What surprised you the most?

[strider65]

One of my biggest takeaways is that I have a look I go for and I like a SP with a confident personality. I find that I am attracted to the best of both worlds even though the ones I see aren't necessarily popular, we just have great chemistry.

Yah I feel you here!

 

[Once you go black]

From the beginning, and honestly, it still surprises me...

Just walking into someone's place that you don't know and getting nekkid right away. Without any remarks about how weird or awkward it is. No real warm up or getting to know you, usually. Which can be hot and erotic in it's own way, but still feels weird at first. I'll often keep the towel on for a while, just to make sure I don't shock anyone with any possibly unwanted indecency, lol. Even after repeating several times. 🤷‍♂️

100% agree .
I tend to skip shower foreplay & / or massage in place of a little chit chat all be it surface level, I do it more for myself as it makes the experience feel more natural and allows me to get into things more easily .

I’ve been known on occasion to bring a clean / fresh pair of boxers to put on between the shower and foreplay , sometime because it slows me down but definitely more because for me it definitely makes the experience feel more organic.

 

[UhOh]

What surprises me is the number of ads with overweight women and many at obese levels so men must be into that.
My money is paying for fitness only, not Interested in big women even if free.

 

[VanCityNewb]

I’ve been known on occasion to bring a clean / fresh pair of boxers to put on between the shower and foreplay , sometime because it slows me down but definitely more because for me it definitely makes the experience feel more organic.

Wait, what??? 😂🤣😂

 

[strider65]

What surprises me is the number of ads with overweight women and many at obese levels so men must be into that.
My money is paying for fitness only, not Interested in big women even if free.

Yah znd worse some SPs with very good reputations are posting two year old pictures after which they gained 30 pounds. It's not only dishonest, it makes it impossible to evaluate the body type until you arrive. Sorry I agree, I'm not attracted to women who have no waist.

 

[BobbyMcgee]

Thanks Len for starting this thread.

I’ve been doing this for a “few” years now, but I am still surprised by the range of human sexuality and pleasure, especially on the BDSM side of the ledger.

Back in the day I was pretty vanilla in my sexual tastes and experiences and I met a service provider who blew the doors off what consenting sexual play could look like.

I was doing her from behind in doggy one session and she turned around and looked at me coyly and she said, “spank me.” I was a bit shocked and taken aback by this request as I was a “proper” gentleman and never considered striking another person. Never in my previous sexual experiences had anyone made such an unusual request. So I gave a gentle tap on her ass with my fingers. She turned around again and demanded, “harder.” So I wound up and struck her hard enough with an open hand that I felt the sting in my hand and it clearly left the impression of my palm and fingers on her ass in a rosy colour. At the instant of impact she let out a low hiss of pleasure, like an animal, that I will never forget. In that moment a portal into a whole new world of sexuality opened up to me that I never knew existed. She was clearly a bottom and I was a top, but had no idea I was until she showed me in that moment.

I became smitten by her and this new world that she introduced me to. I was naive to be sure, but a relatively quick study. We dated and shared a roof for a time. While together she gifted me a copy of “The Story of O,” which further expanded my sense of what the boundaries of pleasure and pain are.

I don’t explicitly go looking for submissive providers (they are rare), but I will try to tease out, in conversation, what an SP’s kinks are. The most pleasurable sessions are those in which we both discover something new we may not have considered before. On this journey I’m regularly surprised by what some providers will reveal to me in the heat of the moment, and in the immortal words of James Tiberius Kirk, allow us to “explore new worlds.“

this defines the few encounters i had with perhaps the GOAT named Lucy Lake who i saw in her first year working - CRAZY SEX talk action focus on getting you off like nobody else. 3x in one hour she insisted she could and did

 

[sinnabon]

What a great question sir!
For me, I have always been super interested in the unique sight & sound of women, it is as varied as fingerprints. Whether it is their facial grimaces during the act to the moans & groans which are extremely arousing in addition to the physical sensations.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

That new car smell.

hiaha you know why men like women in leather pants so much?
Smells like a new truck interior.