lots of grinding, undies on for smooth silky feel, light fc, teasing touches, then XPLODE into hardcore rabbit pumps while she yells at you FASTER HARDER, works every time!! bye.
What makes a good lover?
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Haha, I had to google it to make sure I spelled it right!
I meant physical rhythm, not spiritual. These quote from a Men's Health Magazine article sums up how I feel:
[Use] powerful, deep thrusts at a slow-to-medium pace. "It can be wonderfully intense. Pistonlike porno thrusting feels horrible. It can leave a girl dry, sore, and bored," she says. Add side-to-side movement, or up-and-down pelvic pressure against her clitoris when you're all the way inside, to vary the stimulation.
"Being too rough" is the worst mistake men make during oral sex, the ladies said. "Guys think they need to thrust and flick," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a New York City–based sex therapist and the author of She Comes First. "But often what she wants is a firm, still tongue—a point of pressure—so she can set the rhythm and pace."
Haha..thanks for the visual...now if you will excuse me...ummm hahaHere's a sexy gif of what good rhythm looks like to me
Well from my experience with past good lovers it's really only good if someone is as in to you as you are to them or vise versa . And if you are REALLY into each other I've found that absolutely EVERYTHING is possible and amazing. My best sexual experiences were all with someone that i had incredible chemistry with. things I normally wouldnt like were great! When chemistry is there and you are relaxed things just happen. Spontaneous role plays, interesting positions. I Hate it when someone asks for directives or advice. I think that if you pay attention to someone and observe their reactions (in their eyes and their body language and breathing) you can tell exactly what they like. Pay attention to subtle changes in breath. If someone is tensing up or pushing you away or turninng their face away from you something isnt right. Notice if someone turns away when your mouth is near them. you may have bad breath!. Diifferent positions, taking charge are all part of sex that flows but PAY aATTENTION to the reactions that you are getting. Remember that there is a whole body to touch. Not just a pussy and boobs. In face i've found that when men touch me for MY pleasure instead of theirs it is much more of a turn on and it is obvious when this is happening. In face if you can AVOID touching the genital area or boobs and make her WANT you to.... cause a little frustration. There is no need for other foreplay. For me foreplay is psychological. I'd like to be the one kept on the edge once in awhile. Make me want to be touched instead of having to fight for my space. Tease me. Dress up, put some extra thought into your appearance. Dont you love it when a woman does this for you? the man that has enough confidence and patience to make me go to him has me on a string! Women are used to being hit on constantly and smothered Try the opposite approach. For me, a good lover has to capture MY imagination and my facination. this is generally done with the mind not the body. I'll do ANYTHING for someone who can entice me without even touching me
To to OP:
Watch porn videos marketed towards women to get an idea of rhythm and what generally most women desire in sex; something slow, sensual, and a grace of feelings. Whereas, the depiction of sex in porn films at-large, of roughness and heaviness, is marketed towards men, and generally, what men desire in sex.
One can learn a few things from watching female porn - irony?
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I agree, but aggressiveness does not have to equate to "piston-like porno style fucking". You can be aggressive in bed but still be passionate and rhythmic about it.
I agree with those latter statements; what you've described as "physical rhythm" of course varies from person to person, male and female.
Also, from the women I've learned from and from what I've read (in addition to your prior comments and from other SPs), there is indeed a gender difference in physical desires. My male friends tend to describe their sexual activity, given an average wording as "slamming", "jack-hammering" and my female friends describing, as "soft, and gentle" and "considerate."
It is related to the differing anatomical-emotional traits in men and women. But in the end, it depends on the personalities of the woman and man in their engagement
....ok, enough with this arm-chair physical psychology haha :cheer2:
Also, from the women I've learned from and from what I've read (in addition to your prior comments and from other SPs), there is indeed a gender difference in physical desires. My male friends tend to describe their sexual activity, given an average wording as "slamming", "jack-hammering" and my female friends describing, as "soft, and gentle" and "considerate."
It is related to the differing anatomical-emotional traits in men and women. But in the end, it depends on the personalities of the woman and man in their engagement
....ok, enough with this arm-chair physical psychology haha :cheer2:
usually i agree with the 'physical rhythym' comment as that is my style, but i have met women who demanded porn-style pounding - and loved it... judging by the volume of their responses (both in terms of vocals AND fluids production, lol)
so i think it really depends on the individual, and every individual's opinion is worthy of consideration as we try to perfect our 'lover' techniques
btw... nice gif emmanuelle, if that ain't inspiring, i don't know what is :thumb:
I have heard it said if a guy can dance well (good hip movement) that usually translates into the bedroom doesnt it?..So maybe us guys that can move like "Jagger" haha can really move you eh?
And there's nothing hotter than sucking a guys dick
....that smells good and keeps it smooth and clean
Yes, imagine what these mosh pit dancers are like in bed with a woman. I'm sure the females just love it!
I mean, nothing like skull fucking her then get her in a full nelson to a body slam against the bed post to make her black out.
