Whos to say what motivation someone has to getting a gift for a provider. All i know is it always makes everyone involved happier. And thats enough for me to continue doing it.
What do you guys typically bring for the girls on your poon sessions?
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I respect your passion for what you do, and I get that little gestures can brighten anyone’s day. That said, I look at it differently. To me, things like gifts, flowers, or wishlist items are symbols of a deeper personal bond, not something I attach to a paid arrangement. I value those gestures too much to put them into a transactional context where they lose their meaning.
My whole life is shaped by my business-minded way of thinking. I am very critical about details and I do not enjoy gray zones. My success has always come from being exact, understanding what the terms are, and then delivering on that. I carry that same mindset into every part of my life. When I agree to a rate, I see it as the clear contract of what is expected. If the service meets or exceeds that, then it works. If not, I do not return. Simple as that.( I’ve only really had 2 or 3 interactions like this and they were years upon years ago I don’t always or even frequently decide to use SPs )
What I have found works best is being clear, consistent, and respectful. When I book someone at a certain rate, I expect that experience to be delivered. If we connect naturally and build rapport over time, that’s what makes me come back, not whether I brought along an extra treat.
That is final for me though, bout to take a long flight and won’t be checking back
everyone enjoy what you would like, I’ll read any replies but won’t reply further , not that anyone should care either way.
Just giving my 2.5 cents for other men to hopefully see
Yeee men on white chariots can chariot away.
I once got a provider a sampler of some perfume in my second visit...that may have partly contributed to her giving me a MUCH better experience than the first time (which was also amazing).
If I may interject (love the discussion, by the way) I’d just like to add that any gift/extra should be to show YOUR appreciation to said person, not an attempt to garner favor from them. Kindness is the easiest thing to reciprocate!
I bring my talented mouth and tongue and make sure I’m clean shaved nice and smooth .
Clean shaven is always a nice thoughtful gesture 💕. nobody likes sand paper on their privates! 😝
If you’re the kind of guy that doesn’t like to shave, then clean and soft, and well groomed is also nice 💕
Yes it’s important to me that the girl is comfortable physically and comfortable with what we engage in
I've never brought anything other than the right amount of cash. I also show up fresh, clean, shaved, have a good attitude, and am respectful of her time. Gifts and such are for girls I'm dating and wanting to build a relationship with.
*a squeaky clean ass* lol -- has to be the best answer so far!
Expectations are always: respect, a clear understanding of consent, the envelope, and a good attitude. Gifts are unexpected treats!
I love having fresh flowers around, but receiving them at my in-call can draw too much unwanted attention. I mostly re-gift chocolates, unless enjoyed during the date. I never accept opened beverages-- better to order delivery in that case.
There used to be a thread about strangest/weirdest gifts received. A gent once brought me tree bark. I know we had email conversations about his remote location before our date... and it wasn't the only thing he brought (again, nothing expected... he gifted me an ethically sourced diamond necklace), I just keep thinking I missed some hidden meaning about the tree bark?
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Expectations are always: respect, a clear understanding of consent, the envelope, and a good attitude. Gifts are unexpected treats!
I love having fresh flowers around, but receiving them at my in-call can draw too much unwanted attention. I mostly re-gift chocolates, unless enjoyed during the date. I never accept opened beverages-- better to order delivery in that case.
There used to be a thread about strangest/weirdest gifts received. A gent once brought me tree bark. I know we had email conversations about his remote location before our date... and it wasn't the only thing he brought (again, nothing expected... he gifted me an ethically sourced diamond necklace), I just keep thinking I missed some hidden meaning about the tree bark?
*Fred, I've sent membership payment*
If I’d known women liked tree bark it would have saved me a lot of money!
I have heard the phrase 'tighter than bark on a tree' referring to someone who is cheap.
According to Perplexity;
Receiving tree bark as a gift can be a powerful symbol of strength, protection, healing, respect for nature, and a meaningful connection to cultural heritage. It is often more than just a physical present, embodying spiritual and life-affirming qualities cherished by many communities worldwide.
Just saw this fun thread...
Always MCT coconut oil since i love giving massage and makes DATO extra great.
A bottle of prefered beverage unopened to share. Hopefully wine but open to a sober experience.
A bit of extra cash just in case there is an extra CIM thats not normally included or known by booking desk in case of an agency.
Often a silk tie if sp is open to a kinky little bondage. Not a first date thing usually.
Sometimes hand made artisanal soap.
Fancy french cheese or sushi on longer dates.
Edibles on select longer dates.
Ok so i have a small back pack.
And of course much other stuff/prep already mentioned...
I gotta say i rarely have a bad date.
Always MCT coconut oil since i love giving massage and makes DATO extra great.
A bottle of prefered beverage unopened to share. Hopefully wine but open to a sober experience.
A bit of extra cash just in case there is an extra CIM thats not normally included or known by booking desk in case of an agency.
Often a silk tie if sp is open to a kinky little bondage. Not a first date thing usually.
Sometimes hand made artisanal soap.
Fancy french cheese or sushi on longer dates.
Edibles on select longer dates.
Ok so i have a small back pack.
And of course much other stuff/prep already mentioned...
I gotta say i rarely have a bad date.
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I have not repeated as of yet which is when I might bring a gift. I have been with SP's that did not live up to their promise. That would have been a waste of the gift itself. I will probably research the culture of the SP and go from there. Cash for great service is always accepted.
Im much more into the sugar babe seeking scene than escorts but I’ve brought flowers and coolers to past visits with both options. Love finding woman that I can bang and then go for a walk or dinner with and build a connection for no extra charge.
On a first visit, I usually bring a bottle of good wine and some chocolates, from my favorite chocolatier. Subsequent visits, I like to give meaningful gifts, so I pay attention. I love gifting and sometimes like to go all out. A few years ago, I ended up having a few days off at christmas, with nothing to do. So I called up a young lady, I had been seeing, whenever in town and got lucky. I spent the day picking up gifts and supplies, decorated the suite I was in and created stockings, filled with goodies and gifts. She brought a friend she worked with and we had a wonderful time.
