What do you guys typically bring for the girls on your poon sessions?

[Newuser505]

This isn't about that -- it's about the expectations that are created by saying "to get better service you need to bring gifts". At what point do those expectations cross a line from 'gee, be nice and give her flowers' to 'I gave her flowers she better appreciate it in some way!' ?

Whos to say what motivation someone has to getting a gift for a provider. All i know is it always makes everyone involved happier. And thats enough for me to continue doing it.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

There's no debate, don't worry! I'm very passionate about clients deserving more when they choose to put in more efforts 🔥 I'm told that I may sound upset or aggressive sometimes though so I get where you're coming from.

I'm here to remind the guys to choose wisely, and put in your efforts with those who reward you for them ✨ My suggestions were BBT, cute envelopes containing my rate, and wishlist items if they want to get them for me 😅 I'm not going to be pretend that gifts/tips and sweet gestures don't make a difference in my day; we're human too, so my mood being uplifted by an extra sprinkle of joy is only natural.

We're each coming from a completely different place where I'm an SP happy to receive knowing that I give back, and you're warning people of those other people who couldn't care less about these gestures. We both want the best for all potential clients at the core 👏



I hope I do read like a "casual" sales girlie in every post. The same way my emails read like admin with a touch of humanization - it's difficult because I sometimes do admin like a bot 🥴 It's my job here to share my genuine opinions & experiences, while speaking up for my desired clientele 😇

It works really well for getting the type of client I enioy the most, keeping my job sustainable so I can take care of them until they've got other things to do 🩵 Meanwhile, it pushes away those I wouldn't have the best chemistry with.

I respect your passion for what you do, and I get that little gestures can brighten anyone’s day. That said, I look at it differently. To me, things like gifts, flowers, or wishlist items are symbols of a deeper personal bond, not something I attach to a paid arrangement. I value those gestures too much to put them into a transactional context where they lose their meaning.

My whole life is shaped by my business-minded way of thinking. I am very critical about details and I do not enjoy gray zones. My success has always come from being exact, understanding what the terms are, and then delivering on that. I carry that same mindset into every part of my life. When I agree to a rate, I see it as the clear contract of what is expected. If the service meets or exceeds that, then it works. If not, I do not return. Simple as that.( I’ve only really had 2 or 3 interactions like this and they were years upon years ago I don’t always or even frequently decide to use SPs )

What I have found works best is being clear, consistent, and respectful. When I book someone at a certain rate, I expect that experience to be delivered. If we connect naturally and build rapport over time, that’s what makes me come back, not whether I brought along an extra treat.

That is final for me though, bout to take a long flight and won’t be checking back

everyone enjoy what you would like, I’ll read any replies but won’t reply further , not that anyone should care either way.
Just giving my 2.5 cents for other men to hopefully see

Yeee men on white chariots can chariot away.

 

[micnumbereight]

Curious to see what every one brings for the girls

Do you typically bring the same thing every time or do you change it up depending on if the girl is Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Chinese?

My go to is usually just a half sweet milk tea, but just wondering if you guys had other options that SPs typically liked better

cock ring

 

[realsocialdad]

I once got a provider a sampler of some perfume in my second visit...that may have partly contributed to her giving me a MUCH better experience than the first time (which was also amazing).

 

[80watts]

A Pot plant.... brightens up the place.....