What do they really think of us pooners?

[Feenix]

I watched this video a few days ago, and it got me thinking about my relationships with providers, and wondering what they really think of me. After all, how many 19 - 35 year old women really want to screw a man who is several decades older than her?

The introduction of "Fat Bob" into the video, and the girls' feelings about him makes me think of another very over weight pooner who likes to project that he is a gift for the ladies, If only he knew.

Perhaps I should be looking into a mirror and say, "If only you knew!!

I submit this to start a conversation on the subject.

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[johnniejetpack]

thanks feenix for the post.. very interesting. I know every girl would love a 25 year old brad pitt... but Brad doesn't need an sp so here we are hahahah. I would love to visit this place, however the girls aren't beauty queens either. I doubt any of them will get contracts with victorias secret or chanel.

I do feel sorry for the girls sometimes, especially the one that says the guy has warts on his dick... but she still has to do her job. I respect that. Sometimes they get a fat bob and it doesn't matter what the girls think. They still have sex with him. Good for Bob!!! These girls are adults and they need to go elsewhere if its not working for them. A harsh reality of the job.

peace out boyz and grrrls.... and be safe out there

 

[UhOh]

Your question is how many 19 year old girls really want to screw a fat Bob thats decades older than her? Okay I'll play along and pretend that's a serious question.
I'm going to guess 0.001% of 19-95 year old providers want to fuck a fat Bob. The ones that do are likely high.

Remember when you were in your earlier 20 how many of your grandma's fat bingo playing partners were you beating off too? Zero? Yeah that's what I thought.

 

[Dean7319]

I'm not watching this video or ever coming back to this thread :decision:

 

[susi]

don't be so hard on yourselves men....goodness gracious....

 

[Elmore]

The most successful women in this industry have to be great actresses and the most content pooners have to be incredibly naive or simply live in a world where it's easy to suspend disbelief.

I suspect the popularity of the 30 minutes and less sessions is due to an escort and pooners ability to be or do the aforementioned.

 

[take8easy]

Escorting is far from being the worst job in the world.. But it isn't all sunshine and roses either. It's emotionally, psychologically and spiritually taxing to be intimate with numerous men who you otherwise wouldn't be fucking if you weren't getting paid. This line of work can be lucrative, especially for ladies with the ability to act and disassociate. But it definitely isn't easy money.

I couldn't agree more. I have utmost respect for what you girls do and you said it bang on. The money is good but you have to 'swallow' some stuff with a pinch or rather pinches of salt.

Despite the fact that males are wired to like sex and we men think we would just f** anything with a vagina. But would we? Really? I know it would sound funny coming from a man, but personally speaking, even I would't be willing to be in bed with some women I see on the street. I once saw an SP much older than me. Sex was great, but I just couldn't look at her body and .... stay turned on. I kept looking away. Despite good service, I never went back. Heck, when I look in the mirror, I think to myself that even I wouldn't be intimate with myself if I was a 20 something girl.

Yes, girls get paid well (most of them), but they have to ignore tons of fat, grey hair, missing teeth, scars on bodies, sweat, bo, wrinkled skin and all sorts of sexual fetishes and still pretend to be completely turned on gf. ............ and I am glad that they do.

 

[badbadboy]

Escorting is far from being the worst job in the world.. But it isn't all sunshine and roses either. It's emotionally, psychologically and spiritually taxing to be intimate with numerous men who you otherwise wouldn't be fucking if you weren't getting paid. This line of work can be lucrative, especially for ladies with the ability to act and disassociate. But it definitely isn't easy money.

Well said Miss Hunter.

I viewed that youtube a while ago and thought, wow those poor women having to deal with fat Bob's needy personality and childlike behaviour. Obviously having clients like fat bob would make an SP re evaluate how much psychological BS they could tolerate from him. I am not even thinking about his physical appearance, just how he comes across verbally with the resort and the women.

 

[tiger69]

It's not just escorts. True story: I used to go to this Chinese restaurant alot, and back then whenever I walked past their door on the way to work, the owner would rush out and chat and all smiles. My gf said, "They really like you." I said, "No, they like my money, the day I stop going there, they'll stop doing this." Fast forward a few years, I have found a new restaurant, better food, cheaper, so I stopped eating there, and now I don't even get a hello even if the owner walks past me on the street lol. It's like me giving my business to them for over 13 years previously don't mean a thing any more. So, don't speculate too much on it. As long as you're clean and respectful, just have fun and take the lies.

 

[bean1975]

Well, this is the age old question, isn't it. I try to visit such providers that certainly do this on their own volition. I know I am slightly overweight, balding -- no Prad Pitt for sure. But it is their choice and if they decide to accept my money ... hope they know what they are doing.

 

[take8easy]

It's not just escorts. True story: I used to go to this Chinese restaurant alot, and back then whenever I walked past their door on the way to work, the owner would rush out and chat and all smiles. My gf said, "They really like you." I said, "No, they like my money, the day I stop going there, they'll stop doing this." Fast forward a few years, I have found a new restaurant, better food, cheaper, so I stopped eating there, and now I don't even get a hello even if the owner walks past me on the street lol. It's like me giving my business to them for over 13 years previously don't mean a thing any more. So, don't speculate too much on it. As long as you're clean and respectful, just have fun and take the lies.

At the end of the day, it is a business transaction, isn't it? You pay, and be respectful and you get served well !!! Everyone goes home happy.

 

[Elmore]

It really highlights why some women screen clients for age, weight, nationality, etc.

Those who don't screen thoroughly may intentionally or not provide mediocre service to undesirable clients they hope never return.

 

[westwoody]

I don't know what I am doing wrong. I am still very good friends with a couple of ladies that have long retired.

Maybe if you go into it thinking of it as nothing but a monetary transaction then that is exactly what it will be.

 

[voodooking]

This video is disturbing on many levels and very hard to watch. :fear:
Without money " Fat Bob " would never get to touch a women in his life. :nono:

SPs have a very difficult job especially when they have to deal with clients like that. uke:

 

[whitemoustache]

Thank you, Angela! I was happy to provide a photo and a reference when a lady asked, but that is where it stopped. She replied that she would see me, and I was flattered.:typing:

 

[Caramel]

yes I saw this documentary a while ago, first it reminded me of tant (the title and theme)...the worst part of it all, is that the women have no 1 hour time limit! they are stuck for the entire duration of the trip, for days or weeks! ouch

 

[UhOh]

Without money " Fat Bob " would never get to touch a women in his life. :nono:

What about that theory that women like a confident man?

 

[sevenofnine]

I kind of think its mutual,
we sort of have a love hate relationship with each other.

its hard to explain,

but sps have said most of us are creeps or disgusting or simply pathetic,
maybe only ten percent are nice guys,

us guys thing the girls are broken damaged gold diggers.
my sp told me once, when she meets former clients in the mall or somewhere, and there all former clients now, she is retired more or less.
she feels their loathing eyes.

the truth is we kind of need each other.
but in some ways resent each other I think,


and the honest truth is, what do you expect perfection from a girl who will fuck any one for money,
and well us guys, what do you expect from us, money is easy, easy as throw some money down and fuck her and not give a shit, not wanting to give a shit, lying to or wife's, or too messed up to ever have a wife.

were both sort of trapped I think,,


a reformed sp told me once if you love your self you don't sell your sell.
I kind of think you don't buy someone either.
it works both ways.


at some point, for both of us, I think it comes down to self esteem,
is that all I'm a cunt for someone to fuck,

is that the only way I can get a women is to pay her,

I think some people don't care they really don't

but I think most of us at some point do care about our self esteem.
and of course its never our fault so it has to be the other person involved in all of this.
there wrong screwed up messed up, not I heavens no not I.

what I'm proud of what I have enjoyed after 11 years in this
is my continued friendship with a certain sp, not at all the sex I have had,

 

[voodooking]

There is a difference between being confident and being delusional.

Fat Bob needs a fat wallet because no woman would fuck him for free no matter how confident he thinks he is.

That is the " sugar free " truth.

What about that theory that women like a confident man?

 

[Claire Monet]

I do feel sorry for the girls sometimes, especially the one that says the guy has warts on his dick... but she still has to do her job. I respect that. Sometimes they get a fat bob and it doesn't matter what the girls think. They still have sex with him. Good for Bob!!! These girls are adults and they need to go elsewhere if its not working for them. A harsh reality of the job.

peace out boyz and grrrls.... and be safe out there

Really? You respect a woman who would continue with bbbj/fs if she notices warts on a client's dick? That would be an immediate stop for anyone who has self-respect and respect for their clients, imo. Part of being safe, as you quoted, is staying away from visible lesions.

Haven't watched the video though I can say that we as providers meet people from all walks of life and personally I pride myself in accepting people where they are in their stage of life. Warts and all? Well, figuratively speaking.