When does cheating start?

[threepeat]

Some advice and opinion wanted please. Let's say a guy is a single pooner, and meets a girl who has girlfriend potential. When in the relationship should he stop pooning to be faithful to her?

 

[wolverine]

There really is no right or wrong, it's up to each individual. The answer you seek lies in your heart.

If your feelings for a girl are so strong that pooning doesn't feel right for you anymore, then stop pooning. That was why I retired for a short while.

 

[Lady Companion]

I agree with the above opinions and would like to add

that as soon as there is overt or implied exclusivity with your girlfriend, seeing other ladies, regardless of in which capacity, would likely not be taken too well by her.

 

[JMBrowning]

3peat,

The answer to your question is YES. He should stop pooning when in a serious relationship with a girl. Otherwise, if it's an open relationship, then there's no need to stop pooning.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Your poll left out the most important response.
"You shouldn't start unless your gf stops givin' it up"
I dunno why in fuck you'd need to (or want to) poon unless you aren't getting any.

 

[cockkhound]

I think it is possible that pooning helps to prevent the cheating that really ruins relationships.

 

[Lauren]

I think that if you're in a new relationship and you have had the discussion that you would like to be exclusive, then it would be cheating. However, I believe that if the relationship is going really well and the sex is great... you'll probably just naturally stop seeing SP's because your needs... both physical and emotional will be satisfied by this new SO.

 

[big k]

Pooning isn't always because you're not getting it at home. I do it
for variety and still get lots at home. Keeps me from getting it in
bars etc and then there is little risk of a relationship forming and
ruining the marriage.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

There's no such thing as cheating.

For a guy anyway, it's looking back at all the opportunities you've missed...

And then, looking forward to all the ones you'll take advantage of...

Cheating is a feminine word. Taking advantage is its male equivalent...

 

[Maury Beniowski]

You'd better be stinky rich or look like Brad Pitt if you want women to stay with you

I am, and I do... Well, like Sean Connery anyway, or so I've been told. Must be my Scottish blood...

As for the selfishness part, it's a short life, and I'm making the most of it. I'll worry about the consequences once it's over...

 

[Maury Beniowski]

You mean you are 70+ years old?

In this case I apologize. I should be more respectful to my elders

I'm just an immature teenager, trapped in an old man's body. I'll get rid of it soon enough!