Bondage Queen said:
Hey guys
I just had a comment. Who are you men to judge or complain about how much a girl should charge? I mean come on now- realistically, as a SW, I think I'm worth a HELL of alot more than 4 an hour, but I do also know that is a little steep for some of you. Granted, there are some girls who offer very shitty service for a fucking arm and a leg, but there ARE some sweet, honest girls out there just trying to make a living. If you don't want to spend, don't see great girls. If you are a fucking cheap ass- then go ahead and see some nasty ass bitches- Gods KNOW there are hundreds of them out there. >.<
- Bondage Queen
Hi BQ,
I think it is fair to say that unless you're bondage interests draw a special interest group then you're going to have a tough time getting anyone to pay 4 an hour consistently.
Unfortunately this isn't like Timmy Horton's where there is a menu, and prices, and we all know what to expect to pay as soon as we have the idea to visit.
If we know that we could go to Madame Cleo's and spend something not far from that 4 an hour, and GET a whole hour, then it isn't likely we'd be eager to take the chance on getting ripped-off right across the street.
You are entirely right in covering the poor service from some while they charge an arm and a leg, and you are correct about the sweet, honest girls just trying to make ends meet.
In charging prices that are significantly far from the norm, what you have going for you, at least on the street, is the male reluctance to really engage in comparison shopping when he's already teased himself into the idea of getting laid tonight.
If you all wore your asking price on your back, then almost everybody would drive right past your $400 tag and onto someone not terribly unlike you who charges $250. If you want to charge $400 an hour on the street, then your best bet is to play the high-track game of "can you spend a hundred bucks?" before luring your date to the privacy of your place where you then lower the boom with the info that it will cost $500 f/s with no MSOG.
If there was true honesty in that, those attractive-on-the-outside women wouldn't be playing that game, would they?
With sooooooooooooo many women out there at so many different crossroads in their lives, all we can do is hope to read the current state of the supply-and-demand market and hope that we can go out for the evening as if we're going to Timmy's, where there are no "surprises" on the menu.
Most of us don't have any stake or concern about whether you yourself boost your price, but it is our collective hope that even if you do that, your value system will encourage and take comfort in repeat business. That is the sort that renders both sides more "safe" and "comfortable" and with far less stress when trying to skirt the law.
In closing, "are you priced at a level which will and does encourage first-time visitors to get your phone number and seek re-visits in the near future?"
If the answer is no, then you, as a sweet and honest girl just trying to make ends meet, will too often have encounters which are similar to those known to ""nasty ass bitches"".
(** read that clearly so that you understand that I am not suggesting that youuuuuuuuuuu are anything of the sort. Rather, I am saying that the clients they see have been responsible in large part for their personal demeanor)
When I do randomly find you out there one day, I want to know a "personal interaction" that will inspire me to come back and be your repeat customer. I can't rule that out at 4 an hour but I assure you that the better session we could have next time is far more likely if your price reflects a discount for repeat clients.
