What Is Your Opinion On Members That Never Give Back

[voodooking]

What is your opinion on members on here that just come on here to sponge information from other good members just for their own benefit.
I am talking about members that will only ask questions and never offer back anything of value to other members on the forum.

This place is a good resource to get information on the services and experiences of SPs that I have interest in booking.
I always make it a point to post a little bit about my positive experiences to help out other members when I can in appreciation for their help.

Some of these selfish members that I am talking about have been long time members on here and have 3 posts.
I do notice that I get a lot of pms from some of these types of selfish members asking about SPs that I have seen and i am conflicted on whether they even deserve a response.

 

[jamasianman]

Its not a big deal. There are a lot of lurkers, people who sign up and then don't see any SP's or are just curious but not willing to take the plunge. Either they will or they won't, I don't let it bother me and just make sure to post reviews and be informative always.

 

[yasmine]

selfish? Not at all. Some members have little time to contribute; may only have time to skim for valuable info before they take the splurge. some rather keep the details behind closed doors because after all this is a private and discreet encounter. the human race is unique....you can't get the same tasting latte from different baristas. :thumb: mmm latte ......

What is your opinion on members on here that just come on here to sponge information from other good members just for their own benefit.
I am talking about members that will only ask questions and never offer back anything of value to other members on the forum.

This place is a good resource to get information on the services and experiences of SPs that I have interest in booking.
I always make it a point to post a little bit about my positive experiences to help out other members when I can in appreciation for their help.

Some of these selfish members that I am talking about have been long time members on here and have 3 posts.
I do notice that I get a lot of pms from some of these types of selfish members asking about SPs that I have seen and i am conflicted on whether they even deserve a response.

 

[badbadboy]

I reply to PM's to those who have contributed in some way.

Zero posts = zero response from me.

 

[Edward Lei]

^
Ditto. Unless I'm feeling extra nice that day which is rare.

 

[take8easy]

When I signed up a yr and a half ago, I had no intention of posting and not even seeing an SP, I never thought I would be able to. But ... anyways.

So yea. .. some ppl just want to lurk, they do their research and pursue the hobby quietly. Ideally speaking, we all would like to see them post, but hey, there is no law against not reviewing. It's all good.

 

[Avery]

I reply to PM's to those who have contributed in some way.

Zero posts = zero response from me.

That's exactly right! Those who give will get. Those who don't give and just take are just parasites.

 

[voodooking]

I tend to agree with you about these types of members that never return the favor that they are basically leeching off other members.

There are a lot of people that are takers and never give but expect all the details of an SP visit via a private message.
Some have even pm'ed me with rather stupid vulgar questions which I don't respond to and would sooner tell them to go fuck their hand instead.

I do however have no problem helping out good contributing members with manners via pm.

That's exactly right! Those who give will get. Those who don't give and just take are just parasites.

 

[MissingOne]

What is your opinion on members on here that just come on here to sponge information ...

I don't care in the least. Why concern myself about what anyone does, or does not do, on PERB?

 

[VancityDivas]

selfish? Not at all. Some members have little time to contribute; may only have time to skim for valuable info before they take the splurge. some rather keep the details behind closed doors because after all this is a private and discreet encounter. the human race is unique....you can't get the same tasting latte from different baristas. :thumb: mmm latte ......

Well put, some just don't bother or have time or prefer not to be caught up in some of these catty, verbose battle royales that I think we've all witnessed! ...And some people are quite fond of their favorite baristas and said lattes while others may have a different take

 

[Equity Market investor]

I had a shit load of reviews here by my current handle name and past handle name.
In a past thread, I stated that sometime late last yr, I contacted Fred to have all of my review deleted due to bill C-36. I panicked and now wish I hadn't taken that action
I have been absent for all of 2015 ....Serina was the last lady I visited in 2014.....her review waa deleted in the process, but all other reviews were from ladies who have all retired now.

Adrianna ( sexy girl) I See is now back in the game! I had fun with her back then.....she was great , I thought.

I plan on participating and visiting ladies again.

 

[PierreCoeur]

There are a lot of people who rarely post except to express their hostilities or anger.

I am now leaning towards lurker status without expressing opinion on any of the ladies and just glean pertinent information for my own use. After all if some don't care whether contributions are made or not made then I guess I am more happy to let others do the work and consider the site a wikipedia for escorts, that may have relevant information or not.

 

[Caramel]

there are some who also like to keep all the "gems" or good ones to themselves and never reveal a peep about it, however they will only post negative reviews or "warnings" only instead.

 

[BS Detector]

I always make it a point to post a little bit about my positive experiences to help out other members when I can in appreciation for their help.

Some of these selfish members that I am talking about have been long time members on here and have 3 posts.

You are making an assumption here, in calling people selfish. I am sure some have their vlid reasons for not posting.

 

[Caramel]

its also about privacy...Maybe some people think that if they post a review, and since they met the SP in person their identity might be compromised, whether its a positive review or not...some people are very paranoid and thats their right

 

[voodooking]

I am not saying just about posting reviews.
I could care less if they post a penthouse review with all the details of everything that they did with the SP.

There are many that constantly ask about new SPs that are in the city and if anyone has seen them to let them know.
But when they go and see them they don't say a word and wonder why the SP does not come back to town because she had no bookings because nobody knew she was the real deal.

Members that keep Sps to themselves as their little secret actually hurts their business.

These members should not expect everyone else to do all the work or always toftt so they can prosper.

its also about privacy...Maybe some people think that if they post a review, and since they met the SP in person their identity might be compromised, whether its a positive review or not...some people are very paranoid and thats their right

 

[sunnysideup]

I just checked. As of right now, there are 82,031 members of perb.cc. If each one wrote just three reviews each year, that would be . . . Aw hell - you do the math. Aren't you glad we don't all review every encounter?

 

[Equity Market investor]

I just checked. As of right now, there are 82,031 members of perb.cc. If each one wrote just three reviews each year,

Just how many of those are " legitimate member names, have multiple handles, ones who register once and never return and retired members / and SP's ?
What baffles me are ones who register and never return

 

[paprides]

selfish? Not at all. Some members have little time to contribute; may only have time to skim for valuable info before they take the splurge. some rather keep the details behind closed doors because after all this is a private and discreet encounter. the human race is unique....you can't get the same tasting latte from different baristas. :thumb: mmm latte ......

i can agree and disagree with a few of the posts on this thread…this one i agree with.^^^^^^^^^
Additionally, is a non-reviewing member here whom supports the advertisers with regular business *less* of a supporter than someone who doesn't support the advertisers but posts reviews about other experiences?

I suspect 50 reviews, or 100 reviews that don't support the paying advertisers are merely a collection of individuals with common interests engaging in conversation (gossip?) on a scale that would not be available, if not for the likes of Yasmine, Erica Phoenix, Riza and the like.

That's not to say that members should-or would-exclusively patronize advertisers. Given the number of members, i suspect our paying advertisers, benefactors as it were, wouldn't have the time (or energy) to see most of us.

So posters, post. Lurkers, lurk.
Support, with your kindness, respect and dollars those whom bring this platform to you to do as you will.

 

[voodooking]

So according to most of the SPs that have commented on this thread they would prefer that nobody post anything positive about them or a review on here.

I can assume that most of the established high end SPs that already have a ton of regulars really don't care if they get any reviews but what does that do for the new SPs starting out that have no reviews at all.

If everyone on here shared the philosophy of just lurk and don't ever post anything of value than there would be absolutely no useful information on here for anyone.