Fake Orgasms: yes or no
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sometimes it was nice to have someone boost the ego but i learned that i had no clue what i was doing until a girl i was dating was honest with me now my technique is a lot better, so if you like to be naive and i say sp should fake the orgasm but if you want to learn then be ready for the sp to tell you whats wrong and how you can improve
I like fake orgasms, as long as they're well done...
Not many women like frequent climaxes in a single day, as it saps their energy, and as a result can negatively impact their revenue potential. This knowledge comes from my discussions with hundreds of women over the years. Watching a good performance is just as satisfying for me, and in fact I do encourage it, if she is not up to to the real thing, or if I'm just not up to bringing her there (sometimes, it just takes too much coaxing to bother). While the real thing is a visual turn-on, so is a good performance.
Not many women like frequent climaxes in a single day, as it saps their energy, and as a result can negatively impact their revenue potential. This knowledge comes from my discussions with hundreds of women over the years. Watching a good performance is just as satisfying for me, and in fact I do encourage it, if she is not up to to the real thing, or if I'm just not up to bringing her there (sometimes, it just takes too much coaxing to bother). While the real thing is a visual turn-on, so is a good performance.
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If a woman is disinterested from the moment she opens the door then no matter how many orgasms (real or fake) she has, its just not worth anything.
On the other hand, the woman who has a great attitude from the start doesn't need to fake an orgasm because the whole experience is great from start to finish.
The great thing about being with a woman who has a positive attitude is that even if you're not having sex, it still feels good!
That was the thing that pushed Eden into a very rare league: from the moment you entered the room, the pleasure began because she was just so damn happy to see you without being obsequious, and yet could then take control without being domineering. This woman gave pleasure just by talking to you!
Despite the 'ego-boost' that comes from getting a woman off, I'd still rather be with a woman who can fake making me feel that under different circumstances, this is what I would be coming home to every night!
On the other hand, the woman who has a great attitude from the start doesn't need to fake an orgasm because the whole experience is great from start to finish.
The great thing about being with a woman who has a positive attitude is that even if you're not having sex, it still feels good!
That was the thing that pushed Eden into a very rare league: from the moment you entered the room, the pleasure began because she was just so damn happy to see you without being obsequious, and yet could then take control without being domineering. This woman gave pleasure just by talking to you!
Despite the 'ego-boost' that comes from getting a woman off, I'd still rather be with a woman who can fake making me feel that under different circumstances, this is what I would be coming home to every night!
I very much enjoy performing daty on an attractive woman. I think most guys do. Anyway most of the SP's I've been with seem to enjoy themselves but I've had only one start giving me instructions: Jayna.
It was funny because while I was performing data she asked me to move my tongue to certain locations go faster, slower etc. but she wasn't reacting. There wasn't any moaning and she wasn't bucking her hips into me or making any other motions or comments which would leave me to believe she was enjoying herself. Then all of a sudden she let out a low scream and she gushed. Her juice was all over the bed...anyway I thought it was an unusual encounter but at least she wasn't faking it, this I'm sure.
It was funny because while I was performing data she asked me to move my tongue to certain locations go faster, slower etc. but she wasn't reacting. There wasn't any moaning and she wasn't bucking her hips into me or making any other motions or comments which would leave me to believe she was enjoying herself. Then all of a sudden she let out a low scream and she gushed. Her juice was all over the bed...anyway I thought it was an unusual encounter but at least she wasn't faking it, this I'm sure.
I put fake orgasms in the same category as fake tits - real is the only way I want to be in the same room with them.
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I usually find it amusing when the acting is really bad... I mean how many women in real life actually start moaning just by having their nipples touched, let alone rubbed or licked. 
At the end of the day, I'm not under any false illusions as to why we're both there. I'd like to think that if the SP is having an enjoyable time that it makes it better for the both of us, but I'm not fooled into thinking that I'm some kind of Adonis no matter how much moaning is involved. Is it better that she cares enough to fake it?
At the end of the day, I'm not under any false illusions as to why we're both there. I'd like to think that if the SP is having an enjoyable time that it makes it better for the both of us, but I'm not fooled into thinking that I'm some kind of Adonis no matter how much moaning is involved. Is it better that she cares enough to fake it?
The real thing is obvious with repeats with the same lady. Fakes are just as obvious. If it seems a little fake it probably was. Early moaning before moaning is natural is a dead give away and a turnoff!! Many ladies get a red rush across their face that comes with the big O. I don't think that this can be faked. It is great to experience an O in unison but this is more from a psychological perspective. Being wet is another sign that the lady is enjoying what you are doing. If she doesn't reach for lube this can be a positive indicator that she knows that she is naturally wet but applying lube also does not mean that she is not enjoying.
Lg
You bring a smile to my lips every time I think of our times together. Too often the small things and moments shared go unnoticed, but you don't let them. Thank you.
You bring a smile to my lips every time I think of our times together. Too often the small things and moments shared go unnoticed, but you don't let them. Thank you.
Personally I couldnt careless if she orgasmed or not. I'm not paying $$ for her to orgasm, its a purely selfish session for me!
As the saying goes you don't pay prostitutes to cum u pay 'em to go! Sorry for the dose of reality
As the saying goes you don't pay prostitutes to cum u pay 'em to go! Sorry for the dose of reality
WHY WORRY ABOUT IT,HAVE U SEEN THE SURVEYS ON HOW MANY HOUSE WIVES FAKE ORGASM'S...PERSONALY I DONT LIKE THE FAKERS,EITHER THEY DO OR THEY DONT....WOMEN ARE NOT LIKE MEN,THEY NEED ALL THERE PLANETS IN ALIGNMENT,THE HUMIDITY AND TEMPATURE JUST RIGHT....LOL... gUY JUST NEED A TIME AND A PLACE !!!!!!!
Your a little too serious massage lady !!!!!!my opin.was 90% sarcasm,for those who have gone threw a very long term marrige and rode it to the bitter end will be able to relate(which i just did)I have had g/f's that enjoyed it more than me and more often and in reallity would say if the cards are on the table that men and women are equal in this field >>>>>
Orgasm Responsibility
I am a great believer that we are all responsible for our own orgasm(s)!!!!!!
Every single lover I have ever had has always had different "hot spots", liked a different blow job technique or kissed differently, etc. I also know that I am very different than most women. I like rough breast play - most women don't. I like fisting - most women don't. I like having my hair pulled - some people don't. It's all a matter of taste.
If my lover doesn't get it "right", it's up to me to tell him. "Oooh, pinch my nipples harder, a lot harder, oooh, that's right." How could he be expected to know otherwise?
If I don't open my mouth to either moan encouragement or tell him, then if I don't have orgasms, it's my own damn fault!
I ask lovers what turns them on. I tell them that I am happy to listen to directions. I understand that some people are shy about asking for what they want, but I find it frustrating when someone won't tell me ANYTHING!
As you can probably tell, I am rather passionate on this topic. I just think it's sad that so many women haven't ever had an orgasm.
I am glad that I let go of the inhibitions and can let loose. I don't worry if I am showing my best angle or how I look. I concentrate on the sensuality and raw energy. Now, I have clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot orgasms. Sometimes, I can orgasm over 30 times in an hour. (varying intensities of course)
The only way I discovered what my body was capable of was by opening my mouth, asking questions, trying new things and being curious.
So, go forth and get your orgasm people!!!!
Bella
I am a great believer that we are all responsible for our own orgasm(s)!!!!!!
Every single lover I have ever had has always had different "hot spots", liked a different blow job technique or kissed differently, etc. I also know that I am very different than most women. I like rough breast play - most women don't. I like fisting - most women don't. I like having my hair pulled - some people don't. It's all a matter of taste.
If my lover doesn't get it "right", it's up to me to tell him. "Oooh, pinch my nipples harder, a lot harder, oooh, that's right." How could he be expected to know otherwise?
If I don't open my mouth to either moan encouragement or tell him, then if I don't have orgasms, it's my own damn fault!
I ask lovers what turns them on. I tell them that I am happy to listen to directions. I understand that some people are shy about asking for what they want, but I find it frustrating when someone won't tell me ANYTHING!
As you can probably tell, I am rather passionate on this topic. I just think it's sad that so many women haven't ever had an orgasm.
I am glad that I let go of the inhibitions and can let loose. I don't worry if I am showing my best angle or how I look. I concentrate on the sensuality and raw energy. Now, I have clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot orgasms. Sometimes, I can orgasm over 30 times in an hour. (varying intensities of course)
The only way I discovered what my body was capable of was by opening my mouth, asking questions, trying new things and being curious.
So, go forth and get your orgasm people!!!!
Bella
If all women were like you Bella,then there would be alot less work for sp's..I use to room and board with my cousin and i would listen to her g/f's complaining all the time about thereb/s's in bed....No that i read your point on the matter,i have to agree with u....If they were more open with there men,they might have got the service they were looking for....
he he he,AGAIN Massage Lady you r to into every word i wrote...lol...( a cute quality in you )what i was referring too was the way Bella is open with what she wants....my ex never did tell me wut she wanted ,only liked missionary,said every other position hurt to much...i am always open and to the point
So i dont have a prob.-but a sexy quality in a woman is being able to discuss her sexual desire with her lover....
So i dont have a prob.-but a sexy quality in a woman is being able to discuss her sexual desire with her lover....
I like woman on top ... it's the safest position for me since I have no idea what I am doing and I am praying she does. Plus I get to watch her reactions while riding me so I can adjust depending on what she is doing.
The funny thing is I am really not doing all that much with her on top of me but that seems to do the trick.
The funny thing is I am really not doing all that much with her on top of me but that seems to do the trick.
I agree with 1, 2, 3 & 5. However, you may have forgotten one method in 4. The tongue, especially the underside whose texture is very similar to the walls of the vagina. With its added dexterity, and once she becomes used to it by a skilled user, it allows the woman to be somewhat more relaxed - as opposed to the grinding required from being on top - especially if the fella is unusually long and hard. She can still massage the clitoris in this position (even grinding, if the giver can stand the added pressure on the lower lip), and position herself optimally as she approaches her climax.massagelady said:Well, if you really want to know how to bring a woman to orgasm there are a few things that could help.
1. forget everything you've seen in a porn movie. Those are for men.
2. The typical woman likes to cuddle or kiss for foreplay. Even if you find it boring, if you want a good sex life, do it.
3. Give a woman more freedom. Don't insist on banging her for hours, let her take control. She knows what feels good and what doesn't.
4. Easiest way to have orgasm for a woman is to be on top. This way she can rub her clit to your tummy and if you play with her breasts or take her nipple in your mouth, she will have an orgasm even if she never had one.
5. I personally, need my dirty little fantasies to be able to come. Afterwards I always feel guilty, but they work like a charm.
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Sorry, typo! Maybe relaxed is the wrong term. Because she's lying on her tummy, my partner finds this position more "comfortable", than sitting on top. I agree with the tension at that magic moment. Like a pair of Vise-Grip pliers on the sides of my head...massagelady said:
Not every woman is the same!
Personally, I don't cum as much on top as I do in other positions. What works for one woman might be the complete opposite for another.
The biggest key is communication - both verbal and non-verbal! (moans, hip grinding, shivers and writhing can communicate as much as words can!)
From my observations and discussions with men, most seem to really like a woman who is responsive and vocal. Perhaps that's because so many women are too afraid or are stuck in the "nice girls don't" mentality that some of us grew up with.
Bella
Personally, I don't cum as much on top as I do in other positions. What works for one woman might be the complete opposite for another.
The biggest key is communication - both verbal and non-verbal! (moans, hip grinding, shivers and writhing can communicate as much as words can!)
From my observations and discussions with men, most seem to really like a woman who is responsive and vocal. Perhaps that's because so many women are too afraid or are stuck in the "nice girls don't" mentality that some of us grew up with.
Bella
