Here is a totally different topic, and one that I have thought about for sometime. Perhaps the ladies can interject and provide guys with some tips on how to pick things up a notch in the bedroom.
I can only assume that if both parties are having fun the rewards will be self evident (repeat business, increase in stalking, etc lol)
I also know not every lady likes things the same way in the bedroom, and what she wants can change depending on her mood, the personal connection with the other party..etc. However, any tips would be appreciated.
For example, : SP A volunteers: "I really enjoy it when a guy is a good kisser, nothing gets me hotter and more turned on than a guy that can kiss..."
Whatever, it doesn't matter. As I am not a woman I can't speak to what exactly makes every woman hot, but I can speak to experience.
I found lot's of physical contact, touching, kissing and listening to and looking for subtle ques during can make the difference between an average and great experience.
Pay attention to her body language: If she is pulling you in deeper, holding you tighter, or kissing you madly...good chance you are doing something right lol..so don't stop!! Also I have found women will often direct you..."Right there, don't stop!" or "Harder! Faster!" etc..so do what they ask you to.
So perhaps the men can chime in from their experiences as well what they have found to be true, and the ladies can refute, support or add their own personal views on what makes a good lover.
The ultimate goal being so that we will all be that much better in the bedroom with the next person we see than we were previously
P.S. Feel free to share really bad lovers skills too...so we know what to avoid, especially if all women dislike it
I can only assume that if both parties are having fun the rewards will be self evident (repeat business, increase in stalking, etc lol)
I also know not every lady likes things the same way in the bedroom, and what she wants can change depending on her mood, the personal connection with the other party..etc. However, any tips would be appreciated.
For example, : SP A volunteers: "I really enjoy it when a guy is a good kisser, nothing gets me hotter and more turned on than a guy that can kiss..."
Whatever, it doesn't matter. As I am not a woman I can't speak to what exactly makes every woman hot, but I can speak to experience.
I found lot's of physical contact, touching, kissing and listening to and looking for subtle ques during can make the difference between an average and great experience.
Pay attention to her body language: If she is pulling you in deeper, holding you tighter, or kissing you madly...good chance you are doing something right lol..so don't stop!! Also I have found women will often direct you..."Right there, don't stop!" or "Harder! Faster!" etc..so do what they ask you to.
So perhaps the men can chime in from their experiences as well what they have found to be true, and the ladies can refute, support or add their own personal views on what makes a good lover.
The ultimate goal being so that we will all be that much better in the bedroom with the next person we see than we were previously
P.S. Feel free to share really bad lovers skills too...so we know what to avoid, especially if all women dislike it
