What Is Your Opinion On Members That Never Give Back

[CJ Tylers]

TOFTT's seem to turn out awful more times than not... and it takes either someone new to the business or someone with a desire to blow some cash on an unknown to do them.

For the guys that have been bitten one too many times, it's safer to stick to favourites or well reviewed trysts. Once you get into that cycle, how many reviews are needed of the same person?

Warnings and bad reviews are still contributing, perhaps even more than good reviews. Saving people hard earned money is always a good deed, if it's legit.

 

[summerbreeze]

that's why its called "taking one for the team".....

a lot of times its a sacrifice which saves everyone time and money

much appreciated for any heads up which saves getting poor value or less value than represented

 

[frisky business]

TOFTT's seem to turn out awful more times than not...

I respectfully disagree.

Give me a low volume part timer who I'm banging in the bed she actually sleeps in, over some assembly line in-and-out (no pun) high volume Hollywood wannabe hottie any day.

Besides, maybe I'll get kissed like she actually means it.

 

[Larry Storch]

that's why its called "taking one for the team".....

a lot of times its a sacrifice which saves everyone time and money

much appreciated for any heads up which saves getting poor value or less value than represented

Well, since we're all on a "team" and "sacrifices" have to be made; why don't you guys contribute to my TOFTT account via paypal.
I'll go TOFTT my brains out.
After all, we're all in this together.

 

[ddcanz]

So many people here missing the point entirely- IMO from my perch in the nickel section.
1. OP asking for our opinion on those who NEVER give back- obviously directed at those with 99% of their posts in the 411 with nary a review to share. Just like the loser that continually shows up at parties, puts a can of Fresca on the table and then consumes everyone else's party favours.
2. TOFTT is merely a term- a polite way of saying to the moochers- "quit asking so many fucking questions ad nauseum and just get out there and fuck her, FFS!" No one is telling you to waste your dough- couldn't really give a shit if your pooning budget is $100 or $10,000- but if you are THAT interested then just do it and find out for yourself. Since when is anything guaranteed?
Seems simple enough to me. But of course I come from a time when you were expected to step up for yourself- and not to expect everyone else to do the work for you.
To paraphrase from my earlier post on the subject- "The Lord helps those that help themselves"

 

[summerbreeze]

well said ddcanz

 

[sevenofnine]

here is a thought,

maybe what I do with my sp or some one else for that matter does not apply to the rest of you,


ah,

last time I saw my sp, I went to her house, not her incall. an estate house very very nice
I let myself in I have the security codes,
we kind of just stay and hang out do our own thing, the whole day or whatever were in the mood for.


I remember writing reviews of long supper dates with my sp, they did not go over well with some of our members I ended up defending myself etc etc, some name calling.


I'm not bragging well maybe I am, but really some of us do not fit into the mold.
of hey honey just spread your legs I just wana fuck you,

and funny I come across that way, and when I put down a big dam wad of money for an sp, that is kindof what I want and expect.
but it never seems to work out that way for me,

they the girls kind of just ask me to stay,
lets face it girls are lonely there like most of us need companion ship friend ship, etc, some one they like and trust. some stable reliable guy.

its no big deal. it really is not, do not get your panties in a knot over it.

some one said of me that is seven of nine out side the collective,
you do it your way I will do it mine,
but the last time I saw my sp no point writing about it, you will never ever see or get inside where she lives. so what is the point,

and how many of you after the session is over just told stay, stay as long as you like, you kind of do not have to go at all. a few of us have but I would assume not many,

like I said not many not a big deal really, I'm married for a long dam time so like I am not good in relationships or stable or a nice guy, so what is the big deal about having an sp that likes you a pain in the ass in some ways actually. but some of you will get your panties all twisted,


its funny but would you believe when an sp simply asks me to stay, I don't have to go, I just want to scream at her what the fuck are you doing, your ruining a good thing, this is not about friendships relationships trust, etc, but that is what some of us are built for wired for. and some sps as well.

 

[coverboy]

I used to contribute but got alot of rude and ungratefull comments back so I just said F it.

 

[voodooking]

I can see it from both perspectives of why people do post reviews and why they do not.

I personally post reviews that are respectful without giving up intimate details of the session out of respect to the SP that I visited.
It is never a brag or a ego thing for me when posting a review but a sign of appreciation to the SP and the people that have helped me in the past, present or future.

I have also however had negative members leave shit comments in response which made me say why the fuck did I even bother.
I still do not to let those negative people cause me to not want to contribute or give back.

I likely pissed off a lot of non contributing members by making this thread but if one or two of them have posted about a good experience with an SP as a result than it was well worth it.

I used to contribute but got alot of rude and ungratefull comments back so I just said F it.

 

[westwoody]

Any encounter is YMMV, period. Even with my favourite ladies there is sometimes an off day.
Problems arise when a customer reads a review and assumes he is going to have an identical experience.
That is not a realistic expectation, but some guys have it. Then they whine because they show up smelly or dirty, or act like a goof, and don't get first class treatment.

 

[LM987]

Some of us, like myself, may also be rookies at this game or maybe living vicariously through the regulars, getting the 411 on where we/they should go for a good first experience.

I've only been for massages, some fondilng, but no HE's ( yet).
Has some amazing sensual, but I am sure those that I have visited prefer not to be reviewed here.
Just my 2 cents

 

[sevenofnine]

have you ever thought maybe your reviews ruin it for another guy,

I was quite caught up in the sp I see now, seeing her every week writing reviews every week, we were on the same web site.

I didn't know, my sp was seeing another guy, who was quite caught up in her too. we were all on the same site, he was reading my reviews, he couldn't stand it.
a long time client of hers, showed up one day, and said never again would he see her, he was jealous over me.
he thought he was the only one who had a thing for this sp. and were friends.


I wish I could say sorry, to him, that I had ruined it,
I kind of went through the same thing, in a way its why I'm over here, and she is elsewhere, were not interfering with each other.

even something simply, like I read a review of my sp, and when I saw her I said that was nice, you guys had a good time. and I genuinely thought good for you guys,
but my sp immediately made a disgusting face, I asked her what was wrong, she hated the guy, her opinion was he was a creep.
I noticed another review of her by him, I said why are you seeing him,
she fucking told me in no simple words not any of my fucking business.

I was just trying to be a nice, guy, but true its not any of my business's
I think privacy is another reason for not writing reviews especially if your a regular with a women you like her, and post on boards.
words slip out, faces are made, emotions get hurt.

my sp is on another board, I have no idea what she does, except what she tells me. I have no desire to find out either not any of my business even though I consider were close friends,
close friends trust. I will not read another review of her, or write one for that matter or any other sp
and sometimes I struggle with it, but respect for members on the board, if they happen to see my sp or any other, is important, the sp's and clients respect and privacy are important.
but it happens when your a regular with an sp and friendship and trust builds, words slip out. its best if I don't know and don't write reviews.

I rarely see any other sp but the one I hang out with, and trust me we don't sit around and talk about guys who fucked her or other girls.
but you would not believe the words that slip out of an sp's mouth about other clients and sp's from the sp's I have seen they can't seem to wait to dish other guys and girls,, even if they don't you catch your breath search for conversation words simply slip out.
privacy is a rare commodity for some people

 

[Javoo]

I joined Perb in May 2014 after learning of it from Katie Star. Pre perb life I went 3/7 in this hobby, Katie Star, Tiffany Black, Lucy Lake were my positive experiences. When I joined I felt like I would review and chime in on topics to be part of the community. This is my first post of any kind, I intended to be more involved in the get go but as a new member I found it to be more of an old boys club and something the more established members were unhelpful with. I feel this board should benefit the newest member first and foremost and when I joined newbies were called shills too often or told to go "take one for the team" before they got any help from established board members, so I just kept to myself and lurked here and there and had a decent year last year that I'm still debating on whether or not I'm wanting to post about.

 

[poonmiester]

I agree, Westwoody. And, maybe that's why some guys are afraid to write an honest review, because if a guy goes to see her and it doesn't measure up, he risks having his credibility diminshed (and that could also make other guys reluctant to try to help HIM with intel down the road).

YMMV is exactly right. Again, I feel resentful when other guys get more Mileage out of a certain Fox than me, and equally I feel kind of bad for them when I get more Mileage out of a Fox than them. Such is life, unfortunately....

Timmy.

I think personally ....when I started on this board I spent a few months reading reviews and getting a feel of what was going on....
Once I had a drift of what was expected and what I should expect I started posting reviews..and chiming in on some previously reviewed SP....
When I post ....I don't find excuses to or not to...I just post.... I post my honest experience..... if it was worth it or not....
If the SP.was a total waste of time and waste of money. .. I will post it... and if she was an awesome girl.. I have no obection sharing the info.
I don't give a rats ass if it will affect the relationship between some other pooner and his SP... that is their business... what I post was MY experience....no one else...but mine... as the majority of members that post do.

I don't post to brag of how many times she came or if she did at all..... and simply some additional info ...that anyone can read through and make their own decision and post when and if they went to see this same SP.

It's like buying products online and reading reviews..... yu search up 2 similar product and 1 has 1 review... and the next one has 50 reviews.... odds are you will read them and be inclined to buy the product that has the most reviews....but in the end...if no one posted a review after buying it.... you would have no info to go on and make a reasonable decision....
Simply put.... if everyone chimes in... at the end of the day it is a full circle community participation. ...and every one benefits...not just a handful that does all the work and spend their time and money. ..while the rest reap the most benefit out of it....without doing shit.....
Like any type of relationship. ....there always has to be a balance of give and take by every individual....

 

[summerbreeze]

I think personally ....when I started on this board I spent a few months reading reviews and getting a feel of what was going on....
Once I had a drift of what was expected and what I should expect I started posting reviews..and chiming in on some previously reviewed SP....
When I post ....I don't find excuses to or not to...I just post.... I post my honest experience..... if it was worth it or not....
If the SP.was a total waste of time and waste of money. .. I will post it... and if she was an awesome girl.. I have no obection sharing the info.
I don't give a rats ass if it will affect the relationship between some other pooner and his SP... that is their business... what I post was MY experience....no one else...but mine... as the majority of members that post do.

I don't post to brag of how many times she came or if she did at all..... and simply some additional info ...that anyone can read through and make their own decision and post when and if they went to see this same SP.

It's like buying products online and reading reviews..... yu search up 2 similar product and 1 has 1 review... and the next one has 50 reviews.... odds are you will read them and be inclined to buy the product that has the most reviews....but in the end...if no one posted a review after buying it.... you would have no info to go on and make a reasonable decision....
Simply put.... if everyone chimes in... at the end of the day it is a full circle community participation. ...and every one benefits...not just a handful that does all the work and spend their time and money. ..while the rest reap the most benefit out of it....without doing shit.....
Like any type of relationship. ....there always has to be a balance of give and take by every individual....

great contribution, well said

 

[jsbond29]

I've been here a long time. Post rarely but do look around from time to time. Mostly trying to find background info on SP who are suspicious. The reviews are ok ... I don't get much out of them since its almost always YMMV anyways. I use this sight to identify scams.

Most of my contributions over the years has been through private messaging.

Here is my overall observation about this site:
1) positive reviews are overly positive - which leads to lots of business for the SP. With increase volume, prices go up and attitude/service drops
2) negative reviews tend to be overly negative - which leads to no business for the SP. With decrease in volume: a) prices drop, attitude/service improves or b) SP leaves the business
3) fake reviews are everywhere ... both positive and negative. Overly positive ones to drive business up; overly negative ones to take away competitor's business

I seldom base my visits on reviews since I visit SP so infrequently (once a month at most). By the time I get around to visiting a well reviewed SP; her attitude, service, prices have all changed.

 

[SteamedCarrotInMyAss]

Like some one mentioned previously, I'm one of the ones with an account (lurker) still waiting to take the plunge and meet an SP. There's a wealth of information provided by users here, and I've found members to be quite welcoming, so I can see why one would be worried about keeping users contributing.

 

[dickencyder]

I used to be an ugly fat fuck. Then i got in shape and I can slay the ladies. But I got real love for Perb. Perb has been there for me through thick and thin. If you are a leecher, perb has enough wealth of information to answer all your questions. If you are a bottom feeder leecher who doesn't even know how to use the search function... then you have bigger things to worry about than getting laid.

A lot of leechers send me PM's and I don't bother to respond. You get out what you put in. This is a community.

and to all the perb ladies... You saved my life. Thanks for the sex and the tits. It kept me going through the hard times. PS I'm drunk so YMMV

 

[badbadboy]

I used to be an ugly fat fuck. Then i got in shape and I can slay the ladies. But I got real love for Perb. Perb has been there for me through thick and thin. If you are a leecher, perb has enough wealth of information to answer all your questions. If you are a bottom feeder leecher who doesn't even know how to use the search function... then you have bigger things to worry about than getting laid.

A lot of leechers send me PM's and I don't bother to respond. You get out what you put in. This is a community.

and to all the perb ladies... You saved my life. Thanks for the sex and the tits. It kept me going through the hard times. PS I'm drunk so YMMV

For a drunk post, that's damn good Dick :nod:

I try to help newbs but they have to help themselves first. Do some basic research, check for reviews and scams and then contact someone who has seen the SP one is considering. If someone sends me a one sentence "who do you recommend?"

How the hell can I answer that question?

Also -

Still the same policy for me; zero posts on Perb = zero response from BBB.

 

[poonmiester]

For a drunk post, that's damn good Dick :nod:

I try to help newbs but they have to help themselves first. Do some basic research, check for reviews and scams and then contact someone who has seen the SP one is considering. If someone sends me a one sentence "who do you recommend?"

How the hell can I answer that question?

Also -

Still the same policy for me; zero posts on Perb = zero response from BBB.

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