when does someone become a "regular" ?

[bxyxz]

same here. from most of the members that i chat with regularly here, they tend to have 1 or 2 regulars, and then they see new talent ever so often

i guess it makes sense! like other members in this thread have have already mentioned, the familiarity and intimacy aspect is valuable to having a good experience. adding exclusivity would only help strengthen the fantasy

being new to this, i've probably been approaching this hobby like how i used to watch movies: only one time LOL. since i felt there were so many more good ones out there that i haven't seen yet 😅

slowly though, i started re-watching movies i really liked and was able to appreciate the other aspects i mightve missed the first time - really getting "intimate" with the movie 😂

 

[jgg]

So sometime ago, I thought I was a regular. Then I went for her pooper and she said something along the lines of "you never tried that before".
And THAT was the end of me being a regular. Kinda like my marriages.
I agree that being a regular just happens and can un-happen as easily.
Why label it, I say.

So I’m a little confused. Did you try to take a dump at her in-call or an attempt at Greek?😏

 

[happymoments]

So I’m a little confused. Did you try to take a dump at her in-call or an attempt at Greek?😏

LMAO when I first read that, I was going to post what you wrote cuz I couldnt see the problem and really thought he went to sit on her throne to drop a bomb...

It took several reads and some thought for it to register... must be my lack of sleep or crappy coffee... 😏 🤣

 

[happymoments]

To further add on the "regular" point. I dont think exclusive is a requirement. As noted earlier, most peeps here have a a few on rotations usually about 2-3

Since it's subjective, I feel the best way to determine if you're a regular, reflect on your interval and frequency, and how close the connection feels.

It's no different than going to your fav local coffee shop and they get to know you very well, but you still gotta pay for the coffee and creamy doughnut. 🤣

 

[white Ninja]

I’d say when you could do a pretty good job of describing her to a police sketch artist , you might be a regular .

also when just the thought of seeing her makes you horny , you’re probably a regular.

 

[westwoody]

take a dump at her in-call

There was that guy who proudly left clunkers behind…
( way back in the day)

 

[stewbaca]

I saw two people “regularly” for approx 5 years. It was nice to know that every Sunday at 8am I was handing my self over, before heading for breakfast! Once weekly sometimes twice weekly, and the other approx once every three months. In between that I’d visit whoever tickled my fancy.

 

[stewbaca]

A person becomes a regular when they see you on the regular which could be once or twice a week, every two weeks, once a month, or every few months. And they see the provider exclusively.

Exclusively? Huh. I never thought that was part of it. Interesting. I thought that’s why I got married 😏

 

[jamasianman]

No I disagree with being exclusive. A regular means you see a provider often enough that she recognizes you, your number and/or name and you see him or her on a consistent basis.

If you see them once every few months, probably not a regular. Once a month or twice a month or even more, definitely a regular. Its frequency that makes you a regular.

 

[jgg]

There was that guy who proudly left clunkers behind…
( way back in the day)

Yes, a very disgusting MO. He never had much luck at repeates.

 

[angry anderson]

Yes, a very disgusting MO. He never had much luck at repeates.

Maybe he was just trying to demonstrate he was regular.

 

[jgg]

Maybe he was just trying to demonstrate he was regular.

I guess he felt at home?

 

[YYC]

I've been burned anytime I began to consider myself as anything with respect to a provider. I'm just a client. I'm just a bank machine to them. Full stop.

 

[bigballs55]

regular customer noun
: a person who purchases products or services from a person or business frequently

compliments of Merriam-Webster!

Now what the hell does "frequently" mean???

 

[Equity Market investor]

Over time, If she's your first choice regular " go - to - girl " over any other ---- like you favorite grocery store to shop. I'd say that qualifies as a regular. 😎

 

[luvsdaty]

Here's one way.

 

[georgej]

The first time you see Mlle Vennes, if you're lucky!

 

[ploplayer228]

I would say you are a real regular when you no longer need to introduce yourself when texting and when they are willing to accommodate your schedule over other clients 😎

 

[white Ninja]

Well, the last time I made an appt w my atf , she had recently returned to work after vacay.

This last time it was a little different.

Upon seeing me she immediately addressed me by my first name ( she knows it but never really uses it ) .

Instead of any routine or seduction , she simply says ( insert name her ), it’s been a while, I’ve missed seeing you, as she strolled towards me, her dress panties and bra hit the floor as she walked over. Then she pretty much attacked me .

Whether an act or not , I realized I must officially be a regular now lol .

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I would say you are a real regular when you no longer need to introduce yourself when texting and when they are willing to accommodate your schedule over other clients 😎

Even more so when they just start working on exactly what you want them to work on and say, something like "same as last time?". Kinda like visiting your barber when you settle into the chair and he says "the usual?" and you nod then enter into some gentlemanly conversation.