What is the difference between making love and having sex?
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One usually involves a distinct emotional attachment while the other doesn't - pretty straightforward.
Sex costs you $200 to $500 an hour.
Love cost you half of everything you own.
Love cost you half of everything you own.
I feel like there are 4 levels.
”fucking” = sex i have with clients who are SUPER closed off / see me as subhuman (probably 5% of the sex I have at work)
”having sex” = fun, sport sex with mutual respect and pleasure (probably 15% of the sex I have at work)
”making love” - connected, emotional sex that makes you feel emotionally AND physically respected and cared for (probably 80% of the sex I have at work)
sex with a partner - not really sure how to describe how this is different, it just is. sometimes i have the above types of sex with a partner. but there’s another level to it!
”fucking” = sex i have with clients who are SUPER closed off / see me as subhuman (probably 5% of the sex I have at work)
”having sex” = fun, sport sex with mutual respect and pleasure (probably 15% of the sex I have at work)
”making love” - connected, emotional sex that makes you feel emotionally AND physically respected and cared for (probably 80% of the sex I have at work)
sex with a partner - not really sure how to describe how this is different, it just is. sometimes i have the above types of sex with a partner. but there’s another level to it!
...and then there's alimony and all the court appearances throughout it...
Nieces, nephews, close female friends, and SPs you enjoy your time with...
All the uppers you'll ever need.
If it flies, floats or fucks. It's cheaper to rent.Intere$ting how almo$t all men have the $ame reaction.
My take, and it has been said already, sex costs money, much much less money. Love costs money, much much more money. It also costs you house, boat, bank balance, lawyers fees, gifts, emotional anxiety and the list goes on and on.
Sex brings pleasure pretty much each time and love .......... less I say the better.
GD !!! That makes me wanna make shirt.
That on the front and I'll have an arrow on the back pointing to my left, haha...
Interesting thread - with a number of cynics participating. I think I had the good fortune to have participated in both sex and lovemaking simultaneously, when I engaged a SW, who turned out to be a classic courtesan, to engage in a duo with my very strait wife. Ah, the memories!!!
A very sensual massage provider said to me when I told her I wanted to make love to her.
“It wouldn’t be making love it would just be sex.” Even if she enjoyed it it wouldn’t be love. Just work she enjoys.
Making love requires an emotional investment, all sex requires is a hard on.
