A few months ago I had a very nice session with an SP. I had brought a gift, which she excitedly said was one of her favourites, and she described in detail her favourites.
During the session we had a lively conversation and found out we had a few things in common re places we’d visited, types of cuisine, TV and movies we enjoy.
The session ended with her doing more than I expected, and I tipped well, and we parted. I hadn’t pushed boundaries, or gone overtime.
About a month later, I tried to book again, but she was not available for the time I wanted. Or other suggested times.
I tried more times over the next few weeks, but there were always excuses why she wasn’t available, or she wouldn’t respond at all.
Two separate times through this, I asked her to tell me if she didn’t want to see me, that I wouldn’t be offended, and each time she said no, she liked me as a client, but the excuses continued before I gave up entirely, and I was prepared to become a regular.
She is quite forthright, and not shy, so I can’t see her being embarrassed about saying I stank (I am scrupulously scrubbed for any session), or I offended her somehow (I don’t think we touched on any serious subjects like religion or politics).
I have moved on, but wonder if anyone else has experienced this? Or know why?
During the session we had a lively conversation and found out we had a few things in common re places we’d visited, types of cuisine, TV and movies we enjoy.
The session ended with her doing more than I expected, and I tipped well, and we parted. I hadn’t pushed boundaries, or gone overtime.
About a month later, I tried to book again, but she was not available for the time I wanted. Or other suggested times.
I tried more times over the next few weeks, but there were always excuses why she wasn’t available, or she wouldn’t respond at all.
Two separate times through this, I asked her to tell me if she didn’t want to see me, that I wouldn’t be offended, and each time she said no, she liked me as a client, but the excuses continued before I gave up entirely, and I was prepared to become a regular.
She is quite forthright, and not shy, so I can’t see her being embarrassed about saying I stank (I am scrupulously scrubbed for any session), or I offended her somehow (I don’t think we touched on any serious subjects like religion or politics).
I have moved on, but wonder if anyone else has experienced this? Or know why?