have a better chance at having a good session than with a girl who either has a bad rep or is a complete unknown. You can find gems in either case (maybe the girl with the bad rep just didn't hit it off with that guy) but I'd rather not roll the dice.

My thoughts too. Also to me reputation incorporates attitude, cause one would think she earned her reputation by having a good attitude, providing good service and hopefully looking good. So to me it's an all incompassing word.

 

[island-guy]

Given all the excitement lately, I"m surprised that "Discretion and class" aren't up on the list.

After all, if Misty came back tomorrow, how high up would she be on people's lists of SPs they want to see?

 

[mischievousmave]

I have made decisions based on looks even when I knew the girls attitude was not to my liking. GinaElite just rubs me the wrong way, but she looks good and has favourable reviews so I decided to see her. Sure enough, her attitude ruined it for me, now it doesn't matter to me how beautiful a girl is, if her attitude isn't attractive I won't book a session.

Mind you, your own review on the other board of Gina was one of those favourable reviews, HB.

 

[vidwindow]

Obviously we're marketing here so the first appeal is the picture. Secondly, I check for services/reviews. But the overall for me, just as in real life, is the attitude. I have women considered traditionally beautiful that suck in a bad way on so many levels, and then women who might be quirky or less physically appealing that are highlights in my life. To spend time with a woman who enjoys spending time with you is the best, always!

 

[Walk Softly]

Menu and looks are the key to gaining my attention. Keeping it requires attitude and service.

Kissing is a huge turn-on for me: No kissing is a deal breaker. A well done picture always captures a guys attention.

Service, attitude and, to some extent, menu are what draws me back. If I simply feel no connection, I won't be back. If an otherwise hot girl overacts, I won't be back.(this is a common one ladies!) I realize I'm not that studly so if a lady overacts, it makes me question whether any of my performance was up to standard.