In most cased the time just naturally comes to an end, whether it be the conversation slows, or it its stated at the beginning. My all time favorite ending to a session was a couple of years ago, she sat up and said "drink up and get the fuck out" i still laugh about it.
When does the time start ticking?
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I beg to differ. I get the notion that conversations are seen as time wasters when I read certain reviews, but it's an important aspect of the encounter. Over the course of chatting is when I deeply penetrate her - just the eye-to-eye variety though >:)
On a 1st visit, 10-15 minutes of playful banter puts us at ease and sets the stage to see how far we can connect non-physically. It draws out the energy for an exciting 2nd round too.
Think it all depends on each individual. Might also depend on a person state of mind at any given time. I wouldn't feel comfortable without a bit of discourse, but that's just me
if an sp suggests taking a shower then the time should not start until you're out and in the bedroom, unless it is an accompanied shower where action takes place, then it should count. If find a SP docks me time for the shower it shows she doesn't value me as a client and i would not repeat with her even if we had a good time. Thankfully having chosen decent SP's for the most part I rarely run into this problem.
I'm not so sure i agree with you. the rate we pay compensates the lady for her time to get ready for our arrival, like it or not. I have never been told time is up before we have finished, it's always on time, more times than not its over the allotted time. Well except for the "drink up and get the fuck out" time ahaha. Actually i was there another 20 mins i think. A shower only takes a few mins, i always shower before i head over, so its a quick rinse. i don't think its an issue, at least not for me.
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Generally for me it starts after my clients have showered, although sometimes it never starts to begin with. There just isn't a clock, rather a rough time period if that makes any Sense. My clients have gotten good about excusing themselves after a period of time. Some leave earlier happy and content, some a bit after the "time". It all evens out in the end.
And yes the shower really is to your benefit !!! Especially right now with the heat upon us. Even a 15 minute stroll in the sun cAn ripen up your package, in turn dampening the service you could received should you chose not to shower !
And yes the shower really is to your benefit !!! Especially right now with the heat upon us. Even a 15 minute stroll in the sun cAn ripen up your package, in turn dampening the service you could received should you chose not to shower !
Not trying to rock the boat for SPs that don't allow the shower time 'off the clock' but it is a great advantage for us that travel a long distance to get to downtown Vancouver. For me, the hour seems less rushed. That being said, I respect the SPs time when the hour is winding down and don't want to wear my welcome.
Since I usually walk to the appt, and it takes almost an hr to get there, I KNOW I need a shower when get there!
...and since I can't return home slathered in oil, or smelling of "other woman", I NEED a shower after as well (and bring my own soap!).
I had noticed this seemed "off the clock" for her, but I clean up pretty quickly to avoid any frustrations, and have never felt rushed.
I tip to show appreciation, and help keep things smooth.
So far, so good.
But over all, I'm not too concerned about the clock, preferring instead to help make it a really great relaxing, intense, memorable, and fun time.
If she's happier, she will make me happier!
Just out of curiosity, I did check the times carefully on a recent visit, and I was certainly not short-changed.
...YMMV...
...and since I can't return home slathered in oil, or smelling of "other woman", I NEED a shower after as well (and bring my own soap!).
I had noticed this seemed "off the clock" for her, but I clean up pretty quickly to avoid any frustrations, and have never felt rushed.
I tip to show appreciation, and help keep things smooth.
So far, so good.
But over all, I'm not too concerned about the clock, preferring instead to help make it a really great relaxing, intense, memorable, and fun time.
If she's happier, she will make me happier!
Just out of curiosity, I did check the times carefully on a recent visit, and I was certainly not short-changed.
...YMMV...
I would say that about 80% to 90% of the time the session time starts after the shower.
Depends on the provider and depends on their schedule. Sometimes they schedule or get scheduled (phone girl or mamasan) a bit tight and session includes shower time.
Not a bad idea to shower ahead of time if you can to have the flexibility to jump right into a session if scheduling is tight.
Doubt if time is the only currency in the service industry. Overall satisfaction will create value and be priced accordingly. I think the non-clock watchers realize this and while there are some overtime sessions, averaged out it probably works out.
Having a really good session which is satisfying on multiple levels, one tends to loose track of time. Sometimes you finish early, sometimes later. Who cares if you were really connected and had above normal satisfaction.
You kill the mood by getting the client to worry about managing the time and satisfaction of the session. Bad mood, bad session.
Not that I know anything but that is how it works for me.
Depends on the provider and depends on their schedule. Sometimes they schedule or get scheduled (phone girl or mamasan) a bit tight and session includes shower time.
Not a bad idea to shower ahead of time if you can to have the flexibility to jump right into a session if scheduling is tight.
Doubt if time is the only currency in the service industry. Overall satisfaction will create value and be priced accordingly. I think the non-clock watchers realize this and while there are some overtime sessions, averaged out it probably works out.
Having a really good session which is satisfying on multiple levels, one tends to loose track of time. Sometimes you finish early, sometimes later. Who cares if you were really connected and had above normal satisfaction.
You kill the mood by getting the client to worry about managing the time and satisfaction of the session. Bad mood, bad session.
Not that I know anything but that is how it works for me.
I always arrive pre showered so the shower at the incall is very quick unless accompanied
Only on a handful of occasions have I departed without a shower mainly because we were either still going or just talking. I tend to book 90 min or two hour dates so the clock starting issue is sort of subtlety there to remember.
I do appreciate the SP's time and try not to wear out my welcome. I have heard of some pooners taking long ass showers like 15 min or so?? I can see how this plus a departing shower could put a lady's schedule way off. So starting the timer upon arrival makes sense.
Only on a handful of occasions have I departed without a shower mainly because we were either still going or just talking. I tend to book 90 min or two hour dates so the clock starting issue is sort of subtlety there to remember.
I do appreciate the SP's time and try not to wear out my welcome. I have heard of some pooners taking long ass showers like 15 min or so?? I can see how this plus a departing shower could put a lady's schedule way off. So starting the timer upon arrival makes sense.
Personally, I have always told myself that the time starts at the appointment time. If I book a 4 pm, I tell myself that I should be out of there before 5-01 pm.
Although I have never had the situation where SP has told me straight up that my time was up, I have had a few subtle hints like, "Would you like to take a shower before you leave?". I have also heard things like, "Would you like a quick massage before you go?", "Ok, let us get you ready now." Sometimes, or many a times, the ladies just gets off the bed, wraps the towel/robe around her and steps away from the bed. I would take these hints as "You have about 5 or 10 minutes left, so start packing."
Having said that I have overstayed about 10 minutes two, three times but only when the ladies had told me, "Oh don't worry, I am not seeing anyone else after you."
I LOVE the idea that time starts when I step out of the shower. That would certainly add another 5, 10 minutes.
Having said that I would find it very ..... awkward asking someone at the time of booking, "When do you start the timer?"
Although I have never had the situation where SP has told me straight up that my time was up, I have had a few subtle hints like, "Would you like to take a shower before you leave?". I have also heard things like, "Would you like a quick massage before you go?", "Ok, let us get you ready now." Sometimes, or many a times, the ladies just gets off the bed, wraps the towel/robe around her and steps away from the bed. I would take these hints as "You have about 5 or 10 minutes left, so start packing."
Having said that I have overstayed about 10 minutes two, three times but only when the ladies had told me, "Oh don't worry, I am not seeing anyone else after you."
I LOVE the idea that time starts when I step out of the shower. That would certainly add another 5, 10 minutes.
Having said that I would find it very ..... awkward asking someone at the time of booking, "When do you start the timer?"
