when does someone become a "regular" ?

bxyxz

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same here. from most of the members that i chat with regularly here, they tend to have 1 or 2 regulars, and then they see new talent ever so often
i guess it makes sense! like other members in this thread have have already mentioned, the familiarity and intimacy aspect is valuable to having a good experience. adding exclusivity would only help strengthen the fantasy

being new to this, i've probably been approaching this hobby like how i used to watch movies: only one time LOL. since i felt there were so many more good ones out there that i haven't seen yet 😅

slowly though, i started re-watching movies i really liked and was able to appreciate the other aspects i mightve missed the first time - really getting "intimate" with the movie 😂
 
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jgg

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So sometime ago, I thought I was a regular. Then I went for her pooper and she said something along the lines of "you never tried that before".
And THAT was the end of me being a regular. Kinda like my marriages.
I agree that being a regular just happens and can un-happen as easily.
Why label it, I say.
So I’m a little confused. Did you try to take a dump at her in-call or an attempt at Greek?😏
 
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So I’m a little confused. Did you try to take a dump at her in-call or an attempt at Greek?😏
LMAO when I first read that, I was going to post what you wrote cuz I couldnt see the problem and really thought he went to sit on her throne to drop a bomb...

It took several reads and some thought for it to register... must be my lack of sleep or crappy coffee... 😏 🤣
 
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happymoments

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To further add on the "regular" point. I dont think exclusive is a requirement. As noted earlier, most peeps here have a a few on rotations usually about 2-3

Since it's subjective, I feel the best way to determine if you're a regular, reflect on your interval and frequency, and how close the connection feels.

It's no different than going to your fav local coffee shop and they get to know you very well, but you still gotta pay for the coffee and creamy doughnut. 🤣
 

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No I disagree with being exclusive. A regular means you see a provider often enough that she recognizes you, your number and/or name and you see him or her on a consistent basis.

If you see them once every few months, probably not a regular. Once a month or twice a month or even more, definitely a regular. Its frequency that makes you a regular.
 

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There was that guy who proudly left clunkers behind…
( way back in the day)
Yes, a very disgusting MO. He never had much luck at repeates.
 

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LC18

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After 3 times we can start considering it a regular thing. Then again if it's within a year it's not so regular than within a few weeks.
 
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Over time, If she's your first choice regular " go - to - girl " over any other ---- like you favorite grocery store to shop. I'd say that qualifies as a regular. 😎
 
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