Chatting with an SP today and it was quite eye-opening.
She enjoys the business and adores her regular customers, but the number of assholel-ike behaviour she told me about makes me wonder how any woman stays in the business.
In the three years she has been an SP she has been pranked, stalked, threatened, abused, raped and ripped off.
Every week she said she gets fake bookings, vulgar calls, no-shows and flagged ads.
She has had to change her name and number because of stalkers who won't leave her alone and have threatened and frightened her.
She was once raped by a client who finished the session by demanding his money back under threat of violence. A percentage of customers push boundaries by inserting fingers when she says no, being too rough or putting her in vulnerable positions. One guy wanted anal (which she doesn't do) and repeatedly attempted to change holes before she managed to stop the session and get him to leave by returning most of his fee, even though they had sex for an hour.
Her expenses were much more than she expected, notably when neighbours complained (even though she tried to be low key) and she was forced to move - twice.
She stressed how respectful most guys have been and she likes the company of men. Sometimes the sex is good, other times it is average and sometimes clumsily bad, but she likes giving pleasure and seeing men satisfied, likes the money and freedom to work when she feels like.
If paid sex wasn't so taboo and underground I wonder if SP's would have so many issues like this SP recounted?
She enjoys the business and adores her regular customers, but the number of assholel-ike behaviour she told me about makes me wonder how any woman stays in the business.
In the three years she has been an SP she has been pranked, stalked, threatened, abused, raped and ripped off.
Every week she said she gets fake bookings, vulgar calls, no-shows and flagged ads.
She has had to change her name and number because of stalkers who won't leave her alone and have threatened and frightened her.
She was once raped by a client who finished the session by demanding his money back under threat of violence. A percentage of customers push boundaries by inserting fingers when she says no, being too rough or putting her in vulnerable positions. One guy wanted anal (which she doesn't do) and repeatedly attempted to change holes before she managed to stop the session and get him to leave by returning most of his fee, even though they had sex for an hour.
Her expenses were much more than she expected, notably when neighbours complained (even though she tried to be low key) and she was forced to move - twice.
She stressed how respectful most guys have been and she likes the company of men. Sometimes the sex is good, other times it is average and sometimes clumsily bad, but she likes giving pleasure and seeing men satisfied, likes the money and freedom to work when she feels like.
If paid sex wasn't so taboo and underground I wonder if SP's would have so many issues like this SP recounted?
,the crap that that they have to put up with and yet still enjoy what they do and manage to put a smile on my face. I have so much respect for any woman that does this job and still manages to make it a special encounter for her clients.:clap2:
