SP Behaviour

Cock Throppled

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A few months ago I had a very nice session with an SP. I had brought a gift, which she excitedly said was one of her favourites, and she described in detail her favourites.

During the session we had a lively conversation and found out we had a few things in common re places we’d visited, types of cuisine, TV and movies we enjoy.

The session ended with her doing more than I expected, and I tipped well, and we parted. I hadn’t pushed boundaries, or gone overtime.

About a month later, I tried to book again, but she was not available for the time I wanted. Or other suggested times.

I tried more times over the next few weeks, but there were always excuses why she wasn’t available, or she wouldn’t respond at all.

Two separate times through this, I asked her to tell me if she didn’t want to see me, that I wouldn’t be offended, and each time she said no, she liked me as a client, but the excuses continued before I gave up entirely, and I was prepared to become a regular.

She is quite forthright, and not shy, so I can’t see her being embarrassed about saying I stank (I am scrupulously scrubbed for any session), or I offended her somehow (I don’t think we touched on any serious subjects like religion or politics).

I have moved on, but wonder if anyone else has experienced this? Or know why?
 

uncleg

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From all your shares and with it going so well maybe she:
a) figured that you might be the type that would want to pursue a relationship outside of business,
b) may have too much in common and may end up crossing paths in the civilian world.


I usually get cold shouldered because I want to bring my dog.....after all he is a watchdog.
 

SolidSnake

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You are lucky you just started seeing her a few months ago.

I'm in the same boat, but even worse. In the short space of eight months, I have suffered tremendous personal loss (including both parents and an uncle who treated me like a son.) I am in the lowest point of my entire life. Upon learning my situation, my weekly regular of two years picks this very moment to cut me off completely.

I have learned an extremely heavy lesson to keep up appearances and not to trust any SP or acquaintance with my burdens.


A few months ago I had a very nice session with an SP. I had brought a gift, which she excitedly said was one of her favourites, and she described in detail her favourites.

During the session we had a lively conversation and found out we had a few things in common re places we’d visited, types of cuisine, TV and movies we enjoy.

The session ended with her doing more than I expected, and I tipped well, and we parted. I hadn’t pushed boundaries, or gone overtime.

About a month later, I tried to book again, but she was not available for the time I wanted. Or other suggested times.

I tried more times over the next few weeks, but there were always excuses why she wasn’t available, or she wouldn’t respond at all.

Two separate times through this, I asked her to tell me if she didn’t want to see me, that I wouldn’t be offended, and each time she said no, she liked me as a client, but the excuses continued before I gave up entirely, and I was prepared to become a regular.

She is quite forthright, and not shy, so I can’t see her being embarrassed about saying I stank (I am scrupulously scrubbed for any session), or I offended her somehow (I don’t think we touched on any serious subjects like religion or politics).

I have moved on, but wonder if anyone else has experienced this? Or know why?
 

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You are lucky you just started seeing her a few months ago.

I'm in the same boat, but even worse. In the short space of eight months, I have suffered tremendous personal loss (including both parents and an uncle who treated me like a son.) I am in the lowest point of my entire life. Upon learning my situation, my weekly regular of two years picks this very moment to cut me off completely.

I have learned an extremely heavy lesson to keep up appearances and not to trust any SP or acquaintance with my burdens.
Awe that's sad. Sorry to hear about your losses.💗🤗
 

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It is entirely possible she is more concerned about catching feelings for you. Some providers don't worry about that, but there are many who fire clients they like because they don't want to catch those feelings. It's mentioned semi-regularly in tweets. The flip side is she's worried you would catch feelings for her, so she's pre-emptively cutting you off.
 

lukom

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Maybe ask her what her next window of availability looks like and see if that's something you can accommodate, and go from there?
 

happymoments

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Maybe you talk too much and all she is interested in is sex. (Kidding—Lol). It’s usually the other way around.

LOL it's happened to me when I initially started here and the few ladies I really wanted to spend time with getting to know them. Kind of hot when they want you to shut it and give it to them as well 🤣

Maybe ask her what her next window of availability looks like and see if that's something you can accommodate, and go from there?

I was thinking this as well. Easiest way to tell would offer her your availability and see if she's willing to make time and space for you over a given period of time, if not, the answer is clear for you somethings up. Maybe easily able to cross paths / catch feelings. Remember you are paying for a magic show... The magician - the beautiful lady is well versed in her craft and spells. The illusion is how well she bonds with you, but the show ends when the time / money runs out. Sometimes, the show is only good for a one time show.

When the show ends, time to find the next amazing magician, so dont be sad you cant see her anymore, be happy you've been blessed with an amazing time and memory. Now have another high bar to beat.
 

Cock Throppled

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D- None of the above. I am very clear I don't want any relationship, but a business one. I very much doubt any SP would have feelings for me, other than friend. I have a number of former SP's I remain in contact with as friends.

In a one hour massage/plus session, I can't imagine just lying there and not conversing.

Our interests involved travel and food and TV movies, so the chance of running into one another are slim to none.

Not upset about this, just curious. There are more SP's out there than I'll ever get to.

For those PM'ing me - I won't name the SP, as it would probably get back to her, and I don't want to possibly create extra drama.
 

luvsdaty

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Don't take it personally CT,and don't read anything into the time you spend together with this SP. You'll save yourself a lot of aggravation . This subject has been discussed a lot on this board ,with a lot of good advice dolled out and some not so good advice. The only advice I'll offer is let it cool off and run it's natural coarse who knows maybe she'll miss your company and reach out to you again?and it it doesn't run the way you'd hoped for,don't get all stockery. I've had a couple sps not want to see me after a few visits over the yeats,never bothered asking why. Just moved on to the next oneJust my 2 cents, and it probably ain't even worth that much.
Cheers LD
 
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cruefan

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She either enjoyed her time with you way too much and decided to not see you anymore or you rubbed her the wrong way and she decided to not see you anymore.

Accept it and move on and go see someone else and just have fun while not taking it too seriously.
That is what this " business " is all about.
 
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