What will it take for you to quit this hobby?

[Little Turtle]

After one year partaking this hobby, I think I'm done for now. The reason why is because I started dating someone and I can't have both. It was a fun experience. It kept me sane and gave me more confidence with girls but now it's time for me to move on.

But now I'm curious as to what will it take for you guys to quit this hobby.

 

[westwoody]

Very very few of the ladies available now can hold a candle to the ones I used to see. So the wow factor is not there anymore.

Only been seeing two ladies for a long time, when they hang up their stilettos I will quit.

 

[take8easy]

After storming through first 12 months of my hobby in about 55 sessions, I have not seen anyone in over a month. I have certainly slowed down.

What stopped me?
-I guess I over did it, although I loved every minute of it. I did it with the thought that I am over 50 and I better have as much fun as I can.
-Financial reasons have to a factor. Over 12K is a pretty good hit, I think.
-As much as seeing someone new is a thrill, the best satisfaction I was getting towards the end was seeing my ATF's. (Tia, Amber Marie, Marissa Fox, Cherise).
-Way too busy with a new project I had to undertake.

So, yes, a bit of everything has factored in. But I have NOT retired at all. I have ........ slowed down. In fact, I plan to see someone next week.

Nice thread btw.

T8E

 

[87112]

I can see myself quitting if I meet Mrs. Right.
However the tough part is I love to poon in other countries- China, Russia, Mexico. Something about other grass is greener, can't stop.

 

[Lo-ki]

I don't plan on leaving and money to anyone.
So yea....when I am broke, homeless or six feet under.

 

[felixthecat]

The reason why is because I started dating someone and I can't have both.

That's a perfectly good reason to quit, would work for me. Cannot think of much else.

 

[MRGREEN]

Boredom and too much hassle....

Peace
MG

 

[hornygandalf]

When I am receiving (and giving) the intimacy and emotional connection from/to a special lady, which means I don't have to be finding a substitute elsewhere.
The substitutes have not as yet met what I would be wanting/expecting in the emotional connection long-term, although the sex may have been good.

 

[leoghaire]

it'll need to be six feet of dirt between me and the sweet ladies to get me to stop. I have long since swore off of civilians.

 

[sevenofnine]

not really sure but I kind of think im done,
I have a good thing, at home why ruin it,

I see my sp, but were not really client and sp any more haven't been for awhile and I will leave it there, not sure what will happen to the two of us but not sure,
Im not in the mood to pay any one money to keep me company whether for sex or a cup of coffee, So I guess im just not that horny any more, or Im old and worried about my golden years in retirement is more important that getting some. not sure,

like I said I see my sp, but were not any where near client and sp,
and you know I think that is evolution of this for me and some of us, my time is worth something to, my money I work for,
the lady says im a nice guy and a friend
so proof it,

I think for some of us it comes down to self worth or our identity, do I have to pay some one to fuck or to have a cup of coffee, No one wants my company.

I think the ladies too, sometimes feel is that all I;m good for is to fuck, some of them any way seem lonely finical needs are taken care of but what about friendship relationships bonding with some one,

I think at some point some of us move on, maybe we still keep our hand in at times just out of habit something to do, but it lacks something, we want something more,
or maybe we don't want to screw up what we have,

 

[yasmine]

If I found Mr right I would quit too but he hasn't found me yet
HeheHe

 

[1nitestan]

1. money to afford the game
2. death
3. Illness that renders me incapable
4. finding the right woman

 

[westwoody]

That's a great calendar!

 

[Equity Market investor]

Very very few of the ladies available now can hold a candle to the ones I used to see. So the wow factor is not there anymore.

Only been seeing two ladies for a long time, when they hang up their stilettos I will quit.

Said a similar statement in a previous post. Same boat but for me.... much higher S/P rates have cut into my budget.

I can see myself quitting if I meet Mrs. Right.

Absolutely. If I met the right lady in my eyes and mind, I could easily walk away. Problem is .... the right lady is never really determined. 10 - 15 years or more partners still split.

I don't plan on leaving and money to anyone.
So yea....when I am broke, homeless or six feet under.

Same boat my friend .

If I found Mr right I would quit too but he hasn't found me yet
HeheHe

I find / found that most woman in this city ( Vancouver ) are way too high maintenance. No one seems to enjoy the simply life anymore. It's always...lets go out, lets go here, I wanna do this ..that....I wanna buy this...I'm not into staying in

Getting married.

My cousin was married to his wife, nearly 20 years. They have three sons, ages 18, 17, and 16. Long story short, his wife had an affair, and while he didn't come out unscathed, he wound up with FULL custody of all 3 of the sons. Isn't custody of children usually the biggest (along with money) issue in a divorce?

So, if I got married, THIS story about my own cousin opens my eyes, that infidelity CAN be THE breaker in a divorce.

Timmi

More than half of marriages today end up in divorce. Actually, it's been like that for quite some time now and I think it will only continue to rise.

 

[uncleg]

If I found Mr right I would quit too but he hasn't found me yet
HeheHe

 

[87112]

Her and her voice would sure get the ball rolling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=322_He99QII

 

[Lo-ki]

Her and her voice would sure get the ball rolling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=322_He99QII

Yep..that would do it for me if it was my LAST CHOICE...

 

[Poonian]

More than half of marriages today end up in divorce. Actually, it's been like that for quite some time now and I think it will only continue to rise.

I think you are vastly understating that TBH. I suspect it's probably closed to 70%.

As for what would stop me from this hobby, a few things that come to mind would be:

• If my financial situation changes for the worse, right now I'm in a position where I have the money to spend on this kind of hobby without worry about breaking me financially
• If I get tired of it. I consider myself an amateur at this compared to some, but I pace myself alot. If I was seeing somebody every day I imagine I would burn out, so I try to keep it to 2-3 per month.
• If an SP was murdering her clients that would definately make me stop (at least until she was caught)

 

[hornygandalf]

I think you are vastly understating that TBH. I suspect it's probably closed to 70%.

Closer to 50% is about right for first time marriages. The rate goes higher for subsequent marriages.

 

[1nitestan]

Getting married.

My cousin was married to his wife, nearly 20 years. They have three sons, ages 18, 17, and 16. Long story short, his wife had an affair, and while he didn't come out unscathed, he wound up with FULL custody of all 3 of the sons. Isn't custody of children usually the biggest (along with money) issue in a divorce?

So, if I got married, THIS story about my own cousin opens my eyes, that infidelity CAN be THE breaker in a divorce.

Timmi

An affair is kind of a different thing than seeing an SP (unless the relationship "progresses" beyond business). An SP (if she's a professional) will never call you or otherwise disrupt your home life. True you may get caught, but the odds are way less than having an affair.