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take8easy

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For me that is a tough one as I'm a typical Canadian, aren't we all polite, always saying sorry :), & always saying Hello.
I always, well not always, say hello to people while working or walking as long as they give me the impression that they are not going to fly "Off the Handle" as my dad always said. I have had more than one greeting that went sideways, to a point that I was called a pervert by a late 20ish young lady. Yes I did make a point to say hello to the small group of fine looking young ladies, but that is me. I still get a chuckle to this day, do to the fact that one of her friends said hello back, & appoligized for her rude friend. Hey I wasn't foaming at the mouth or anything.
But back to the question, I guess my gut is telling me, depending on the circumstances, to just be polite & respect her boundaries.
I agree, yes, respect her boundaries, and I did.

I just wondered out loud if anyone of you faced the same situation( and I am sure many of you did) and was tempted to say a quick hi or a nod or a smile.... but obviously people here gauge everything by "what has been posted already" standard.
 

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Just to put a different twist on it....

One time I was walking though a large mall and I encountered an SP I knew with her Mother. The SP stopped and introduced me to her Mother!!!!!!! Before you get your knickers in a twist, I guess I need to explain that I was by myself, and in the previous chit chat with the SP we discovered that we shared a common business interest (other than sex), which was the purpose of the introduction.
 

take8easy

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Just to put a different twist on it....

One time I was walking though a large mall and I encountered an SP I knew with her Mother. The SP stopped and introduced me to her Mother!!!!!!! Before you get your knickers in a twist, I guess I need to explain that I was by myself, and in the previous chit chat with the SP we discovered that we shared a common business interest (other than sex), which was the purpose of the introduction.
Good thing you didn't post it here.. otherwise who knows what the reaction of some of the ......... "I have been posting before you" type members would have been.
 

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fair enough .. and I did not initiate any contact at all.. i just saw her and the thought did cross my mind.. I guess I just wanted to know if it happened to others or not
Fortunately I am single and have no jealous wife. If I like an SP I certainly tell them they can call me anytime or say hi if we meet by chance. They are people, not nymphomaniacs or tramps, and if you respect them as such it helps.

So far I have helped a few move, or paint their house, or drive to/from the airport, and quite few nice meals at fancy restaurants. No invitations for wild sex though.

I am taking one to the Caribbean for a week this winter. Here's hoping.
 

take8easy

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Fortunately I am single and have no jealous wife. If I like an SP I certainly tell them they can call me anytime or say hi if we meet by chance. They are people, not nymphomaniacs or tramps, and if you respect them as such it helps.

So far I have helped a few move, or paint their house, or drive to/from the airport, and quite few nice meals at fancy restaurants. No invitations for wild sex though.

I am taking one to the Caribbean for a week this winter. Here's hoping.
You are making me jealous my friend, lol.
 

take8easy

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No effing way! Really?

You'd think this would be common sense. But I guess some people need to be reminded occasionally that not everyone lives on perb and that we were all new members at one point :)
Thank you Brokebastard and thank you Miss Mel .......... that's exactly my point. I am made to feel like I have committed biggest sin of all for not searching the board for what I am posting. By that rule, there should NEVER be multiple posts on ANY SP's. or ANY TOPIC, period.

There are multiple posts on different SP's all over... !!

I mean gimme a break ,old timers, for asking a simple question, that could've been answered by relating your experience or your suggestions. Instead some ...... old timers stoop down to being insulting and condescending in their responses.

Well, I apologies to all the "Holier, Smarter, Older, Mightier than thou" members. I will make sure that I search for the thread before I post. Thank you.
Oh yes, by the way, just in case you made any mistakes in life.... you are forgiven because you are so superior than the newbies like me.

From now on, I will check every single word of every single post and every single line that I want to post to make sure that I don't offend the mightier, holier and veterans of this forum.
 

take8easy

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The OP wrote that he knows, not he thinks, he did the right thing. What we think doesn't matter. My take away from this post is that take8easy saw an SP in a public place and did the right thing. However, if we were to post all the right things (or all the wrong things) that we do while going to visit out favorite SPs, Perb would be a whole different forum.
I just made the mistake of thinking out loud - "Has someone else had a situation like this? If yes, then how did he, she react?"

Look at the venom, the sarcasm, the insults get thrown around here like Halloween candies.

I joined this forum ( like other forums I am a member of), thinking this would be a good brotherhood to exchange ideas but was I ever wrong!!

Just because I dont know that this topic has been discussed here before, I am being subjected to negative comments??
 

take8easy

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In your case, I would suggest you "search" before creating a new thread.

This one is done probably 3 X per year.
Dear Sir

I beg you to forgive me for committing a serious sin. I stand before all of you to be punished for committing this crime of not checking/searching everything that I post.

I take the oath of never repeating this mistake. I beg for your, your and your forgiveness.

Guilty as charge (of a petty mistake).

Yours Sincerely

T8E
 

take8easy

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A typical tobleroney 2.0 post

so Perb faithful time to facepalm.....

Yes, please do as Mr. BJ says.

So when do I appear in front of you all to be charged for asking as simple question?

Please let me know... Mr babbadboy, Mr. Wilde, Mr. dipsett and Mr. BadgerJohn?

:)

Have some tolerance for the newbies gentlemen. That's all I am asking for. Thank you.
 

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Yes, please do as Mr. BJ says.

So when do I appear in front of you all to be charged for asking as simple question?

Please let me know... Mr babbadboy, Mr. Wilde, Mr. dipsett and Mr. BadgerJohn?

:)

Have some tolerance for the newbies gentlemen. That's all I am asking for. Thank you.
Seems you can't tolerate what people have to say about your decision(positive+negative).Obviously depends on the situation. Your 50yrs old you shouldn't need advice on anything now.
 

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Dear Sir

I beg you to forgive me for committing a serious sin. I stand before all of you to be punished for committing this crime of not checking/searching everything that I post.

I take the oath of never repeating this mistake. I beg for your, your and your forgiveness.

Guilty as charge (of a petty mistake).

Yours Sincerely

T8E
Hey you made a mistake and you took my simple statement to do some research as an assault. That is not what I intended at all. Too many times this subject, the pricing of SP's, who is high volume, who is low volume yadda yadda yadda is posted; in my estimation 3 - 4 x per year. I do not feel that I am obligated to apologize to you because on any internet forum, research is your friend.

So here is my simple rule because since I am downtown fairly often.

1. If I spy a lady whom I have had the pleasure of seeing and she sees I am by myself and she is also alone; I may smile at her. I can honestly say I normally smile at pretty women regardless if they are SP's. That's just me.

2. Always ensure she is alone. I was waiting outside an incall recently and saw an SP whom I have had some wonderful dates with and she has ridden in my car. She recognized me / my car and I immediately recognized her. I was about to smile and say "hi" when I noticed a male on her coat tails following her to a vehicle parked behind mine. I elected not to look up. I followed up with a quick email to her and said "hi" electronically. She insisted I had say hello in person but the other male may have been a client, her SO or her BF etc so I stayed incognito.

3. I have been leaving a Yaletown incall and saw another SP whom I had the pleasure of her company. She immediately saw me and smiled. We both knew I was coming from the incall she was about to enter. I also said hello to her "electronically".

4. It can go horribly wrong some times. I was alone on a rainy Winter night and was walking to an incall. An SP I had seen was walking past me and our eyes engaged. I smiled but did not say hello. Five minutes later, I received an email chastising me for my indiscretion. That one was weird because we were the only two people on that side of the street in that particular block and yet smiling at her anonymously was a huge lack of discretion.

Notice how I had not spoken to any of the ladies I had seen?

Finally, it can work against you too. I was in Rogers Arena with a few clients standing having a beer when a couple of hot women walked by me, one of which I had seen as an SP. Her indiscretion left a mark by saying "hi, badbadboy, I haven't seen you in a long time, how are you?"

Now that's a lie I have to keep with those clients forever. I hate lying and I particularly hate having to remember a lie.

Wait for it. The simple rule is do not under any circumstances speak to an SP while in public. I have sometimes breached protocol by looking in their direction and smiling but quite honestly its been very discrete.
 

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Thank you Brokebastard and thank you Miss Mel .......... that's exactly my point. I am made to feel like I have committed biggest sin of all for not searching the board for what I am posting. By that rule, there should NEVER be multiple posts on ANY SP's. or ANY TOPIC, period.

There are multiple posts on different SP's all over... !!

I mean gimme a break ,old timers, for asking a simple question, that could've been answered by relating your experience or your suggestions. Instead some ...... old timers stoop down to being insulting and condescending in their responses.

Well, I apologies to all the "Holier, Smarter, Older, Mightier than thou" members. I will make sure that I search for the thread before I post. Thank you.
Oh yes, by the way, just in case you made any mistakes in life.... you are forgiven because you are so superior than the newbies like me.

From now on, I will check every single word of every single post and every single line that I want to post to make sure that I don't offend the mightier, holier and veterans of this forum.
Who is being condescending now, I wonder??? Look, all I am saying is this topic has been done to death on Perb. Take that for what it's worth, or not, your choice. Take it easy take8easy, wouldn't want you to blow a gasket.
 
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hi 8!

having a good thread? :D

a rule of thumb - do a search before you start a thread. if you see by the frequency of a topic that maybe the board community could react poorly, maybe change the topic...

or not. whatever, some people like to stir things up, it's in their nature :)
 

take8easy

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or.. this whole situation could have been avoided if some of the members who have been here for a while, just showed some patience and posted a link suggesting that this has been discussed already.

I will go back to a point I have already made:

If I go by the same unwritten rule of "don't post if it has already been discussed", there should never be more than one thread about an SP. But there are more than one thread about so many SP's. I guess they sought some veterans'... (using Badger John's expression) fucking permission.

What is the big (using Badger John's expression) FUCKING deal if a newbie starts another FUCKING thread, Badger John?

Did I encroach upon your property? Did I accidentally stepped into a territory that you had clearly earmarked for your personal use, your highness?

If I did that... I think I should be punished, shouldn't I?

I again, apologize for not seeking permission of old timers before posting a thread about a subject that has already been discussed here. Sorry the old timers, please forgive me.

Yes, I am being, using Badger's words, fucking sarcastic.


T8E.
 

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What is the big FUCKING deal if a newbie starts another FUCKING thread,
I again, apologize for not seeking permission of old timers before posting a thread about a subject that has already been discussed here. Sorry the old timers, please forgive me
Im a new not an old timer here. If there is a recent review or thread I just contribute to it. Or if its an older review and it needs an update I will maybe write a new review.

maybe you should use this and stop crying so much:p
 

take8easy

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they did...by telling you to use the search function and....nobody can control your actions...only you.... don't blame others

You were prompted and prodded to go in the right direction but you didn't see that, instead you responded with anger and contempt.
If you are the Newbie you admit to being, may i suggest slowing down on the posting and instead spending more time observing and searching.
Additionally, why would you alienate yourself from long time members and others by attacking them because they didn't respond the way you wanted them to?
obviously you have not read the language used my some of the ... old timers....

Don't believe me? Read what Badger John wrote. The tone is contemptible.

My point is, fine, I posted something that has already been discussed before. Is that a big deal? Do we have to make a newbie feel like crap for making that mistake?

Why would I alienate myself? Who wouldn't want to? Who would like to be in the same group of old timers who jump on a guy for posting a thread about something that has been discussed already.

There are SPs who have been discussed multiple times. Do we need to just one thread for each one of them? By that argument, each thread could be scores of pages long?

I was going to accept to be 'prodded and prompted' to go to the right direction, it is the tone of the 'old timers' that got me riled.

You know what this is it. I will do what some of the old timers did...
1. Yawn
2. Roll my eyes ..(beating the dead horse)
3. Use some f..king fould language and forget that there are some f..king idiots who think they own the f..cking forum and who think that the newbies need to search every single f..ing word, phrase, thought, sentence before they post.

Adios
T8E.
 

take8easy

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Im a new not an old timer here. If there is a recent review or thread I just contribute to it. Or if its an older review and it needs an update I will maybe write a new review.

maybe you should use this and stop crying so much:p
Why don't you pass it on to some of the big babies who seem offended that a newbie posted a thread about something that they have seen before. :)
 

take8easy

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Seems you can't tolerate what people have to say about your decision(positive+negative).Obviously depends on the situation. Your 50yrs old you shouldn't need advice on anything now.
OR.... it seems like old timers can't tolerate that a thread has been started about a subject that has already been discussed.

Regarding my decision: I did not approach her. I know I shouldn't. I DID NOT. All I did was post here and all off a sudden I get a barrage of negativity, not about my decision, but about the fact that The Topic has been discussed before. OK, fine. I am sure it has been discussed before. But do we have to be insulting and condescending while conveying that to a new member???

No, I don't think so.
 
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