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What should I do about this problem?

XXXBod

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Ok so maybe i'm getting older or something but having sex now a days just isn't working very well. Meaning either I cant get hard or I cum to fast... Its a pain in the ass to make a Dr.s appoinment to get Viagra with my job but maybe that's what I need? Also has any one tried Stud 100? Its a spray that prolongs so you can go longer with out cumming. But it has side effects. One, it numbs the tip of the penis and even with a BBBJ you cant even feel it... Same with having sex. Its like your just pumping and pumping and feel nothing but at least your not blowing your load in like 5-10 minutes. And the worst for me any ways is once I spray this stuff I cant get an erection... I need to be really turned on in order to get hard. Has any one run into these problems? And if so what worked for you?
 

Pillowtalk

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Well, first of all, 5-10 minutes is normal. You don't actually have a problem, so any devices, drugs or enhancements you think you should be using are probably doing more harm than good.

Find a more natural or holistic way to create the encounter you desire. I can tell you right now that you have a lousy attitude from what I can see a lot of anger and resentment and high expectations, and that almost always is going to lead to disappointing sessions. Loosen up and stop trying so hard.
 

XXXBod

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I can tell you right now that you have a lousy attitude from what I can see a lot of anger and resentment and high expectations, and that almost always is going to lead to disappointing sessions. Loosen up and stop trying so hard.

Maybe your right...
 

uncleg

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Well, first of all, 5-10 minutes is normal. You don't actually have a problem, so any devices, drugs or enhancements you think you should be using are probably doing more harm than good.

Find a more natural or holistic way to create the encounter you desire. I can tell you right now that you have a lousy attitude from what I can see a lot of anger and resentment and high expectations, and that almost always is going to lead to disappointing sessions. Loosen up and stop trying so hard.

Five to ten minutes is normal for what ?????
 

AubreyKisses

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From a womans point of view 5-10 minutes is much better then 3 and regardless of the timing you can always compensate with extra foreplay and maybe a cock ring to help you keep blood in your shaft. I would suggest hitting a sex store and asking the gals there some questions, I always find they answer mine beautifully. Google is my god as well so you could google up some alternatives to viagra, I have heard from two men now that ciallis just didnt give them the results they wanted but I have seen rave reviews online from others, who knows unless you try right? Oh yeah I had an ex who had a small problem holding back from the grand finale and he said at one point to help himself last he would do math in his head :), maybe if you think of something that interests you likewise while in the moment to help extend your pleasure.
 

EveAdams

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The best way to deal with your issue is to see a good provider. She will sense when you are about to pop and pull back. She will know how to move the session along the way you want it. So do your homework - the reason some girls are well reviewed is because they can read their clients. :)
 

Dr_X_man

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Well, first of all, 5-10 minutes is normal. You don`t actually have a problem, so any devices, drugs or enhancements you think you should be using are probably doing more harm than good.

Find a more natural or holistic way to create the encounter you desire. I can tell you right now that you have a lousy attitude from what I can see a lot of anger and resentment and high expectations, and that almost always is going to lead to disappointing sessions. Loosen up and stop trying so hard.
Again, I rarely agree with PillowTalk but I agree on this. I`ll add no matter what we say it won`t change your perception. It is your perception of how much time spent inside.
I have been there. Consider reading this it should give you clues:
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?148145-Firsts-...&p=1144747&highlight=firsts#post1144747
If it does not let me know.
 

sevenofnine

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some one once made the comment on this board i think he said he worked in the porn business
that there is a switch that gets thrown,
if it doesnt get thrown all the viagra in the world won't do shit

i kindof agree,
when i was younger the switch was always thrown
personally i would have just laughed at such nonsense when i was twenty thirty or even in my forties.

but now im in my fifties well into my fifties, yeah there is a switch,
and i can feel it slowly getting turned off.
the girl the mood all make a difference
some girls just excite the hell out of me,
and fuck still don't have a problem but others,
not so much and life creeps in
how much money am i spending she is too young and im too old
or maybe she is just to fat, or boring
or im to fat and boring

stuff way to much fucking stuff to think about when you put money on an sps table and the clock is ticking
first step clear your head,
if you can't well save your money,

get healty eat excercise sleep, and well mental health is important as well.

its funny but our fucking brain just fucks us up,

my old man was a rapist ok just fucking horny as hell.
he was senile and in a nursing home, he was fucking like ninety years old.
and he was trying to make out with twenty year olds

and i would bet money on the fact he could still do it.
he fucking didn't have a clue who i was,
but he would have fucked every female staff member if he could have.

it was embarressing as hell. but i told the head nurse he was a rapist she said he is like ninety right,
we walked down the hall, and she talked with him a few minutes,
the next time i saw him he was in restraints.
he was in restraints untill he died.

its all in your mind
 

Cock Throppled

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Not very cool to describe someone, is "just fucking horny as hell" as a rapist.

There's a big difference.

If he was really was a rapist it's not something you should be very proud of.
 

WreckBeach

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Not very cool to describe someone, is "just fucking horny as hell" as a rapist.

There's a big difference.

If he was really was a rapist it's not something you should be very proud of.
I don't think he was so much trying to be proud as he was trying to illustrate a point about how a big factor in sexual arousal your mentality is.
 

vancity_cowboy

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If he was really was a rapist it's not something you should be very proud of.
I re-read seven's post just to make sure, and i could not detect any trace of pride in what he had to say about his rapist father... so i would say your post is way the fuck out of line
 
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