What do you guys typically bring for the girls on your poon sessions?

[VRhound]

It’s a business , do you bring anything to your local drive through or give a gift to your door dash driver ?

there is no actual incentive to give more then they’re already asking for

so bring nothing but a good attitude, don’t be abusive and respect their rules.

Also make sure you brought the correct cash amount

Well not entirely false, but if I bring flowers to the drive through I won’t get a few extra fries or a special extra in the bag. 😂

Not always guaranteed or expected but a little extra attention from a naked woman with a tangible token of respect and appreciation never hurts.

 

[Langleydude]

Well not entirely false, but if I bring flowers to the drive through I won’t get a few extra fries or a special extra in the bag. 😂

Not always guaranteed or expected but a little extra attention from a naked woman with a tangible token of respect and appreciation never hurts.

And to be honest she's providing a much more personal service than taking your lunch order

 

[Harmony-bc]

It’s a business , do you bring anything to your local drive through or give a gift to your door dash driver ?

there is no actual incentive to give more then they’re already asking for

so bring nothing but a good attitude, don’t be abusive and respect their rules.

Also make sure you brought the correct cash amount

I would hope the service I provide is a bit more personal than your local drive thru or door dash guy lol.

You absolutely can just bring yourself. Sometimes the whole tipping culture we live in can totally irritate me. If I pay $700 for fractora and expected to tip on top of that, it makes me not want to get fractora lol. So I understand not wanting to tip and I do charge what I want to make. I’m not like a waitress who is over worked and under paid dealing with rude customers all day long. I am very privileged that I can turn down clients I think won’t mesh with me.

I really love gifts, tips, flowers, and/or chocolates. I love the romance of being treated special.

I expect nothing and it doesn’t change my service or my feelings towards somebody if they bring nothing but a good attitude.

 

[rinamood]

Agreeing w @VRhound @Langleydude @Harmony-bc

I won't treat someone WORSE for not bringing me a gift/tip. I do notice and appreciate client effort whether it's keeping email exchanges concise, interacting w me as a human being rather than barking orders at me, repeat bookings, and gifts/tips. Good attitude counts too, of course!

It's about giving a fuck, which may lead to getting a better fuck. Definitely skip the bonus acts if you're uncomfortable with it; don't do anything that you aren't happy to do. For me though? I'm very translucent about having a YMMV range and people who get it, GET IT.

 

[HunkyBill]

Well not entirely false, but if I bring flowers to the drive through I won’t get a few extra fries or a special extra in the bag. 😂

Not always guaranteed or expected but a little extra attention from a naked woman with a tangible token of respect and appreciation never hurts.

Damn. I should've brought flowers, chocolates, and other gifts besides cash to the naked ladies who gave me lap dances at the No5 Orange and Penthouse Cabaret back in the day. Maybe one of them could've been my ex?

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

I would hope the service I provide is a bit more personal than your local drive thru or door dash guy lol.

You absolutely can just bring yourself. Sometimes the whole tipping culture we live in can totally irritate me. If I pay $700 for fractora and expected to tip on top of that, it makes me not want to get fractora lol. So I understand not wanting to tip and I do charge what I want to make. I’m not like a waitress who is over worked and under paid dealing with rude customers all day long. I am very privileged that I can turn down clients I think won’t mesh with me.

I really love gifts, tips, flowers, and/or chocolates. I love the romance of being treated special.

I expect nothing and it doesn’t change my service or my feelings towards somebody if they bring nothing but a good attitude.

I understand the points being made about this work being more personal than a standard service, but at the end of the day it is still a service. Escorts are professionals. Their rates cover their time and the experience, and that should be the focus when booking.
For men reading, tipping or gifting is optional. If you enjoy doing it, then do it, but do not expect it to change the service. Yes, providers will always appreciate extra effort and will naturally act friendlier if it means easier money, that is part of the business. But the core service remains the same regardless.
From my experience, the best treatment comes from consistency and respect. Pay the rate without complaint, never haggle, treat the provider well, and book longer if you want more time. That is what builds a good relationship, not trying to buy extra attention with gifts.
The important thing to remember is that this is a business. Be respectful, pay what is asked, enjoy the time, and if you choose to add something on top do it because you want to, not because you expect something in return, this way no feelings will get hurt when reality actually happens.

 

[HunkyBill]

I understand the points being made about this work being more personal than a standard service, but at the end of the day it is still a service. Escorts are professionals. Their rates cover their time and the experience, and that should be the focus when booking.

I don't think you understand the concept of white knights and simping.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

I don't think you understand the concept of white knights and simpism.

Mansplain it

 

[grusse]

warm personality,sense of humour,,empathy,big bamboo,talented tongue,sexual skill and sensitivity.

snacks......oh yeah,,..cash!

 

[rinamood]

Pay the rate without complaint, never haggle, treat the provider well, and book longer if you want more time. That is what builds a good relationship, not trying to buy extra attention with gifts.

People can definitely buy extra attention with gifts and tips from me since you're right that SPs "will naturally act friendlier if it means easier money". I don't even have to be ACTING friendlier because I'd naturally be happier and friendlier since they'd put me in an extra good mood.

Even outside of industry, you can get a better deal if you develop a good working relationship with people. That may or may not include gifts, but always includes a good attitude. Why not buy extra attention with gifts? Everyone has always been doing it in other industries too. Would you think the gifts between kings back in the day were "just because", or would you know that it was to curry favour and receive perks? 👀

I don't think you understand the concept of white knights and simping.

I eat white knights and simps for breakfast 😘 Guys who want to do more to get more in a TRANSACTIONAL relationship? Sounds like a damn good deal to me 🥴 They aren't courting for marriage. Happy to have a sweeter attitude towards them while they're making me smile.

Some perb guy DMed me the other day saying he'd show me that he's "not like the other pooners" in session. I told him that he won't be different because my clients are better than most guys already 🍀 So idgaf how people look down on and label generous guys as "white knights and simps". They're the ones who put in that extra effort and may receive small privileges that aren't some mess of acronyms.

Simps & white knights not getting enough attention while throwing themselves at an SP? No problem! Choose someone it works on. It's that simple.

I love perb because we're genuinely agreeing with each other at the core, while sounding as if we may be fighting 😂 Being the proper & well-mannered client everyone is describing is bare minimum for me. Clients don't have to give gifts/tips or be extra nice to me, but I will choose the ones who do ✨ Why? It's good business AND I get to look forward to such repeat bookings even more 🩵 Winning all around.

Stay as thoughtful and extra as you enjoy, kings 👑 Efforts should be rewarded.

 

[Langleydude]

Damn. I should've brought flowers, chocolates, and other gifts besides cash to the naked ladies who gave me lap dances at the No5 Orange and Penthouse Cabaret back in the day. Maybe one of them could've been my ex?

Back in the day when my friends and I would go to the Paramount on Valentines Easter or Christmas we would either bring flowers (Valentines Day) or candy. The girls loved it and most of them would end up hanging out at our table when they weren't working the room. A little treat almost always put people in a good mood.

 

[Newuser505]

People can definitely buy extra attention with gifts and tips from me since you're right that SPs "will naturally act friendlier if it means easier money". I don't even have to be ACTING friendlier because I'd naturally be happier and friendlier since they'd put me in an extra good mood.

Even outside of industry, you can get a better deal if you develop a good working relationship with people. That may or may not include gifts, but always includes a good attitude. Why not buy extra attention with gifts? Everyone has always been doing it in other industries too. Would you think the gifts between kings back in the day were "just because", or would you know that it was to curry favour and receive perks? 👀



I eat white knights and simps for breakfast 😘 Guys who want to do more to get more in a TRANSACTIONAL relationship? Sounds like a damn good deal to me 🥴 They aren't courting for marriage. Happy to have a sweeter attitude towards them while they're making me smile.

Some perb guy DMed me the other day saying he'd show me that he's "not like the other pooners" in session. I told him that he won't be different because my clients are better than most guys already 🍀 So idgaf how people look down on and label generous guys as "white knights and simps". They're the ones who put in that extra effort and may receive small privileges that aren't some mess of acronyms.

Simps & white knights not getting enough attention while throwing themselves at an SP? No problem! Choose someone it works on. It's that simple.

I love perb because we're genuinely agreeing with each other at the core, while sounding as if we may be fighting 😂 Being the proper & well-mannered client everyone is describing is bare minimum for me. Clients don't have to give gifts/tips or be extra nice to me, but I will choose the ones who do ✨ Why? It's good business AND I get to look forward to such repeat bookings even more 🩵 Winning all around.

Stay as thoughtful and extra as you enjoy, kings 👑 Efforts should be rewarded.

It just makes sense to bring a small gift to SP upon visits.

You yourself charge 700 an hour. A small 7 dollar bubble tea investment will pay dividend by simply putting you in a better mood and make the session better by magnitudes.

Any time i repeat, I always bring something extra. That little extra to see a girl genuinely smile is well worth it.

 

[rinamood]

It just makes sense to bring a small gift to SP upon visits.

You yourself charge 700 an hour. A small 7 dollar bubble tea investment will pay dividend by simply putting you in a better mood and make the session better by magnitudes.

Any time i repeat, I always bring something extra. That little extra to see a girl genuinely smile is well worth it.

Exactly! It doesn't take an expensive or grand gesture to break the ice with someone new, or remind your regulars that you appreciate them.

It's strange that people are so opposed to what other clients could be doing creating these moments of joy. It always comes down to this kind of silly back-and-forth.... No one has to do anything they don't want to. Regardless of bonus gifts and tips, treat a lady nicely and she gives back tenfold over even in attitude alone. Nothing blooms more beautifully than a happy lady 🌹

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

People can definitely buy extra attention with gifts and tips from me since you're right that SPs "will naturally act friendlier if it means easier money". I don't even have to be ACTING friendlier because I'd naturally be happier and friendlier since they'd put me in an extra good mood.

Even outside of industry, you can get a better deal if you develop a good working relationship with people. That may or may not include gifts, but always includes a good attitude. Why not buy extra attention with gifts? Everyone has always been doing it in other industries too. Would you think the gifts between kings back in the day were "just because", or would you know that it was to curry favour and receive perks? 👀



I eat white knights and simps for breakfast 😘 Guys who want to do more to get more in a TRANSACTIONAL relationship? Sounds like a damn good deal to me 🥴 They aren't courting for marriage. Happy to have a sweeter attitude towards them while they're making me smile.

Some perb guy DMed me the other day saying he'd show me that he's "not like the other pooners" in session. I told him that he won't be different because my clients are better than most guys already 🍀 So idgaf how people look down on and label generous guys as "white knights and simps". They're the ones who put in that extra effort and may receive small privileges that aren't some mess of acronyms.

Simps & white knights not getting enough attention while throwing themselves at an SP? No problem! Choose someone it works on. It's that simple.

I love perb because we're genuinely agreeing with each other at the core, while sounding as if we may be fighting 😂 Being the proper & well-mannered client everyone is describing is bare minimum for me. Clients don't have to give gifts/tips or be extra nice to me, but I will choose the ones who do ✨ Why? It's good business AND I get to look forward to such repeat bookings even more 🩵 Winning all around.

Stay as thoughtful and extra as you enjoy, kings 👑 Efforts should be rewarded.

That whole response honestly reads like a sales brochure. Of course an escort is going to encourage men to bring extras, it is literally in their interest to make you believe a bubble tea or gift turns into better treatment. That is not them giving financial advice for your benefit, it is marketing for theirs.

I am not against anyone choosing to give more if it is their thing, but men should be clear eyed. The rate already covers the service. Anything above that does not magically buy more, it just makes the provider happier to take your money. If you want to put that extra effort and money into something more personal, it will go a lot further with a woman outside of sex work where the connection can still be transactional in some ways, but there is also genuine potential behind it. With a working woman it is one hundred percent business, always. My posts are not to attack the ladies here, they are to remind the guys not to get tricked into thinking generosity guarantees better service. Respect and consistency is what matters, not “bonus spending.”

Disclaimer: I am not here to fight with anyone, just sharing my perspective. If anything I said came across the wrong way, that is not my intention. I will step back if needed, I am simply trying to have a thoughtful debate.

 

[rinamood]

The rate already covers the service. Anything above that does not magically buy more, it just makes the provider happier to take your money....

My posts are not to attack the ladies here, they are to remind the guys not to get tricked into thinking generosity guarantees better service. Respect and consistency is what matters, not “bonus spending.”

Disclaimer: I am not here to fight with anyone, just sharing my perspective. If anything I said came across the wrong way, that is not my intention. I will step back if needed, I am simply trying to have a thoughtful debate.

There's no debate, don't worry! I'm very passionate about clients deserving more when they choose to put in more efforts 🔥 I'm told that I may sound upset or aggressive sometimes though so I get where you're coming from.

I'm here to remind the guys to choose wisely, and put in your efforts with those who reward you for them ✨ My suggestions were BBT, cute envelopes containing my rate, and wishlist items if they want to get them for me 😅 I'm not going to be pretend that gifts/tips and sweet gestures don't make a difference in my day; we're human too, so my mood being uplifted by an extra sprinkle of joy is only natural.

We're each coming from a completely different place where I'm an SP happy to receive knowing that I give back, and you're warning people of those other people who couldn't care less about these gestures. We both want the best for all potential clients at the core 👏

That whole response honestly reads like a sales brochure.

I hope I do read like a "casual" sales girlie in every post. The same way my emails read like admin with a touch of humanization - it's difficult because I sometimes do admin like a bot 🥴 It's my job here to share my genuine opinions & experiences, while speaking up for my desired clientele 😇

It works really well for getting the type of client I enioy the most, keeping my job sustainable so I can take care of them until they've got other things to do 🩵 Meanwhile, it pushes away those I wouldn't have the best chemistry with.

 

[chitown]

I understand the points being made about this work being more personal than a standard service, but at the end of the day it is still a service. Escorts are professionals. Their rates cover their time and the experience, and that should be the focus when booking.
For men reading, tipping or gifting is optional. If you enjoy doing it, then do it, but do not expect it to change the service. Yes, providers will always appreciate extra effort and will naturally act friendlier if it means easier money, that is part of the business. But the core service remains the same regardless.
From my experience, the best treatment comes from consistency and respect. Pay the rate without complaint, never haggle, treat the provider well, and book longer if you want more time. That is what builds a good relationship, not trying to buy extra attention with gifts.
The important thing to remember is that this is a business. Be respectful, pay what is asked, enjoy the time, and if you choose to add something on top do it because you want to, not because you expect something in return, this way no feelings will get hurt when reality actually happens.

Have you not interacted with any type of service worker before? A server at a restaurant, a barista, or a bartender, etc? You can be the most regular customer ever but I bet you the other regular who comes just as often but also nice enough to leave a tip is the one who gets the better service. They'll smile more when they see you, chat you with more, and generally be more pleasant to be around.

Not doing that doesn't mean they'll refuse you service, but if you only put in the bare minimum you GET the bare minimum.

You keep saying being respectful and paying what is asked... THAT'S TO BE EXPECTED. That's not exceptional.
PERB constantly has guys showing disrespect or making rate complaints and that's a black mark on them, but just because you clear the incredible low bar doesn't mean you're setting a high one.

Bring some flowers to the next lady you book, see what kind of difference it makes. What SPs offer is so intimate, why would you not want to put in a little more effort just to brighten their day, you seriously don't think your own experience would be improved if their in a happier mood in the session? At the end of the day SPs are PEOPLE. And wouldn't you know it... people treat you better if they like you.

 

[rottweiler]

I don't think you understand the concept of white knights and simping.

Wow, what a cynical view. Is everything in your life this black and white? Expressing some gratitude to another human being is automatically some sort of weakness?

 

[Newuser505]

That whole response honestly reads like a sales brochure. Of course an escort is going to encourage men to bring extras, it is literally in their interest to make you believe a bubble tea or gift turns into better treatment. That is not them giving financial advice for your benefit, it is marketing for theirs.

I am not against anyone choosing to give more if it is their thing, but men should be clear eyed. The rate already covers the service. Anything above that does not magically buy more, it just makes the provider happier to take your money. If you want to put that extra effort and money into something more personal, it will go a lot further with a woman outside of sex work where the connection can still be transactional in some ways, but there is also genuine potential behind it. With a working woman it is one hundred percent business, always. My posts are not to attack the ladies here, they are to remind the guys not to get tricked into thinking generosity guarantees better service. Respect and consistency is what matters, not “bonus spending.”

Disclaimer: I am not here to fight with anyone, just sharing my perspective. If anything I said came across the wrong way, that is not my intention. I will step back if needed, I am simply trying to have a thoughtful debate.

It doesnt hurt to be considerate. Everyone like gifts. Everyone like to be thanked.

If human decency requires debate, than we are in trouble.

 

[Pumped]

We're each coming from a completely different place where I'm an SP happy to receive knowing that I give back, and you're warning people of those other people who couldn't care less about these gestures. We both want the best for all potential clients at the core 👏

It doesnt hurt to be considerate. Everyone like gifts. Everyone like to be thanked.

If human decency requires debate, than we are in trouble.

This isn't about that -- it's about the expectations that are created by saying "to get better service you need to bring gifts". At what point do those expectations cross a line from 'gee, be nice and give her flowers' to 'I gave her flowers she better appreciate it in some way!' ?

And I've been around long enough to hear lots of horror stories from guys who didn't know the difference between a business relationship and a personal one.

There was a guy who used to post reviews and humble-bragged about his unit and that wasn't the problem ... it was his attitude that somehow he should get more because of it. That somehow SPs should be so blessed and impressed by it that they would agree to things that they likely did not want to agree to.

Do things for others because you like to do them. Too many people expect something in return. That can become a problem very quickly with some people.

 

[Okanaganguy1985]

Have you not interacted with any type of service worker before? A server at a restaurant, a barista, or a bartender, etc? You can be the most regular customer ever but I bet you the other regular who comes just as often but also nice enough to leave a tip is the one who gets the better service. They'll smile more when they see you, chat you with more, and generally be more pleasant to be around.

Not doing that doesn't mean they'll refuse you service, but if you only put in the bare minimum you GET the bare minimum.

You keep saying being respectful and paying what is asked... THAT'S TO BE EXPECTED. That's not exceptional.
PERB constantly has guys showing disrespect or making rate complaints and that's a black mark on them, but just because you clear the incredible low bar doesn't mean you're setting a high one.

Bring some flowers to the next lady you book, see what kind of difference it makes. What SPs offer is so intimate, why would you not want to put in a little more effort just to brighten their day, you seriously don't think your own experience would be improved if their in a happier mood in the session? At the end of the day SPs are PEOPLE. And wouldn't you know it... people treat you better if they like you.

I get the idea of flowers, but to me that kind of gesture is meant for a real personal connection. I value gifting too much to do it in a transactional setting where there is no short or long term potential beyond the booking. For me, flowers or gifts are for someone I am dating, in a relationship with, or building something with. That is where the gesture actually means something and creates value on both sides.
From my perspective, I was raised in Europe though so maybe western society is different.

With sex work, the value is already set in the rate and the services agreed to for that rare , for example At 1000 an hour, I expect the level of service to match, and in my experience it always has without extras.
it’s better for me to book with higher rated women who don’t do larger volumes so I will get the service I want ,
Respect, consistency, and repeat bookings go further than a bouquet that is tossed out the next day.